Guys are aroused by a lot of things. There's no one thing we "should" be attracted to. Everybody's different. You women aren't the only ones with fetishes and fantasies.
Personally watching a girl masturbate is my favorite thing ever. The naked female body is majestic and wonderful. It's very feminine and sensual. Girls are just radiant when they pleasure themselves. Having a man in the picture is just a distraction. It's the woman that I want to see. I don't want to see some ugly dude banging her.
It's the same thing with lesbian p*rn. It's not just the fact that there are two women but that two women interact very differently with each other than a woman and man. With two women it's so much more loving and warm. They know exactly how to please each other and they do so very gracefully and sensually. It gives off a very strong, pure feeling of feminine energy.
I think you're making the assumption that sexual fantasy is strictly a selfish thing. For some people it might be but for a lot of people it's not. Someone else's pleasure can be very erotic and arousing too. It's not all about ME and how can this girl pleasure ME. My penis isn't the centre of the universe.
By the way, have you ever really tried watching or thinking about a guy masturbating? Maybe you should try. You never know, you might like it.
That's very interesting! thanks for clearing it up, I never thought about it like that....i have wondered about my crush and how often he masturbates and stuff, but I don't think into it and don't get aroused from it, I rather get aroused by imagining us doing each other lol
Did you ever think about whether you're the person he's thinking about when he masturbates? How about secretly watching him do it? Makes it a bit more exciting doesn't it?
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As itsme2300 said guys are very visual. A lot of the difference between a sexual relationship with a girl and a friendship is in what she lets you see.
Female masturbation can be very revealing and so very exciting. In a relationship it demonstrates a lot of trust and is very helpful to let you know some of the things that she likes. I'm happy when she's happy and don't always want or need anything myself so the thought of doing her is irrelevant.
Solo female p*rn is enjoyable, though watching toys etc has never done much for me, and I just don't get the speculum fetish. Lesbian p*rn does nothing for me, I think mainly because it usually looks like one or other of the girls is in the way of what I'd like to see.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For me, a woman masturbating means that she's real and truly wants the sexual pleasure. Masturbating is the most human thing someone can do, because it serves very little purpose besides your own pleasure. It takes out the concept that she mightbe faking or not enjoy it etc. And guys are very visual- sex we can feel everything, but we can't see much all the time and when you masturbate the guy has a great view, even if it is imagination. We love teases too, so watching a woman masturbate and not actually joining in (at least until later) is a big turn on. There are other factors I'm sure that I'm not thinking about, but those are big ones for me and most of the guys I've talked to.
Ohhh I seee! makes sense
I think men like to watch women masterbate and cum because it's hot to think of her orgasaming which make them orgasm! lol I like watching men cum. It makes me cum too.
Wow, from the re-responses it looks like this question asker is a really good listener. I agree with everything sa230 said, except I want to add two things:
1) I don't think that sex between two girls necessarily appears more loving and warm than sex between a guy and a girl, but it depends on the guy. If I was watching p*rn and the girl was banging some big ugly muscleheaded guy than I think it would gross me out. You see, I'm straight, but I'm not actually sexually REPULSED by guys unless they fit that description. If the girl was with a skinny guy with nicer, sofer features I'd still be entertained. Assuming these are the kind of guys that would be in the p*rn we're talking about, then I think straight and lesbein p*rn would be about equally entertaining.
2) Imagining a girl masturbating is also a turn on because then you're imagining the girl being sexually independant. What I mean by that is, instead of needing a guy to turn her on, she can just turn herself on. If she can just savour her own body, it means she's intrinsically sexual, rather than only sexual when she has some hot guy to bang. If she's the kind of girl that would still be a sexual creature even if she was stuck on a desert island all by herself, then that is extremely sexy.
Wow! I like #2 that's a good point.....never thought of it like that until now
II like watching a girl touch themself because it turns me on..her moans and the way she plays with herself gets me in the mood...lift legs spread legs rubbing..tellin me what she want and knowing tht all tht is so wet for me..hmm yeah really a turn on for me to watch a girl rub on her pussy..rubbin t*ts and sucking fingers after inserting them inside her..oh yeah really really hot.
i personally just don't like thinking of male parts and female body's are so much more visually arrousing!
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