What's harder, a man asking for sex or a woman asking for a sperm donor?

Who would you say has it harder to find the willing person?

- David is a 34 year-old involuntary virgin. He has no luck getting a girlfriend nor even getting a kiss. He would like to experience what it's like having sex. So he has to find a willing participant. Paying for a hooker doesn't count. He wants a willing girl, where you don't have to pay.

- Martha is a 34 year-old and involuntary single. She only had 3 long-term relationships but had no luck in getting commitment (a marriage proposal) from a man. She's worried and is only focusing on getting pregnant. She doesn't want to pay a fertility clinic. Instead she wants to find a willing man that will get her pregnant, be her natural sperm donor.

Who has it harder? A virgin man finding a willing woman or a single woman finding a man willing to get her pregnant?

A virgin man asking for sex
Vote A
A single woman finding a natural sperm donor
Vote B
Both equally
Vote C
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  • From experience guys have it harder I've been on dating sites where I get 1 reply a month if lucky compared to women posting "I can't reply to all messages because I get 30 emails a day"

    I have been a sperm donor in the past to a lesbian couple and given them several children. Filling a sample pot is not as fun as you might be thinking.

    However for a single woman finding a willing donor for natural insemination should be as easy as going to a night club chatting up a guy making it clear sex is on the cards. Then all you do is tell him your on the pill and he can go bareback.
    In this situation looks are not critical if you just want a donation so come onto the nerdy looking guy who looks like he's too nervous to come onto anyone himself.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I watched a video, and I’m pretty sure it was real. The husband couldn’t get the wife pregnant. For whatever reason, they didn’t go through the regular channels. Hubby just found 29 donors. He went with 29, because they didn’t want to know who the father was, and they didn’t want the father to know he was the father. This all happened in one evening. The video doesn’t explain why this happened, but with a bit of research you can find their story. And the number 29 isn’t magical, it’s probably all he could find. So I’m voting that it’s easier to find donors.

    I can see why it would be hard to get one guy, for child support reasons, but with this number, I think that wouldn’t be a problem.

    Oh, and I seriously don't think the wife knows the husband uploaded it. She should have never let him video it.

  • As I have never asked for a sperm donor and guys ask for sex all the time, I would guess it's harder for them.

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  • I say it is easier for the guy to ask for sex. For many men like myself, there is no way I would have a child out there and not be involved with that child's every day life. Unfortunately, there are a lot of guys who are incredible pieces of Fonking shiz that would be fine with having a child out there and not being involved. But if the woman is responsible, those are not the kind of guys she would be asking. unless she just wants a kid and DNA can Fonk off.

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  • Wow. The disparity is shocking. I never would've guessed that.

    • Both are similar because they're so unlucky. Neither of them could accomplished their main biological function. David had to attract a woman at some point and he can't seem to; this means his seeds, his legacy won't get passed. Meanwhile Martha had to attract a marriage-minded man (or life provider) during her good years; it's easy to get sex, dates from a man and even a boyfriend but not commitment.

    • I suppose the condition for marriage wasn't stressed on Martha's dilemma; but I still voted that David would have a harder time.

  • Sex is a choice for women, and a chore for men. An arduous, expensive, frustrating, and seldom successful chore. Especially in the current era.

  • It's all a game of money

  • I think the 2nd one

  • It is easier for the guy to ask for sex. Too many women are sluts these days.

  • Both can pay for it. But if you mean for free the sperm donor is much harder to find

    • Yeah I feel bad for women ages 30 and above in that position. She's basically trying to find a willing, random stranger willing to get pregnant, willing to then take a risk of getting sued for child support. That's why I made up my mind to search for commitment now and establish a timeframe of 12-18 months to decide if it's a break-up or a proposal. It shouldn't take 5 years, no way.

    • To that willing random stranger, she's a stranger to him too.

  • I'm surprised that so many guys voted A.

  • Well I had this woman asking me for sperm …..
    Not sure if she seen my kids but couldn’t believe it….
    But she said she liked vodka…. Lol….
    Which was ironic really due to me being arrested after drinking it ….
    ( not with her tho ) lol 😂 sorry for my actions after tho 🙈

  • To compound the problem for the virgin man is that he's also afraid that he's unlovable. I felt this way from my teenage years until I got my first girlfriend at 27. I had a friend who was like that at 33, it's harder if you feel that you CAN"T get a relationship than knowing that you can, even if they haven't worked out yet.

  • A sperm donor? Come on, you can find any rando to creamiepie you.

  • I think Martha has a harder time than David.

  • I think donor is easier but I don't know

  • Obviously a man asking women for sex.