What's a kink your partner has asked you to do / perform that is a hard limit for you? What makes it a hard limit?

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  • He had a thing where he wanted to watch his friends and others have sex with me, big turn on to him and it never happened.

    Thing for me was though I couldn't exactly say no never going to happen because we had talked about earlier about not doing that, instead try to negotiate. Instead we came to an agreement that we could both suggest guys for it but the other had veto power over their choices.

    I vetoed everyone 😂

    I have had enough guys come to me to try and get something when their SO refuses to even consider it, last thing I want is saying no and he goes else ware although this is probably the only thing I can think of that you can't go else ware to get.

    • when it comes to kinks and fetishes there has to be a mutual agreement along with someones soft limits and hart limits when negotiating

    • @Alex8736 Exactly but I have had others ask me to do things because their SO refuses to do it. It seems to me that when someone has a big kink/fetish that it can't simply be buried or they told to forget ever doing it. It seems like it eats away at them until they satisfy it. It is best to talk about these things before things get too serious in my opinion.

    • you are 100% correct Its all about communication as well and a big no-no is alcohol which can result in an injury but i can go on and on about consent, contracts but you know what i mean

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  • Hubby has never asked me to do anything I wouldn't do with him, but we have been married for a long time and I totally trust and love him. If he wants to do something, I am willing to give it a go. Also, he is respectful that I am a little more reserved than him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • A hard limit would be no means no, no matter what circumstance. Could be due to a phobia or a taboo feeling.

    Me personally I’ve always like the roleplay where she dress up as the shy inneocent schoolgirl and she still wears granny panties.. I have a panty fetish and love to see a pair of regular panties on a girl. Some girls wouldn’t want to wear cuz granny panties aren’t sexy or they wear it just for their period which is actually why I like to see it.. Even when I see her underwear show in the back while sitting and its something basic like hanes I get turned on..

  • Was testing out bdsm and was seeing a girl who wanted it to get violent…. Not a fan of mixing pain and sex. I like lighter bdsm stuff

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  • Well I ask my boyfriend at the time that I want to dido inside his penis head. That very then flexible vibrator that you stick in him and he said absolutely not. I have not one man that’s for it but I wonder what it feels like for them to!

  • Anal, ow, hell no. Exit only

  • We're pretty vanilla. Her kinkiest thing is for me to masturbate and cum on her tits while she masturbates. Fine with me.

  • well eating ass/rim job was a no go for me but my boyfriend convinced me for it n i started doing it n like other things once i started i could never let go n now i just love it

    • keep spreading those cheeks 😋❤️

    • @Alex8736 oh yesss alwayyss

    • promise? 😊😊

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  • Hot wax on my nipples, ouch

    • Mmm with a simultaneous ice cube on your clit perhaps

    • @CubaPirate I’m not really sure

    • Why not it will be a lot of fun

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  • I've yet to have that happen with my current or previous partners.

  • There really hasn’t been because I am pretty open

  • So far, none mentioned/asked that were outside my boundaries.

  • Fingering

  • Earlier in our relationship my boyfriend had a pee fetish which at first I wasn't too fond of at first. He wanted to watch me pee which I was a bit uncomfortable doing but I did it anyway. For awhile he kinda stopped it knowing that it made me feel uncomfortable but after sometime he reintroduced it and now I love doing it for him. He loves doing it for me. We both find it got when doing it in a place you normally wouldn't. We both wanna mark each other sometime as well.

    • Interesting.. You do it in public places or what? Mind dm to talk about it?

  • Hm... Never happened.

  • Sissyfication and scat or blood play or piss or poop humilation is my hard limit rest am chill with threesomes nd more

  • Anal. I would rather not discuss my reasons publicly.

  • I'm very openminded, and so far have not had any problems

  • it all depends on the moment if impact

  • Anything related to scat, it was golden shower she asked of me but I can't.

  • I’m not a fan of anal myself…


    I’ve asked many girls to cut/bite my penis off but it’s been a no from all so far.

    • I just don’t like anything related to 💩 poo. They don’t want the risk of uncontrollable injury and they all wanted to keep and use my penis

    • Awwww... where is their sense of adventure? lol

    • Somewhere is a world more sane than mine of course lol

  • Hmmm. Back in the past, an ex asked about cuckolding.

  • my ex had an obsession with wanting to watch me peeing. he begged for ages to be able to film me and get pics.. in the end i just said yes and got used to him watching all the time. sometimes it’s not just peeing but he would even just randomly pull my pants down and stare at my pussy for no apparent reason for ages and ages.

    • This made me laugh... lol - well the last part. Different strokes for different folks!

    • Ever wonder where some of those films and pics ended up?

  • None yet but I'm ready to be tested

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