What makes you think that a guy is gay?

My S. O.’s close friend told her that she thinks I’m gay. My ex girlfriend’s mom assumed I was gay and said that I should get tested. I got bullied a lot in high school for being gay… when I’m NOT GAY. A lot of my friends are lesbian and bisexual females, but I like women and I always have and am currently dating a female. What makes you think that a guy is gay?
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  • If you know you’re not gay, then they’re just judging you. All that matters is what you and your girlfriend thinks. I once asked a friend if he was gay because of the way he talks and smile…. But nah he was hella straight 😂 I felt so bad. I never once asked again if a guy is gay.


    People can assume someone is gay by:
    How they dress, uses hand movements, certain feminine gestures or lines, the way he talks with a girly or high pitch voice, feminine expressions, and obviously if he acts like he’s attracted to men

  • I usually try not to assume anyone's sexuality. Because it's none of my business. Sometimes it's the manliest men that are queer. Like Rob Halford. He seems like this womanizer type guy but he's gay. All in all, being queer isn't something you can change. Who you love isn't really a choice. So accept yourself for who you are no matter what (unless you're a serial killer or something. But I highly doubt you are lol)

    • Kind off off topic, but Rob Halford kick ass. I love Judas Priest

    • And 70s and 80s metal in general

    • Hell yeah!

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  • Apparently people around you seem to believe that gay is an insult or a mockery. They are hitting you with that more than with an insinuation about your sexual orientation.

    The only proper way to know if you are gay is to explore attraction to men, and finding some guy who is more attractive than every woman has ever been to you. Which might be worth trying out anyway, maybe it turns out you are bisexual. But people around you don’t know about this, so they’re making stuff up.

    Now, even if they’re making stuff up, it’s possible that they are getting signals from you. Maybe you are more gentle or your expression is less stereotypically masculine than what they expect from a man. Maybe they are nudging you to become more masculine, even. I would tell them to fuck off and live my masculinity any way I wish. Unless you believe they have a point, and again, there’s something you might want to explore. E. g. you find that your gender is non-binary or something.

    In short: fuck them fuckers, they say bullshit and don’t know anything about you. Only you know about yourself and you can do whatever you want with your identity.

  • If after he sucks my dick he tries to kiss me. F'n gay.

  • If he voted for Biden I would suspect he may be gay.

    • I’m conservative

    • Then definitely straight. Start wearing a red hat. That should get rid of those comments. It doesn't even have to say anything on it. Just the sight of a red hat will get reactions. You'll be called a homophobe, etc. lol

    • Hahahahah I’ll consider that 😂

  • I honestly feel like all the men are gay lol, mostly men with sportwear such as a hoodie, sweatshirt, jeans, baggy pants etc make me subconsciously think that they are gay, guys from 18 to 29 are the ones I always feel they are gay and it turns me bad on lol.

  • get tested? What's the test? They wave dick pics in your face or something?

    • HIV test

    • have you railed dudes? the test won't help if you haven't

    • Nope. I am not gay or bisexual. I am strictly into women

  • If he's sexual with another guy

  • Record your sex video and share it everyone who thinks you are gay

  • He is a democrat
    He supports BLM
    He wears a shirt that says This is what a male feminist looks like
    He watches the Bachelor
    He is dating a transgender girl

    • I’m conservative. I don’t support any modern political things except for environmental stuff (i like to hunt and fish). I’m not a feminist and am not interested in becoming one. I’ve never watched the bachelor (I despise reality TV, and my girlfriend was born a girl.

    • i dont think that you are gay

    • Thank you

  • You’re prolly in denial.