What makes men loving dominant dangerous agressive kink?

I ran a test on this gag to see how many people respond to toxic or dark concept of sexual. Majority of men were excited about that. Why? What is so great about being dominant in bed, bdsm, rape that men enjoy? I don't want to know about men who doesn't. I know about them. I want the reason behind who ever love it why do they
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  • First of all you are injecting a lot of unjustified judgement with 'dangerous', 'aggressive' 'kink', 'toxic' and 'dark concept' of sexual (what?). It is indicating an unrealistic and exaggerated fear of sex being a physical activity.

    I have even seen it written that couples who use the missionary position should have a safeword. For God's Sake! This is like insisting that every hot tap should have signage above it "The hot water tap may be HOT". Or perhaps above every bed "Sex may involve penile penetration of vaginas".

    First, men being dominant in sex is not a kink any more than penile penetration is. Clearly penetration is majority male dominant. If you watched mammals mating it is clearly male dominant. The bull/stallion runs the down the heifer/filly both of whom seem to get something out of being rundown. The heifer/filly stands to be mounted but could just walk away if they wanted.

    Mamamalian sex is inherently male dominant is the short answer. The second part is that evolution rewards good behavior with dopamine hits. So yes I get a dopamine hit in sexually dominating women. It has this good job feel. :)

    It is not unusual to see a young girl provoking her boy to run her down in the park or on the beach. It all looks very similar to bulls and heifers. Girlfriends seem to be quite pleased when the boyfriend has sudden controlling lust for her.

    Society might change change it's sexual mores from time to time but you can't change the sex circuitry in our male and female brains.

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    • No completely unmarried and never have been.

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  • This is very much a good question indeed. I often times wonder myself what is so intriguing to so many men regarding this. It’s certainly not something in which I have any interest in whatsoever. To me sex is about a loving and romantic act. Not something where I beat the shit out of the woman that I’m supposed to treat well, love, and protect. Or some sadistic torturous act involving sexual perversion.

    I believe much of it stems from the degradation of society in general. It’s multi faceted. With all the video games and Hollywood style entertainment that glorifies murder, torture, and violence in general, and desensitizes people toward such behaviors. There’s also the aspect that people are dehumanized and objectified through modern fashion, porn, and all the other counterfeit ideas that are contrary to true natural human behaviors of emotion, love, and feelings.

    If there’s no inherent value placed on a person, then it’s easy to just treat her like a piece of meat or a doormat, or even lesser. It’s complete and utter selfishness.

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  • Power. We are a powerless species so fantasies of power give us a sort of desperate excitement. But this is particularly true of men because we are expected to be the powerful gender that can defeat enemies and predators.

    • So rape? Assult? Slave treatment? Humiliation? In sex

    • Fantasies of it, perhaps. Men who fantasize about rape are ultimately fantasizing about showing a woman how powerful he is. And women who fantasize about being raped, I suspect, are ultimately fantasizing about being noticed by a powerful man. When it comes to these things in real life, however, my guess is there is a crack in a guy's mind that makes him insist his fantasies could seep into reality if he just took a leap of faith.

  • In order to make sexuality fulfilling, it is necessary to try more and more things, to push one's limits a little, otherwise monotony takes over, so with the consent of both you can push yourself to explore new facets of sexuality

    The reasons for liking these things can be many, some like to assert their dominance, others like to be submissive, etc.

    However, it must be remembered that in all things setting limits and boundaries is indispensable in order not to incur unpleasant consequences, including psychological ones.

  • Desire to have sole control over both parties pleasure. It makes it more intense if she enjoys it as well. But I don’t do rape. That’s incompatible with consent.

  • Kinda powerful, angry rage

  • It's in the males dna. Across most species males will have to excert power and dominance in order to build his kingdom and family. Wolves have to fight eachother for leading the pact, lions do the same for rights to breed, monkeys defer to their leader etc. Violence in the right proportions translate to control which means safety and prosparity... If the dominant leader is competent.

  • Well... I guess it has to do with testosterone and the rush of power you feel while degrading someone. I feel a rush of adrenaline when hitting a girl (it is consensual). So it is not only sexual arousal. I wonder at the same time what makes women enjoy being that submissive, but I'm not a psychologist

    • Would you find it enjoyable to hit a submissive guy, in a non sexual manner?

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    I don't think your even a female

  • it isa hunger deep inside

  • This is actually more a female thing than a male one. Studies show the majority of women have rape fantasies. If you look at the most popular porn categories for men and women you'll see that rough sex, bondage and gang bang are on women's short list, but not men's.

    https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2F9okmwvy5j0t91.png%3Fauto%3Dwebp%26s%3D65ab9b860c42f2d01c51c241eb9a2a21cd7a31d5

    The reality is that both women and men prefer men to be dominant and women to be submissive during sex. It's human nature


  • Most men are into it only if the women is into it in the first place like how you sounded in your question