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What man says no to sex?

My husband is continously telling me no any time I ever want sex. Its been over a week now, the last time he gave it up I literally had to beg. Why? For What reasons do you so no?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • im a wanker and more interested in porn personally so maybe its worth asking your man if he is like that too or ofcourse he may just have a lower sex drive. either way you need to talk about it and try to find a solution just as with anything else in a relationship where at least one of you isn't happy

  • What are his reasons? Seems suspect and I don't meet many guys complaining that their girlfriend's want it TOO much lol... he could be busy and way too preoccupied, or struggling with something, or God knows what. It would help to know what kind of input he's given you.

    • None. Literally no reasons. Just "eh, I don't want it" or "you have a way to high sex drive" i don't even ask for it every day. Every other day at the very most.

    • He either has a low sex drive, or he has a porn addiction or something is going on. Every other day is a perfect compromise in an imbalanced sex drive relationship and it's what I often settle for. Maybe low T levels? I have no idea. But I've heard of cases like these so you guys aren't the most abnormal couple in the world. It's just frustrating for you I'm sure.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah my husband does that too. 😂

    I think it's they prefer to ask, are tired, don't wanna get you pregnant

    • Don't ask or beg, just hint to him like get him to go on top of you or something. I think the men prefer them asking and thinking like they initiated it.

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  • take 2 long and 2 much effort 2 make wet enuff, not drunk enuff, too much drunk, not my type visually, i am out of shape and working towards ed problems but i just dont care because i am 2 much happy, things like that

  • Your husband might be a closet gay, it's not normal for a man to say no to sex so much.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager

  • If I ever say no then it's simply because I won't feel like fucking at that point in time. Which is fairly rare.

  • Asking and answering is kind a weird concept to me, we usually just start cuddling and use bidy language to signal, if there is room for more.

    How is your lovelife besides the physical activities? Do you care for each other, do you hug when you come home and meet again after a long day in office? Maybe there is an emotional cause for him not to get physical.

  • Just because it's a man does not mean he has sex when anyone else wants it but him.

  • how old is he?

    • He is 27

    • hmmm. a bit young to be having ED but not impossible. could be many other things too. sorry but i really have no answers.

  • Is he interested in anyone else? Or there may be some psychological issue with him.

  • He's either struggling with his sexuality, or he's cheating on you.

  • I’d check for a pulse!
    I don’t know how long you’ve been married, but it may be time to cut the cord.

  • a lot of the same reasons women do. I don’t understand why women think men walk around ready and wanting to fuck all the time.

  • red flag... be careful my ex cheated on me and that was the first warning sign

  • He may tired or he may bored of routine sex position.. Try something new & different...

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