Bad smells - Nothing's quite as much of a mood-killer as when an otherwise stunning woman smells like she fell into yak piss when she takes her knickers off. Same thing goes for overly-chemical smells.
Laziness - I'm so SICK of hearing women talk about how bad a lot of men are in bed and then they just want the guy to do all the work. Good GOD, do SOMETHING! Sex is the most physically demanding exercise there is, not to mention the mental aspect of it. If we've been busting our humps for an hour and you've been lounging about, of course YOU'RE still going to be rested.
Direct eye contact 100% of the time - We're not going to bolt for the door if you blink, honest.
SILENCE - How would you feel if you had worked really hard on a meal or gift or whatever for someone, and they didn't even tell you that they liked it? And if you don't tell us WHAT you want in bed then don't get pissed off if we don't give it to you. Even if the one difference between men and women held the ability to read your mind, our penis is otherwise at the time, currently preoccupied.
>>>Edit for some new ones I thought of and to add some of the ones I see and like from here:
Passing gas - yeah that kinda goes without saying, but seeing as how it's not always something that you can control, it doesn't really fit in with the rest of My list.
Potty break - taking a half an hour in the bathroom beforehand or even worse, right in the middle of sex. If you need to take care of whatever you do in there, do it before you start getting us revved up and ready to go.
Hi! My name is... - Don't ever, ever, EVER call out somebody else's name during sex! (I just wondered something, if you call out "Oh God!" during sex with an atheist, is that like calling out a different woman's name? And what do they call out? "Oh scientific explanation for everything!")
Vote of confidence - This goes along with calling out somebody else's name, don't give a guy shite about how he is in bed if you ever want to sleep with him again. Actually, just don't give him shite about it period. Not only does it shatter his confidence and potentially scar the guy for life but, can also make you look a little... "overqualified" is a nice way of putting it. Oh you can TALK to him about how to make sex better for the both of you, but you have to be REAL careful how you go about it.1 0 0 0When she acts like a dormant partner and lays like a dead person... It's a serious turn off for a guy.
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Guys your age can be hard for a good long time, even after they cum. The key to good sex is to remember that sex is as much mental as it is physical. Be smiling, happy, positive, encouraging, eager, excited and extremely enthusiastic. Thoroughly enjoy yourself. It's contagious. He'll feel your joy. You'll both have fun and a good time together. Getting good at blow jobs takes time to learn. Practice makes perfect. (Everyone is different, so what works for one guy might not work for another.) Sit down together with him and have a long loving, frank, open, honest discussion of his and your sexual fetishes, kinks, wants, needs and desires. Then you'll have some things to work on together. :)
0 1 0 0Well, if he came he would have ejaculated and you would have noticed either the ejaculate or the taste of it in your mouth.
Taking him in deep and/or deep throating is not necessary to giving a good blowjob. Also you'll get better at it with more practice as you learn over time what moves he likes.
Most guys would say a girl is bad in bed if she just lies there and thinks of England. So one who lies there like a dead fish and doesn't even vocalize.
My advice, don't overthink it. If you're into it, into having sex with him, chances are you aren't bad. You could always ask him if there are things he likes that you're not doing.0 0 0 0If she doesn't do anything and expects the guy to do all the work
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2 9You ask for explicit instructions on everything how he likes it
0 0 0 0Lying like a corpse, being on mute, bad BJ or HJ technique, moving clumsy, not willing to try positions, always wanting the lights of.
0 0 0 0If he came it would be pretty obvious. Guys can't fake it. Honestly a girl has to try hard to be bad in bed.
0 1 0 0hope u enjoyed it
0 0 0 0she literally just lays there, lacks mouth skills, can't ride well.
0 3 0 0When she lays there like a dead fish
0 0 0 0No effort
0 3 0 0like a dead hole.
0 0 0 0nice
0 0 0 0acting like a dead body
0 0 0 0If she lays there like a starfish
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