What people say during sex, do they mean it?

So me and my ltfwb were hooking up. He said will I marry him, when I was giving him a bj. I just want to know the relevance of it. I mean I know it's not a real proposal, but what gives.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Usually during sex, people may exagerate a little to a lot.Your long term friends with benefits is getting comfortable with you and is starting to have feelings for you , more than just having fun fucking you.He feels at ease enough to say that, even maybe just having fun with it.I see that you are not down with feelings for him, only giving him physical pleasure.Usually the girl is the one to let feelings take over.You two obviously click if you have been sharing each other for a while.It would be unusual for two people to be together a while pleasuring each other without forming a bond.Think about what you want for a future, this guy might be lining you up.You must be sexy enough for him,
    is he sexy enough for you?

    • Yes he is sex enough for me

    • But he gives me mixed signals 24/7

    • Guys can give mixed signals, as well as girls.Do you like him or not? Do you want a relationship/Ask him how he really feels next time you are not blowing him.go from there.

  • Try to separate words that come out during sex from real talk. People, both men and women, can say things which they don't really mean out of pure passion in the heat of the moment. When things get really heated it's almost like being drunk 1000 times over.

    • Ah good answer

    • Bit don't people believe that people speak the truth when they are drunk?

    • The parallel isn't exact, I'm using it as a metaphor, it's simply an interpretation of how during passionate sex you aren't fully "sober" and might act or say things which you wouldn't if you had a level head.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If the person only says those things during sex,
    then chances are they don't mean it.
    He's in the heat of the moment and he LOVES what you're doing for him.
    That's pretty much has far as it goes.

    • Well at least I'm getting one thing right in life. Lol

  • He was joking, you were just giving good head. Oh my god, you are so good at that will you marry me

    • Right but that's not what I want to hear out of his mouth during that moment

  • I've heard if a guy say something other than 'fuck', 'babe', 'nice', 'sh*t', he doesn't mean it.

    • He says babe, so what gives

    • dirty girl works too haha.

    • that too :)

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  • probably not, they have raging hormones atm.

  • On the one hand, didn't he Romans say, "In coitus, veritas?"

    On he other, didn't Dorothy Parker say,

    As you lay there shivering and sighing,
    And he pledges his love is eternal and undying,
    Lady make a note of this; one of you is lying!

    By the way, I know fwb, but what the hell is itfwb? What's the "it" part? I hear "it" and I think tech support.

    • Long term friends with benefits and I'm not sure what ur implying here

  • He was being genuine. Spend the rest of your life with him and make babies.

    • Lol. Really. I can't tell if your being a smarty arty.

    • House with a white picket fence, the whole nine yards.

    • Oh ya and dog in the yard and a bun in the oven

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  • nah he didn't actually mean it

  • Of course not. Guys say dumb shit during sex.

    • Why. They r so dumb!

    • We get caught up in the moment :)

    • Bit that's just ridiculous. I mean wouldn't that mean that that is something on his mind though. Whether with me or someone else.l?

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  • I wouldn't take it seriously

  • A guy can sign checks for anyone while he is cumming cause it's an adorable feeling so he doesn't mean anything

  • Well was he serius? He was probably kinda joking. Maybe he was just enjoying it so much and sayd "marry me", like when guys see a hot ass girls and they're like "Marry me!".

    • I mean I def didn't take it seriously, but I don't know why he would say it. Have u ever said that before?

    • Jokingly. Like in my example.

    • Lol. U guys need to stop. That's the ish right there that be messing up girls heads.