I'm definitely a narratively focused sexter. I actually prefer not sending pics because I like the mental images I come up with.
The most important thing for me when sexting is details! Details! DETAILS!
Don't just say "I put mah dik in u oh u lik that?"
Describe what you're doing!
Same, details make it more hotter from kissing to foreplay to the rythmn of sex
Yep. It's easier to fall into the fantasy of it.
I agree
I dont even share pics. He should remember what i look like or else come over if he wanna see sumn. I prefer phone sex over sexting because i get off by the audio. I need to hear how he sounds/whimpers/moans/cums etc. We dont have to roleplay but what he says and how he says it is what matters. Sometimes i prefer taking turns where he talks the whole time and i focus on moaning and stuff and vice versa. But im just speaking on past crap. I haven't done anything this month
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It can be hard to verbally express things and know how to deal with the things she likes. Then once you do it becomes hard to think of more new things to keep it going. But very easy to take and sent more pictures. Maybe it is just because I am male, but I find exchanging pictures and doing whatever in them to turn each other in to be easier, quicker, and more satisfying. But I understand I have to do more for her.
While I definitely enjoy the and even appreciate the beauty found in the photo aspect, as a writer of erotica, I am someone who loves the visuals words can paint far beyond the photo. The scene, the feel, the description. Everything can come to life and the real interaction is through the words. Capture my mind with your words.
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the pics aren't necessary, but the play on words and what is said is absolutely important, oone needs to be quick and witty to be an excellent sexting partner... i love finding someone to banter with...
Hot phone Sex is better and with a stranger naughty stranger lol
Yes it is about the words and what is said and how you say it you want them to feel it as if it's happening right then and there same with phone sex
I'm on the same page as you. Pics are nice and can help, but it's all about the word play. It helps get the imagination going better, and gives you a sense of the person a little more so than just sending pictures. Feel free to practice with me, I'm here to help.
I only like pics and vids. I find exotic novels to be a waste of time but I know A LOT of women that enjoy them. I guess they just have a better imagination lol
I think a connection with the other person. You share and make sure you are both enjoying the time spent together
What matters? Please do not sext me. That matters.
I don't like texting already, so sexting? I really don't see the point.
Most important thing is try not to make fun of his corny sexting😂
i agree, what's being said gets me so hot.
Role-playing is awesome
Her participation is very important, not just saying mmmmm, yessssss, ahhhhh
Pictures and videos do help, for me they do
Definitely have to paint me a word picture with lots of details.
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Lol. I prefer a picture picture. Much clearer and more exciting.
I really just need 1 pic of your dick to know what it looks like, so words work magic.
How interesting.
guys are visual so getting to the pics is the goal
Nah, pics are the only thing that matter. Any time a girl tries to sext it's like reading the script of the first draft of a lame porno.
I think both. Seems like most guys are more into pics than most girls are, myself included. I'll drop a nudie in there when it feels right but I do love roleplay, like when you know she's really getting into it is a better time to send it rather than just, here's my dick whatcha think?
I guess i'd say the words are more important, but i really like to have a sense of what they look like. They don't have to be a 10 or anything, just... i want to imagine the real them.
Photos are a nice touch on top, and in the right scenario i like sharing them as well, because i want her to be imagining me as i am and excited by the idea of what we're describing with me.
1. The real possibility of fucking. If its someone you know or someone in your city its hot because in the back of your mind you could make your fantasy real.
2. Description. Detail of senses and feelings.
3. Authenticity. Being true to your personality can be hot too. Because its like you're fucking in real life.
Having a little feeling to it, if that makes sense. And yes, what words are used and in what way, what kind of kink is being explored. Like the daddy kink. I like the roleplay as well.
speed of messaging matters, short and meaningful messages should go,
the person getting off should not have to wait for messages or they will be turned off.
cybering is supposed to be more about being descriptive of actions. posting pics besides a few to emphasize to me is just trading pics and pointless.
- descriptive
- implicit and explicit
- detailed
-enthusiastic
Exactly
@cootjuh thanks
Thats just the way i like it ☺
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