What’s appealing about anal?

Not judging, just curious. I don't know, to me it just feels a little... dirty? Plus it hurts. Like, a lot 😂. But then again, both of these could be what people find attractive about it, I’m not sure.
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  • For me it feel good and having both holes filled while cumming feel extremely good. In general first time feel weird (feel like you need to take a shit) but it become addictive. It does hurt a bit but it's part of the reasons why I like it.

    • Both holes? What are you in to, orgies?

    • @Daniela1982 It can simply be threesome no need to be orgies. Usually I just use a long dildo or something similar and that do the tricks.

  • Yes it is a little dirty, for the psychological effect.
    But on a physical effect, it’s just good. As good as vaginal penetration sometimes even better. It can hurt yes, but once you relax believe it or not you actually enjoy it 😂😂

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  • It's perfectly okay if anal isn't for you. No one has to do sex acts they don't want to do, and you shouldn't take anything I say to mean that I think you should.

    Having said that, a LOT of women enjoy anal. Many women specifically ask for it. Obviously if it was terrible, that wouldn't happen, right? So, there must be something there.

    If you go online, I'm sure you can find some videos from Kink. com (look specifically at the Sex And Submission, Everything Butt, and The Upper Floor lines). Before each scene, the actress (es) are interviewed about the scene they are going to do and what they're looking forward to about it (and the women choose the elements of the scene in all of these videos). Then the scene is shot, with anal included in a majority of videos (a large number with female directors), and then the actress (es) are interviewed afterwards to describe how the scene went. There are literally thousands of these videos, so it wouldn't be hard to find at least a dozen of those scenes and listen to the interviews.

    There's also Burning Angel, a "punk/alt-girl" porn company owned and run by multiple-award-winning Joanna Angel. She writes and directs all of the movies, and stars in most of them as well, and almost every scene includes anal. She's got a waiting list of girls who want to work for her.

    Then there is the "X-Line" of movies (Hard X, Erotica X, Dark X, etc.) that are written and directed by multiple-award-winning female director Mason. A sizable number of those scenes include anal sex, and women are also lining up to shoot with her.

    I'm sure you could argue that there are other reasons to shoot for Mason or Joanna, but, again, the porn girls can choose whether they do anal or not, but most do, and a few don't.

    The point of all of that is that all of these companies are fully respectful of the actress's right to choose, and most of these scenes are directed by women who themselves have done anal scenes, so if the actresses didn't want to do anal, they could easily not do so - but they choose to do it anyway.

    There are also women here on this very thread who do anal and enjoy it (and others who don't), so obviously at least some women experience pleasure from it. Again, this isn't to say that you have to try it - you don't - but you should at least have an open enough mind to recognize that it's something many women legitimately enjoy.

    In my experience, a big part of that is having a partner who knows how to make the experience enjoyable, and especially in the beginning, puts the girl's needs first and is willing to move at her pace and doesn't try to "take over" and move things along - even if that means that it takes 5 sessions of nothing but fingers.

    I've done anal with most of the women I've been with, and some had never done it before, some had done it before and liked it, and some had done it before and hated it, but all but two enjoyed it with me enough to ask for it again, and the other two just decided it wasn't their thing, but agreed it wasn't "bad" in any way.

    My post with first-time advice is here:
    What's the best way to do anal sex for the first time?

  • That's what I'm trying to figure out. Feeling like you are trying to drop a big one must get some women really turned on. Plus I have no expectations of having to wear adult diapers in my later life from a stretched ring piece that looks like you had been sitting on a telephone pole.

    • Oh, I see the down voter would like that. I doubt he would need anything so gaping as it would make his dick look like a tooth pick in the holland Tunnel.

  • I does sound gross but with patience and lube it feels great. Just takes a little preparation and it shouldn't hurt.

  • Not a thing. I had 2 ex girlfriends that wanted to try it. We used tons of lube but it hurt them. Sure I got off with a good orgasm each time but they did not. I prefer the front door anytime!

  • Well there are ways to clean it out, but based on some experience yes it can be very dirty lol. But to most girls who want it even though it's painful it's what they call a "good pain." Just like a lot of girls like their butts smacked. You probably like yours smacked don't you? Don't it hurt sometimes? Why do you like it then? 🤔

  • Perhaps the man or men who did anal on you did not do it right, you were not prepared, or prepared right, etc. In other words, the experience was not done right.

    Anal can be a lot of fun, very erotic, and very different from regular vaginal sex. For us men, it is a whole different feeling. Also sexy and erotic to be in the booty with the kitty just an inch or so right next to it.

  • NOTHING.

  • some people say that if feels like you have to go the bathroom feeling which sounds 😷

  • I've never tried it but for me i think its an ego thing, its the hardest hole to go into lol

  • Nothing

  • It's just another form of contact. Done right. There should be no pain. Use enough lubes and be prepared properly

  • If you do abal correctly, shouldn't hurt.

  • I have enjoyed anal with a lady that wanted it. for me it felt a bit naughty and dirty. I guess it's also why I like licking ass too. also it is nice to be inside a woman's vagina and feeling a vibrator rubbing against my cock whilst its in her ass. lots of lube and delicate entry

  • It's nice to be able to go balls deep and cum as much as I want ;)

  • I'm trying to figure that out

  • Girls anus looks so sexy, so inviting the way it winks during reverse cowgirl or doggie.

  • Nothing actually...

  • Sh*t if I know.

  • I can only speak for my experience with one girl, my current partner. She's the only person I've ever done anal with and she is the one who encouraged me to try it. She enjoys it a lot and will do it pretty much any time I'm up for it. It's obvious she enjoys it and has great orgasms from it. I have learned to like it a lot more too. I like the tightness around the outside and the fact that I can go deeper in her ass than her vagina.