Guys, What makes a guy cum so fast every time you have sex?

[Anonymous]

OK so I've been with this guy for over a year and I do love him but everytime we have sex he cums fast I mean its still good but I wish it could last longer so my question is fellas why do y'all do this is it the pussy or the woman? I mean is it too intense I've noticed that when I start moaning he loses control but it feels so good I can't help buy react to him but then he nuts..(bummer) I mean what am I doing wrong after a year + I thought he would be used to me... I need answers.

[ChotuBana]

There is no problem with your partener and also nothing wrong with you , if you watch porn then you will see that the pornstars last longer about an hour without cuming but thats not real

At an average intercourse last for about 20-30 minutes and if you include cudling , licking then the above mentioned duration can be extended... Guys come prior because they are genitically more sensitive to sex.
Ask him for oral session and then licking and then cudling then when you feel edging then go for anal this will help you both to cum at same time... Good luck

[Asker]

Great reply

[ChotuBana]

yo thanks

[Bishop-Brennan]

You should try having him be on his back and riding him. But just get your weight down on him and grind instead of bouncing it'll still feel great and should hopefully help him last a bit as its less immediate stimulation.

[Asker]

I ride really good so that excited him even more 😩😩

[Asker]

Excites*

[Asker]

I move in different ways when I'm on top o just don't bounce on it I'm not 16 lol

[Bishop-Brennan]

I meant just keep it to the grinding sorry. Just read a couple of the other comments, I've found that wanking can be detrimental to how long you can last. If you do it too much it can put you on a hair trigger because you get kind of used to knocking them out. Good luck with it anyways.

[The_Bearded]

Have him masturbate prior to intercourse, 3-4 hours before hand. If that doesn’t work, try using a cock ring to prolong ejaculation. Make sure to build up his confidence on how using one is “hot”
Hope that helps.

[Asker]

I most definitely try to build up his confidence he doesn't know that him cumming fast bothers me I don't want to hurt his feelings

[The_Bearded]

Honesty is the best policy, however the male ego is very fragile when it comes to sexual longevity and penis size. Try this. Tell him that you would like to try something new. Have him pleasure himself in front of you, cheer him on and tell him that once he is done you will take care of him. Give it about 30 minutes to an hour and then intercourse.

[MrNameless]

Do you guys go for rounds? First time its easy for a guy to cum.. But after a couple of minutes, he can go back again and it will take longer.

[MrNameless]

He needs to control it himself as well. That's the main thing. Could be condoms, some kind of cream.. or round 2. The tip of head of his penis can also be pinched to make him lose his erection and get it back again

[Asker]

Yes tried that too same result... I give up

[Rexnine9]

Could you cum first with mutual masturbation or him fingering or eating you?
How do you cum when you masterbate? How does he?

Pease , Following

[Steelbonds]

You need to get him off before you go into the actual sex. The first time a day is the. Bursting and small one, after that it takes a while to work them to cum once more. So get him off before you havr sex.

[Asker]

I think you are right I'm going to try again

[EdwardMoon]

It's a combination of both woman and sensation of your pussy but it could also be due to his diet and excercise cause those can drastically hinder performance though if he isn't lasting that long you can always ride his face

[Asker]

I'm not really into oral sex.. I love giving it just not receiving I mean I have tbh this has happened with every boyfriend I've ever had and I'm just trying to enjoy it without having to hold back in fear of them cumming so fast

[Asker]

I meant without fear lol

[EdwardMoon]

You shouldn't have to hold back though if you make them cum with a blow job than have sex than their bound to last longer

[Asker]

That's doesn't work because he doesn't want to cum off of head first but he has jacked off right before sex and it still doesn't last long hell it takes him longer to cum during jacking than sex like way longer

[EdwardMoon]

Than I guess having sex with you feel pretty intense

[Asker]

I don't know really that's why I'm asking u guys lol maybe you guys have never went through this

[EdwardMoon]

Well it's probably his diet and excercise cause that something that had me shooting too soon awhile back

[kdarknesss]

Every guy is different. There are exercises a guy can do to help with premature ejaculation. I have never had this problem but I have been doing the exercises never since I started masterbating it's called edging look it up and talk to your man about it. I know it has helped my friend. Also yes an uncircumcised penis is more sensitive. And that will make him cum faster. But Everytime is different.

[s2firestar]

How fast is fast here?

[Asker]

1 or 2 minutes maybe 3

[Asker]

Basically not very many strokes

[s2firestar]

That's premature ejaculation. He needs to see a doctor.

[Asker]

Then a lot of men must be suffering from that

[s2firestar]

Under 1-1.5 minute is a medical condition and needs to be treated. The rest? Too bad for you. Try having the guy wear desensitivising condoms.

[Asker]

That's a good idea... I will try those condoms... I've noticed with regular magnums he can last 5 minutes if we keep switching positions but if we make love raw yep 2 minutes of penetration is all I get.

[s2firestar]

They are coated with lidocaine. Make sure that he has no allergies. 2 minutes is only enough if he gives a really good foreplay. Oh. That reminds me. No foreplay for him. Don't pull on it, don't suck it, do nothing.

[Asker]

Lmfao ur funny and cocky

[Asker]

And I was being sarcastic on my reply when I said that

[Asker]

His foreplay is excellent!

[s2firestar]

Thanks, but I was not joking >.> If you want to squeeze the most out of him (pun intended), you need to go around factoring in that he might cum from an angry glare. That said, he needs to put some effort in as well. There are things he could do to improve his time. I can't offer exact advice on that, but google is your friend. And his.

[CaptainLegal]

He needs practice, start and stop and foreplay.

[Asker]

Oh I hate that I like to start off with a good amount of foreplay then penetrarion I don't want him to stop once he is in me trust me its frustrating to us women when u guys do that

[CaptainLegal]

I know but this is one way to last longer, you can use toys, slow down or he can think something else.

[Poormanscomedian]

Tightness is the cause

[Asker]

Hmmm I've never been told I was tight by any guy not even my new love but every single guy I've ever been with didn't last very long and I've been with 17 guys in my lifetime

[Poormanscomedian]

17? quite a few

[Asker]

That's not that many lol

[Poormanscomedian]

What is?

[Asker]

30 40 50,100

[Ghostwalker]

He needs a numbing lotion for his cock.