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What's the best way to use a dildo?

Most ways/positions get feel odd to me. I originally got it cause I like the feeling of having both inside and outside action. The second reason is I love doggy, but sticking it to a wall and backing into it the angles are all wrong. My legs and feet get in the way I need it between my legs.

The only other position that seems to work is sticking it to a closed toilet seat (all my chairs etc is cloth and thus it doesn't stick). And while that's amazing it's a lot harder than doing cowgirl - which can't be done really. I did try to stick the dildo to a hardback book, put that on top of a pillow and then ride it but it was quite clunky and the book dug into my thighs and I ended up focusing more on the book then actually riding it since I kept lifting the book up as well. The only other thing I found is the bath and putting it on the bath ring, but having one leg in the bath and one out is uncomfortable after 5/10 mins.

How does one use a dildo? Because lying in missionary while reaching down and moving it, isn't really cutting it like it used to.
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Also when using my dildo everytime I get close I squeeze it out, which basically loses the orgasm. Does anyone know of straps or methods of keeping it in when not using the suction?
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  • You have two separate regions inside your vagina.
    *The anterior fornix is "north" of your cervix. It is relatively narrow and only about 3" deep. But easing a dildo up into that space passes two "spots" (A and G) that are unusually sensitive. Those spots should give you good feedback.
    *The posterior fornix is "south" of your cervix, beside to your "rectum". it can expand to significant width and up to maybe 7" in length. Only the first 3.5" feel much stimulation but the length of a longer thrust is helpful and a satisfying "full feeling" is often cited.

    • Soooo, in my view, precisely find your g-spot, at the base of your pubic bone and press the nose of your dildo gently into it, repeatedly. Better if it vibrates.

    • I'm pretty sure I've found it, everything I've read about it says it's a spongy bit of tissue on the inside of the vulva. A couple of inches in using a hooked finger. It feels rough and somewhat squishy and is right on a bone. But if that's the g spot I can't say I feel anything from touching it. Even after being stimulated. I know I really like cowgirl and doggy, I have no idea what areas exactly are being stimulated there, but I don't know I don't really think masturbation is for me.

    • I am not a troll, perv, looking for a date or wanting to "talk dirty". I have just been around a few vaginas and have made it a point to understand how they work. I am not blessed with an impressive Primary Weapon nor much in the line of stamina. So it has been necessary to develop skills at cunnilingus and fingering and I have gotten good reviews for both. So here something I'd like you to try.

      First, your research on the G-spot is "spot-on". It does not surprise me that simple G-spot stimulation does not give strong results. When a penis is operating in that region, three hot spots are stimulated; the Vaginal Entrance, G-spot and "A-spot", which is farther up the hall. But fingering the G-spot alone at best hits two, and a penis fills up the space better and deeper. That may be why you like Cowgirl.

      So here's my suggestion. Position your first two fingers on your G-spot like this.
      What's the best way to use a dildo?

      Notice the curled thumb. Extend it straight to the white spot, which is the Glans Clitoris and lightly press on it. You can then stroke your hand fore and aft and stimulate the vaginal entrance, G-spot and Glans Clitoris, all at the same time. The symphony of sensations may bring you to or closer to orgasm. AND, if you still need a push, you can dip just the tip of your ring finger into your anus to tease it along with the others. I have found that this approach will give much faster orgasms than PIV and even faster than cunnilingus. In a comfortable position, you can do this for yourself and can get very good results. Or your guy can do it for you.

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  • My SO prefers a rabbit vibrator over a dildo. Try it. It vibrates your clit while being inside your vagina. My SO has sone fantastic orgasms from it. She often likes me to Jack off on her tits, or she sucks me, while she's using her pet rabbit.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Use a mirror under you and ride cowgirl!

    Buy another sucker toy way better!

    Also try a sucker butterfly dildo! Amazing never don't make a mess from ours.

    • I haven't got a problem with the suction, it's the angles. If I put it on a wall then go on all fours it doesn't work all that well, maybe if I had a post that I can attach it to, and have my legs either side that would work.

    • Then go for it make a post or try tieing it to a pillow and angle it

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  • Honey you need the real thing it works in all posiions. Dm me if you want. No expectations!

  • Double it and give it to the next person

  • You might want to consider a visit to the gynecologist to be sure that your vaginal angle is still in the range that it should be, and there is no retroversion of the canal.

  • Nail it to a wall?

    • I've got no problems with the suction this was a post asking about angles and better positions to use a dildo

    • Perhaps a base like a piece of wood. You just need to weight the other end then have some pendulum to angle it. Right?

    • Not pendulum per se, but fulcrum.

  • can i get to ur home and do it 🔥😚

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