What's one thing you wish you knew about sex when you were younger, and why?

[ginie]

[ohsheeT]

I consider myself to be pretty lucky the first time I masturbated and orgasm I said WTF just happened I was like the ball in a pinball machine just bouncing everywhere short circuiting I never knew a body could do that

And in time I got the opportunity try it for real I had gone to the airport with my aunt to pick up my cousin and one of her friends home from college was 15 and a half almost 16 and the girl that we picked up with my cousin started flirting with me and the next thing I know I was over at her house next thing I know we were having sex when we finished it was good I was happy but it wasn't the same as the very first time that I masturbated and I thought I did something wrong she said it was great I didn't leave her and I thought about it and thought about it she called me back over one day we did it again same outcome for the both of us she said it was great I didn't believe her it happened again and she could tell that something was wrong because of the way I was acting I guess and I was apologizing to her for not making her see the fireworks LOL he said believe me it was great I thought about it and I thought about it and I thought about it how could I make it better and one day she calls me back again and says her mom's going to be gone on Saturday to come over she asked me if I was still upset about what had happened and I told her no and she said good because it was great I still didn't believe her so that Saturday on the way to her house I just kept thinking about it what was I going to do the moment I got there everything changed it was last weekend in town and she was going back to school Monday so I decided to change things up and make it all about her everything I did was all about her as I had the biggest crush on her and that's when everything changed by doing it this way I lasted longer I felt things deeper because I tell them coming from her as I was doing it to her so in the beginning I said I was pretty lucky and that's because I learned to make it all about her and when you can do that everything changes when we were finished we both rolled up each other and she just said oh my God she said I know the fireworks now I saw the fireworks and I said so did I and from that moment on all the way to this day I've carried that with me and I've done nothing but try to perfect it and as far as I'm concerned I've gotten closer everybody's different everybody feels things different but when you can feel that person and understand what they want and give it to them I call that success and knowledge

[AlphaMale1]

I never realized how much most girls wanted sex as much as I first wife told me this. My first experience was at age 11 with a cousin. Neither of us had any idea what sex was as the Internet was over 20 years of being made public. We learned about sex from talking to our buddies, who were just as much in the dark as we were, and from finding our parents dirty magazines. One evening while my uncle and aunt were visiting my cousin came to my bedroom to visit. She told me she found magazines in her parents closet that showed adults doing something she never heard of or seen. I told her I found the same mags in my parents bedroom. I asked if she wanted to try it and she agreed. Thus, my sexual life began. We fucked and within a few minutes I came inside her. That was a massive surprise as I had no idea my body would do that.

For the next ten years or so we would have sex from time to time. It is how she learned to suck cock and I learned to please her clit. Now we rarely fuck as we both have our own worlds. However, we still on occasionally do and it is still as exciting as it was back then.

There is something about our first time that stays with us for life. Enjoy it!

[MrNameless]

holy sweet home alabama

[Anonymous]

You dont get crazily attached to the first person you fuck. This became one of the reasons i was scared to start having sex. I didn't wanna risk being so heart broken and miserable. Then i decided to fuck and realized that was all bullshit. Which is good.

[ushagomez]

Well I think that until you start being sexual, you can never appreciate just how good it is. If I had known I might have got into a relationship even sooner than I did, but that would probably have been a major distraction from studies.

[katiesmuff]

Just how good foreplay can get instead of just a bit of sucking cock and then fucking.

[RobT312]

I wish I lost my virginity sooner, in high school instead of college, and would have had more sex when younger! I’m also recently bisexual, so I wish I knew I liked sex with men sooner and would have tried more of that too

[ArrowheadSW]

When I was much younger I wish I knew that you're supposed to take your time and relax and not rush into it.

[rachel776]

i was just dying to know what it was like

[vj0090]

After knowing it.. how u feel now? Haha

[siferius90]

That masturbation gives equally good orgasms

[Justmeagain1]

Sex isn’t a sign of love nor is it a way to ensure you are worthy of someone or to be in their life.

[flyingpilot37]

While I haven't been in any sexual relationship yet, I will say that I had no idea the pleasure that I could give myself until I stated to self pleasure myself.

I didn't start it until like junior year of high school, but the first time I did it opened the floodgates & realization of what I can do to treat myself.

[itsalyssaagain]

That an emotional connection and feeling secure in someone’s energy is sooooooo much more intimate and important.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I never asked a girl to the prom because I thought we would have to have sex on prom night.

[magiusX26]

that it turns out to not be worth any of the trouble to get it. self explanitory.

[Mansearching]

How to hit that g-spot just right to give her that lazy eye.

[Andres77]

How much girls really appreciate receiving oral...

[EpicSnail]

How to get it lol

[LiamJHayden]

How empty it is without an actual connection to the partner. Why? Because I would not have wasted all that time in the empty pursuit of another piece.

[Rodddy]

Wish I had known how to last longer. I could have given more pleasure to the women I was with if I had learned that skill.

[Anonymous]

That just because you give your body to a guy it doesn’t mean he’ll give you his heart.

[Anonymous]

That it’s not this gross, disgusting thing like my mom made it out to be. 🙄

[Anonymous]

I wished I knew how much sex is a head game and purely just for 8 seconds, I never would have done it at all. All the work and effort a guy makes just to have it over so fast just isn’t worth my time.

[anon1903]

Lmao 😭😭