What makes sex fun?

[Anonymous]

What makes ur sex life interesting and not “vanilla”?

[PrudentGuy]

Hmmmm... fun and interesting yet not vanilla?

Sorry but for my SO and I, who attempt to live a sex-filled lifestyle for more than a decade already, it's almost impossible to be not vanilla. (We tried practically most major positions and movements.)

In fact TBH, we did feel bored with sex many times.

But I think when we both can get at least an orgasm each session, its "satisfying enough".

Hence it voice down to what we do outside the bedroom to pave our sexual impulses before we start undressing.

And then I think by being enthusiastic, naughty, and a little creativity (even sharing some images or articles we read) helps.

Then of course once in a while go to our favourite resort and sometimes revisit places or friends who reminded us of our past romances helps.

Ya, the physical acts are limited. But I think if we keep our minds to continue desiring a sex-filled life, then somehow, we find a way to make sex "satisfying", if not fun and interesting at all times.

[standingUP]

TRUE LOVE with the right woman makes sex more than fun. What is so exciting is when you're in true love you cannot wait to see and be with that person. There is an automatic energetic magnetization between the two. Passionate love making and or hard playfulness can be determined by just a look. My woman adores me and is all over me every time we are together. Private or public it doesn't matter she is willing to show her appreciation as I do for her. She knows she gets it better than before each time so she is eager to experience. The most beautiful thing about it is we could and do try different things together but what really does it for us is loving that person for all that they are.

[ecfresh]

Variety, anticipation, testing boundaries, new locations.

[Dargil]

Exploration. I was with a girl who was "open" and not self conscious. I was giving her oral, but stopped, reached for my little LED flashlight on the table and commenced to inspecting her vagina like a gynecologist would. She asked what I was doing and I said "research". She did little flexy things while I looked. Nothing dramatic. Just fun.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

the love declarations, the compliment of the big dick and tight pussy, how good we are, positions, the place where we do it

[Mark987]

The interaction... when she looks at you? and when she has sexy lingerie... and will be part of the fun :)

[In_Trance]

Your approach. Thats it. Its all in how you perceive it

[najekim]

Variety, spontaneity, enthusiasm, adventurous.

Motto: "Any place, Any time, Any where."

[Cryptic-Game]

When you are intimate, opt for fruitful sex and express deep pleasurable feelings for each other.

[Anonymous]

When she asks if I want to have sex in the middle of the day. It's not that often since we have kids and they need to be somewhere else when we are both at home. I love going from doing something totally non-sexual to being naked together in bed in a matter of minutes.

[Anonymous]

Sex in itself is interesting to me so I never understood people that "get bored" with it. It's just not possible for me lol. Doing the "same old thing" or not I don't care.

[Anonymous]

Any thing that ain't vanilla.