Guys, what pleasure do you get from fingering a girl?

okay soooo last night I hung out with the guy that I've been talking too for about 5 months and we usually just make out you know the usual, welllll yesterday we were in his car and he ended up fingering me. well that's basically my question like do you guys get any sort of pleasure from doing that? It was my first time so I don't know how to feel about it... that's the farthest I've gone with him and I really like him so yeah if this made any sense I would appreciate any kind of feedback :)
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  • The pleasure we get is by watching you have pleasure. It's very, very enjoyable, especially if you are really expressive. You don't have to scream, just let yourself go and let your instincts do their thing. Don't cloud your mind with judgment, just focus on how you feel and we will have almost as much fun as you do.

    • Thanks for the advice :)

  • If a man knows how to do it, he knows he will "start your engines" in the hopes that your emotions and sex drive will take over in order to get you to give him something. It is what we call foreplay. Do you know what that is?

    • I actually don't know, mind explaining?

    • Foreplay? really. You need to do some googling. Foreplay is what men and women do to prepare for sex. an experienced man knows what to do with a woman in order to get her prepared for sex. This will heighten both of their experiences. This is not always touching a woman's sex organs. It can start with massaging, kissing, kissing various non-sexual parts of the body, touching, the right words, etc. Then it can include stimulating the nipples and vaginal areas by hand or mouth. If you have not experienced good foreplay, you have not had great sex. Of course, young guys are usually not interested in pleasing their partners as much as they are in pleasing themselves. You have something to look forward to. I hope.

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  • Same pleasure you'd get if you got him off basically. Ask any girl who loves to give blowjobs. Some guys who are selfish are only interested in getting themselves off but if the guy's good sexually he'll want to pleasure the girl he's with.

  • It's actually meant for the girl's pleasure, o boy...

  • Pleasure per se? Not really. Giving to another with the knowledge that they like it and might reciprocate? YES. What goes around comes around. You should at least jerk him off soon.

    If you really want to seal the deal lick his balls while you jerk him.

  • What pleasure do girls get from giving a guy a handjob?

  • to me, i love it when im fingering a girl, and her vagina starts throbbing

  • Its like a bj. We don't get pleasure necessarily but it feels good to know the girl is feeling good and it also gets most guy's aroused, which helps when having sex

    • Wait what? You feel nothing from a blowjob?

    • No like the person giving head

  • none at all, but being able to sucsessfully masturbate for her till she explodes is my idea of a great start

  • It is pleasurable for us, hormones are working and lots of passion, but best is if it is returned.

  • the most important question is:did you like it?

    • Y E S

    • then i like it because the girl likes it, there you go

  • it is a feeling of satisfaction and a big turn on if your finger/fingers slip slowly up and down the lips, heading toward the clit. slowly pulling back the clit hood and gently rubbing and playing with the clit. moving down to the hole and ever so slowly inserting a finger, maybe more at a time. carrying on getting her wetter and wetter until she cums long and hard. actually makes us quite horny other than satisfied knowing that you pleasured her..

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