What's the big deal with nudes?

[Anonymous]

What's the point of asking for nudes? Do you guys masturbate to them? I've never sent them because I feel like I'm gonna have the same body parts in person so id rather them see it in person where they can explore. I'd only ever consider to send nudes to someone I'm in a relationship with. So can you guys just explain the whole nudes sending idea?

[DodgersGM]

It' difficult to describe the power that nudies have over some men.

I will say this (and this applies to ALL pictures): as much as it seems illogical to women, men do like to see lots of pictures, whether it's your face, your smile, you rockin' a new scarf you just bought, some part of your body that your man likes, etc. Even if they seem like they are same picture over and over and over and over, your man likely does not see it this way at all. To US, each new picture is like an entirely new experience, and we generally like to see as much of you as we can.

[MrOracle]

Guys want nudes for a few reasons:

- guys are horny and are biologically predisposed to desire VARIATION (i. e., they like to look at many DIFFERENT naked girls

- many guys can't get a girlfriend (or won't do the work to make it happen), so they get off from getting pics from girls over the Internet.

- yes, many do masturbate.

[redvelvet_valeria]

Exactly i agree with you , like whats the big deal its the same parts in person better for exploring. Of course they masturbate to them, its guys xD but i hate when they ask for them and when you tell them no they get mad like its disrespectful in my perspective. Well even if you were in a relationship how are you going to be 100% sure you are going to be with that guy for a long time. say. what if you were with someone, sent nudes and then after a while broke up. he's still gonna have them, many times many guys will expose you over the internet and blackmail you.

[Asker]

This is exactly how I think about the whole sending nudes thing. I get asked so much it's exhausting and I have to keep saying no but they hate that word. It's like no isn't in their vocabulary.

[redvelvet_valeria]

Exactly, same here and i always say no and there ends the conversation but I don't know im not gonna be risking myself just to make someone happy that way there are other decent ways to make a guy happy. and its funny cuz guys also bitch because they can't find a loyal girl , and isn't a hoe and blah blah blah its BS. XD

[Asker]

We are so alike Lmaoo I can't tell you how many times this happens. Im in high school right now and I'm sure as hell not gonna risk my acceptance to college for some guy to beat his meat and then send it around

[redvelvet_valeria]

Omg forreal we have soo much in common im in highschool too i hate when they ask like they just killed such a good convo or like if they trying to get at you they killed the whole situation xD like just stop its kinda gross and annoying.. like im trying to keep a good reputation even when i go to college

[linkywinky]

ah, I'd never send nudes. I'm okay with like, cleavage shots because I have ridiculous cleavage IRL regardless of if I'm taking a picture, but yeah I'd never send someone full nudes.

[Ihav2fart]

True story

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[Asker]

Same here ✋

[linkywinky]

@Ihav2fart, I was always told "if you got 'em, flaunt 'em." so hey, fine by me.

[Ihav2fart]

Speechless! The world needs more ladies like this out there.

[zombiebabe]

maybe they will just fap to them
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[serg11]

Some guys want them to masturbate to, some guys I have noticed use them to "brag" to their other friends that they are getting women.

[SUBZEROHERO]

eghh nudes are nice for certain circumstances. I'm more of a video and in person type of guy but I must admit a nice shot of some lace boy cut panties are always nice

[DarkHumorRUs]

I don't think I'm the only one who tries to picture my crush when waxing the dolphin...
Nudes would help that process.

[matheus_mb]

I see nudes to masturbate when I want. I always see nudes with this purpose.

[Ihav2fart]

If it isn't a big deal send some over!

[Ihav2fart]

WAIT I TAKE IT BACK!!! I DONT WNANA GO TO PRISON!

[Ihav2fart]

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[BassistForever]

lol this is great stuff right here ;)

[linkywinky]

you fucked up.

[Ihav2fart]

@linkywinky shhhh nobody knows

[Asker]

Lol nobody's gonna go to prison

[Ihav2fart]

Ya cause nothing happened!

[Asker]

Lmaoo this is too funny

[gapminder]

Yeah we slap ham to it! We like boobies, butts and vaginas. And will spend our entire lives looking for them.

[Findesemana]

Yes in honesty some do...

[spencer97]

It makes us hard and its sexy and we masturbate to them if they ask u should give...

[Snowfally]

Guys are more visual than relational, girls are more relational than visual.
Now may I get upset when girls want it more relational? Or is it just girls that have a right to be upset?

[Alexharriszxc]

Just for fun

[Anonymous]

they are also illegal if you are under 18.

[Anonymous]

I see all this talk about teens sending nudes. In the USA, this is considered producing and distributing child pornography. This is a federal offense, and teens have been prosecuted. Yes, if you are under 18, you can be charged. If a teen receives any type of nude picture, then the person sending the pictures is guilty of "pandering obscenity to a minor". It is possible, then, to be guilty of both producing and distributing child porn AND pandering obscenity to a minor.

Many other nations have similar laws, so it is not necessarily a USA only issue.
Also, age of consent laws don't apply here. Under 18 you are guilty under federal law, regardless of the age of consent in states.

Wake up kiddos.

[Anonymous]

I use them for blackmail later on.