What's has been your worst date?

[Anonymous]

I'll go first. Just for context I met this guy through Tinder and yes I now know not to use it for dating lol. But basically the date started with us hooking up and then going straight to dinner (like he was really rushing things. There was no time to actually clean up). But it gets worse at the restaurant he was on his phone the entire time and forgot his wallet (I don't mind paying but it was HIS idea to go out so I felt betrayed). PLUS remember he didn't give time for me to clean up so I still had his cum inside me leaking out as I was sitting and my hair was still messy (I did my best to fix it and clean out any cum). Then by the end of the night we were in his car and he kept feeling me up. But I really wasn't wanting to hookup again and I told him. So he kicked me out of his car and I had to find my own way home. Moral of the story... Tinder is only used for hookups.

[SavySav]

Tinder is the worst! My worst date was Tinder also lol I usually learn the hard way. My date was normal at the start he took me out for dinner. He was giving uninterested vibes but I ignored them. He even payed for everything. But the date got worse when we went bowling lol. I'm actually good at bowling and didn't tell him and he sucked so I crushed him lmao. He did not like that he kept trash talking me and complaining. At the time I just thought he was super competitive but now I know he just had a weird issue losing to girls. But it gets worse! Later that night he kept feeling me up in his car and I let him. Eventually that turned into me giving him road head. He parked at some random parking lot and we fucked in the backseat. At first I actually wanted to fuck him but during the sex he brought up losing to me in bowling and how he hated me for that and was going to "hate fuck me for that". Trust me that was WEIRD. Well after a rough experience. He asked if I would see him again for a second date. I said no and just like you he left me in that parking lot.

[clemdenim]

What a fuck head

[weysally]

my second boyfriend, my fault really, I was on the rebound, but sex with him was really no existence, in out shake it about and finish

[ANDYB88]

Hahaha tinder is the absolute worst! I had a tinder date in summer 2020 when lockdown started to ease and she literally turned up in a see through floaty top thing and made sexual comments/jokes the whole time and kept putting her hand on my leg etc etc I spent the entire date with a ridiculously bad hardon and just felt totally horned up and then she told me that she had another date tomorrow and would ‘get back to me’ after the second date if it didn’t go as well. I never heard from her again and I came off tinder about 5 days after that this awful date.

[Asker]

Wow... wtf that's so mean to basically tease you the entire date and then bail on you. Yup tinder is the worst for dates lol

[ANDYB88]

Tell me about it! I literally went home on my own in a rage with a tent in my pants that just wouldn’t FUCK OFF! Never properly got over it haha Even now nearly 2 years later that evening randomly comes into my head and I get a rage kick!

[bowenw]

My worst was with a girl who worked at 7-11. We always got along great when I'd come in for coffee or a drink. I finally got the nerve to ask her out for drinks and she agreed. At the bar she barely said anything and it became obvious the only thing we had in common was that she worked at 7-11 and I went there.

[Asker]

Yeah sometimes people just don't fit together but at least she said yes and gave it a chance!

[bowenw]

Yes. She was brave for taking a chance with a customer. Chalk it up to experience.

[20yearsolder]

Wow, he is such a gentleman

[20yearsolder]

Evidently, you want tinder was all about and you didn't mind fucking before you went out. But he's definitely a douchebag for spending all of his time on the phone and keeping you out of the car

[Asker]

Yeah I don't usually fuck on the first date lol but because I found him on tinder I figured it might give me a better chance for a secind date. But I didn't want a second date after 30mins in restaurant

[20yearsolder]

I'm not judging you for fucking on the first date, that's why he showed up. There's no reason that a female can't want to fuck a random dude. And I've met some people like that, 15-20 minutes into being with them and it's like fuck this I'm out of here

[IamAdonis]

DAMN!!! @LiveAndLearn … not all guys are like that!!! I’m so sorry you found that one ‘twit’, who didn’t listen to his parents on how to treat a lady!!

[Asker]

Yes I know all guys aren't like that but most of them seem to be on tinder lol

[IamAdonis]

Well, I’m single and I’m not.. and never would!! Mind you, I’m 46 .. LOL

[Asker]

Nothing wrong with being single! Same here and I plan to keep it that way for a bit at until I'm done school. And age is just a number! Don't stress about that

[IamAdonis]

OMG!! Sweetheart, do yourself a huge favour, complete school before dating!! I know it sounds lonely, but it’s beneficial to your future!!

[IamAdonis]

Yeah … Tinder is just WRONG

[Asker]

Yes that's my plan!

[vald9inches]

Omg that is horrible lol yea that sounds so bad i bet he did that all on purpose he sounds like a douche bag

[Asker]

I don't think he did it on purpose. I think he was just a crappy human being and does it to everyone normally

[REDNPT92]

This guy sounds like a complete asshole. It seems like he really was just interested in sex, and didn't care about getting to know you. At least you're being honest and admitting that Tinder is really meant for hook ups, not dating. But that was still not right for him to treat you like that. Ignoring you at dinner, sticking you with the bill, and then bailing on you when you didn't want to have sex in his car, meanwhile you just have sex with him earlier.

[Asker]

Ikr! Plus I already heard about tinder was for hookups at the time but I still for some reason tried it as a dating app. Anyways I kind of knew that so I figured if I hookup with him on the first date he'll be super nice and put more effort to get a second date. But NOPE lmao

[REDNPT92]

I get what you're saying. You were using it as a dating app, and unfortunately this particular guy happened to be a douche. If he wasn't interested in a date, and just wanted sex, he should have just been honest and said that. And at the same time, you shouldn't feel like you need have sex with a guy just to get him to go out again. If he can't go on a few dates without sex, then he's not a decent guy who's worth being with. You deserve to be treated better than than.

[Asker]

Thank you! But I don't always fuck on the first date! Usually just for tinder dates because it's what I'm looking for plus the date. But if it's just a normal date then I usually never go all the way with the guy

[REDNPT92]

I get what you're saying. Sometimes you're just looking to date, and other times you're also looking to hook up. Nothing wrong with a good fuck once in a while, to blow off steam or just have some fun. But like always, I guess there's good dates and bad dates.

[Anonymous]

Worst date. Girl my cousin set me up with was the complete opposite of me. I knew from within a minute I was wasting my time. Just ate my food while she talked. Your situation is all your fault. Makes no sense why you would use tinder when you know it’s bad. No one to blame but yourself. Live and learn

[Asker]

Yup exactly!