What makes a good submissive man according to you?

[FootfetishistBoy]

[dynamicyandere]

A good submissive man, as in a good male submissive?


I’m demisexual, so I would be with my partner regardless of their gender.


As a Dominant, traits I would want would included these:


1. First and foremost, a “good” submissive is a true submissive. Meaning, they genuinely feel happy and fulfilled being submissive to their partner. Submitting to their partner should be something that they truly enjoy doing. If they do not genuinely like expressing their love through submission, then being a submissive is not for them. They may still be a bottom, but being a submissive would not be a good fit (yes, there is a difference between being a sub and being a bottom).


2. A “good” submissive is always respectful towards their Dominant. Depending on the dynamic, there may or may not be room for some cheekiness, but it all should be communicated prior and agreed upon.


3. The two above are pretty much universal. Now, I’ll list some other traits that are also good to have:
* Loyal
* Diligent
* Sincere
* Comforting
* Obedient
* Supportive
* Eager
* Attentive
* Polite
* Helpful


4. Now for some things that are more personal preference:
* Knows how to be serious AND knows how to have fun.
* Is great company to be around—an excellent listener and enjoyable to chat with.
* Has very high libido, yet still absolutely loyal.


That’s my list of things. For me, this would still apply with M/F, F/M, F/F, or M/M.

[Guy13]

No idea... can one "make a good one" or is one born with those attributes?

[FootfetishistBoy]

It depends i think.

[FootfetishistBoy]

I mean you can be a natural submissive or be trained to be.

[Guy13]

Well now this has been informative. The "no back chat" ANON kills me.

[Anonymous]

I actually strongly prefer my man to dominate me in bed. Him being submissive just isn't nearly as hot

[FootfetishistBoy]

Everyone has their own preferences. You do you. But even a dominant man can be somehow submissive outside of the bed. Just the simple act of opening the door for you, or giving you flowers is submissive.

[Mia-Wallace]

I don't know. I'm a sub. Can't be with a submissive.

[FootfetishistBoy]

Understandable

[erin_ireland]

Submissive guys are not so hot after a while, the sex gets dull because there's no seduction anymore. Own experience

[Miristheiss]

It is not in most men's nature to be submissive.

[Anonymous]

One who knows his place, doesn't argue and never backchats. 😂

[FootfetishistBoy]

Good points 😏