What makes men submissive in bed?

[marish01]

It's definitely b)

Look at cucks and doormats. They will go down on women even some of them prefer the women dirty and sweaty. This type of men don't want to get sucked nor do they want to penetrate as it shows domination over women. The only way they get their dick stimualted is handjob lol. And that is only when she sits on his dumb face.

[EricSummer]

A guy who licks his woman's pussy and then fucks her is not submissive. It is not every man's preference to get sucked. Some prefer to get to to the fucking instead.

Do not forget that it is in general more difficult for a woman to come than for a man. His tongue and both partner's fingers may play an important role in pleasuring her. For the man himself it can be much simpler.

Importantly, even a guy who shows dominance in bed may show care for the woman who submits to him so that she can have a pleasurable experience.

[marish01]

Licking the part where piss come from is not dominant at all

[loveslongnails]

According to your illogic, you shouldn't let a man penetrate you with a bare penis because piss comes of it! And women shouldn't give blow jobs because... wait for it... piss comes out of that same penis! And think of how dirty your mouth is - tongue kissing has got to go too. LOL

[marish01]

@loveslongnails I was talking abput submissiveness. Feminine submissiveness is hot

[EricSummer]

@marish01 - I can understand that a submissive woman might not want to see the man in this position and activity. The same is not right for everyone. Some flexibility is best to give it to her the way she needs it.

[loveslongnails]

I see. So it's ok for a woman for lick a cock where the piss comes out, but not for a man to lick a clitoris area where the piss comes out. Is that what you're saying?

[EricSummer]

@loveslongnails - Do you mean me or @marish01? Of course, both are equally fine and traces of urine are not dangerous. We were just talking about sexual relations with a difference of power. Marish01 was pointing out that giving oral always feels like a submissive gesture to her. For me it's important not to limit the pleasure, but I can also see her point.

[loveslongnails]

That was for Marish. Her point seems to be that feminine submission is hot, so it's ok suck where the piss comes from. She's also insinuating that even a Dominant male would never want to go down on a female and lick her vag area - because "real men" don't lick anywhere near where the pee comes from, and that would automatically mean he's submissive and not dominant. So according to Marish, "real men" don't go down on women, they just fuck them, but real women go down on real men because that's feminine and hot. That's her view and she's entitled to it. I say it's bullshit.

[marish01]

@loveslongnails I wouldn't want to see/feel him go down on me. That's a no for me.

[marish01]

@ericsummer that is a submissive act. The positions of cuni make a man look ugly. Think about them and imagine a male body. Not to mention how ugly his face is while slurping lol. I have seen it on porn and it made me either laugh or feel turn off

[loveslongnails]

We know that, I was clarifying it for Mr. Summer. For the men who hate going down on a woman, you're great. For those who actually enjoy, you're not. For some men, it would be a deal breaker much the same as a woman who refuses to give head would be.

[marish01]

@loveslongnails as long as he doesn't insist or force then I'm fine regardless how much he loves it.

[loveslongnails]

Your first choice is based on a subjective misconception, and it's a big one. Letting the other person "take charge" or lead and submit to their sexual will at that moment doesn't mean you "lay back and do nothing". Doesn't matter who's taking charge, submissive doesn't mean you lay there. It never has, and it never will.

[marish01]

That is why I offered 2 options for voting

[loveslongnails]

That's not much of a "choice" either. LOL

[marish01]

Define a submissive partner

[Apple1996]

Men that like letting the woman take control. Which I have no problem with since I prefer being in control most of the time

[marish01]

If a man wants to be kissed and touched all over but doesn't prefer to go down on her. Is he submissive or dominant?

[Apple1996]

Any man that doesn't want to go down on a woman is trash

[marish01]

I would say a real man.

[Apple1996]

Nah a trash man that is most likely gay

[marish01]

Is a woman who refuses to suck a dick a trash woman that is most likely gay?

[Apple1996]

Yessss

[EmmaMary]

Just my sheer feminine seductiveness can make my husband go weak at the knees!

[marish01]

That makes him want to kiss/touch you or be kissed/touched by you?

[EmmaMary]

Obviously both.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[RobT312]

Not sure it’s a common thing , there has to be some dominance for sex

[Berethor]

Kissing, touching and riding? technically all those things are submissive, but a one-sided oral to a woman is most submissive.

[MementoMori777]

i see you dont like cucks either 😂

[marish01]

The only peoppe I loathe more than cucks are rapists and murderers.

[MementoMori777]

i have a feeling you loathe a lot of stuff, seems like a long list marish 😆

[marish01]

True. But cucks are in the top 3

[MementoMori777]

can't blame you lol

[MikeTheBartender]

I usually face fuck my girls, choke them, slap them, sometimes spit on them, make them lick my ass, that being said I find nothing wrong and love it when she sits ok my face, it's equality.

[vampireelf]

I am definatly option B, i love to go down on women and make them orgasm as much as posdible, please them any way they like, and dont want to get sucked off myself at all.

[Andres77]

One can still be dominant as he pleases his partner.

[CantMissIt]

Most guys aren't, except sometimes they like her to take charge once in a while. Still, most normal guys prefer to be the one in the dominant role.

[marish01]

Hopefully

[VforVindication]

I love rough sex so i am not submissive but there are women who do not like that. So i play by their rules. It is kind of lame but as long as we both pleasure each other, i don't mind it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Giving a woman oral sex isn't submmisive. You don't know what the hell you're talking about.

If he wants his butt played with or screwed its what makes a man submmisive sexually.

[marish01]

To me it is.

[marish01]

Wasn't what I described above submissive?

[marish01]

So if a man makes a woman lick his asshole then he is submissive?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You're a damn virgin and like I said you don't know what the hell you're talking about.

[marish01]

This is about mindset. Not all experienced people think cuni is a dominant act.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's about pleasuring your woman sexually. Most women don't orgasm with just penetration, they need kissing, hugging and oral sex on their clitoris to give them the full sexual experience.. Has nothing to do with dominate act like you are saying which sounds stupid and only a person that's sexually inexpensive or just suck at sex would say.

[marish01]

I don't care what most women need for orgasm.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Just shut up already. Talking ish about stuff you don't even know about.

[marish01]

Calm down. Slurp whoever you want and however long you want. You're annoying. Yikes

[Juxtapose]

@billlewis

[marish01]

Lol how did you know he inspired me to make this question?

[Juxtapose]

Hahaha because he's the ultimate cuck here and has offered his service to me too. He's definitely the first guy that comes to mind.

[marish01]

On scale of cuck from 1 to 10 he is a solid 10.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... thank you ever so much for such high praise, goddess! I know that my worthiness and value can only be measured by my ability to serve you, and the superior alpha males who share your bed.

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much, sir; I know how utterly magnificent you are, and I'm humbled just to have a conversation with you.

[Apple1996]

I've never seen a more accurate call out here on GaG 😂 he's such a cuck and I love it 💕

[marish01]

@Apple1996 is he like your hubby?

[marish01]

@Billlewis calm down. I'm a virgin. No one shares my bad. I loathe cucks by the way.

[Apple1996]

Nah my husband would never be a cuck

[marish01]

@Apple1996 he doesn't want anyone else to please you?

[Apple1996]

Nah not while he watches lol

[marish01]

@Apple1996 lol but would you want another person to pleasure you?

[Juxtapose]

@Billlewis you're a good boy, have some head pats.

[marish01]

Don't get him excited.

[roy_ricky09]

Hahahaha your frustration. 🤣

[Pudsmucker]

It's whatever you do to get your jollies off.

[Hanrej]

Doing what the woman wants is usually a tell tale sign of submission. Ironically since "submissive" men are more concerned with how they feel submissive rather than they are concerned with pleasing most submissive men arn't really submissive. 😅

[Jerre]

Knowing that very soon my tongue and cock will be in her pussy

[nudeNhorny]

some men are submissive in nature, some men are submissive because they are inadequate in some departments, some men are submissive because of going through a personal incident, or because it's their kink.

there are many possibilities, however I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to please a woman.

[Guido]

It's actually quite common for men that have high stress jobs and make decisions all day long, want to be dominated in the bedroom. Not all the time but certainly sometimes as they no longer have to be in control for a while.

[EaterPeter]

Other.

[CubaPirate]

His Mistress obviously

[BLP11520]

That isn't me for sure, don't get this type of man?

[Yellovv]

Submissive man is mostly let girls do whatever they want to guys body.