Guys, What’s more valuable in a partner, sex drive or intellect?

[wittymilf]

[TheBigGuy9]

Sex is a given. Let’s all put our dignity aside. We all like moaning and we like cumming and rolling around in baby oil on a mat with one another. That’s a given and TOO EASY in my mind.
The best partner is one that can incorporate the two together. One that is able to go 100% one way, but at a moments notice, pull back. That is what I look for. Someone with enormous self-discipline.


An orgasm is the best NATURAL feeling. A wonderful Dopamine release. Depending upon if you’re alone or with someone will vary the strength and amount you cum. But it’s short lived.




Here is another thing that I look for. If you exercise and eat healthy you are already ahead of most people.
When you workout, Dopamine levels are released and I’ve found out that after some time, those levels stay steady throughout the day.


I think it’s the best high there is. A naturally good clean high that comes from within. That feeling you felt in grade school when you got an A on a test.


If someone is intelligent, strong, flexible, creative with an overwhelming desire to succeed in life... Athletic sex is hot and you will get it several times a week and/or day.


Hope this helps

[BoobMan]

Hahahaha! GREAT question AS ALWAYS WM! You're asking the questions that MATTER around here! I love it!

Here's my take: more of both is obviously better, but like all things, the law of diminishing returns applies. I'd say that if you take a girl with average intellect and average sex drive, there will be a lot more value in dialing up her sex drive than in dialing up her intellect. At the very least the benefits of diailing up intellect will diminish much more quickly than the benefits of dialing up her sex drive. So in that sense the answer to your question is "sex drive."

Again--GREAT question!

[wittymilf]

Great answer too ! :)!

[BoobMan]

Thanks! Which would you say is more valuable?

[wittymilf]

Intellect... I’m turned on by brains 🤷‍♀️

[wittymilf]

Actually not super brainy just witty and quick and inquiring minds.

[BoobMan]

Makes sense. And of course supports the W in WM!

[BoobMan]

thanks for mho!

[DrunkAss]

I don't understand this obsession lately with the sex drive. Are half the guys suffering from ED or something? I don't find anything below what should be normal/healthy parameters lacking. So maybe intellect, but not intellectual, because I find intellectuals to be boring.

[SunnySonia]

It depends more on what's more important to you. But some basic intellect is a must.. rest depends on your choice of demand.

If you want both, then get your right mix possible.

[HugoThe2nd]

Some intellect is always sexy.
A PhD holder, with all their innate wit and vocabulary, can certainly elevate flirt to a whole another level.

But, ultimately, the most important duty of my partner towards me is for them to make me feel desired, and continued physical intimacy and attraction towards me is an important part of that.

It won't help that they can recite theoretical physics to me if our sex life is non-existent.
I need the physical if we are "together", that's how "together" is defined for me.

[molonski2]

This is a tough question because there has to be a sexual element or you just have nothing , yet great sex is really tough to maintain , these things get easier as you get a bit older , intellect? Its important , so many issues here , Im sitting on the fence I know , both are important.
New Sex is super awesome , even when your partner is stunning like mine , but for the sake of the relationship and Status Quo you need to give that up , Im probably better to be a butterfly no longer , and put a heep of effort into my sexual relationship.

[InventorofWarp]

This is sort of a Sophie's choice situation since there's really no good outcome of one chooses one or the other.
Both are necessary.

[ohshee]

Sex Drive because there's nothing more sexier than desire or a sexual drive and sexual instinct that's just very hot to me. But I also think you would have some sort of intellect to get into some of the positions that you want to get into LOL

[TheBootyChest]

Sexual compatability and emotional intelligence.

[Ripper_E]

What in the world is emotional intelligence?

[wittymilf]

@Ripper_E the ability to empathise

[Ripper_E]

it's confusing, because emotions and intelligence are two completely separate things.

[wittymilf]

@Ripper_E yes and only those with empathy can be intelligent at emotions :)

[The_Maphio]

Intellect. If she's smart enough to know what's good and what's bad. What has value and what doesn't and what a relationship and loving someone actually means, lust will come as a consequence.

Sex crazed chicken heads are nothing but a liability.

[slatyb]

As if I have to pick just one? In my experience the smartest women are the sexiest.

[wankiam]

intellect