What’s the farthest a woman can go sexually on a first date without the man thinking she’s “easy” or not relationship material?

For example, a kiss, making out clothes on, making out clothes off, sex, etc.
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  • If she sucks my dick before she kisses me...

    ... she a ho.


    Jokes aside. I really don't even consider a girl moving "too far" on the first date but there is a such thing as "too fast" on a first date.

    Im all for going all the way on the first date. But im expecting the girl wants to play the get to know you game a little bit first and if things get more intense she probably wants some kind of foreplay.

    If she goes reaching for the crotch on the first date before she even knows my full name, its a red flag that she may be too fast for me.

    Im still gonna play along because why not but that red flag will definitely be noticed.

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  • To be honest even if a girl makes me wait I would still assume that she was probably easy for other guys in the past. I don't think girls are generally consistent. There are some guys they will fuck right away and other guys they put on the good girls/Im not into hookups act in front of.

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  • I think a handjob is ok for the first date. After a few more dates then more fun could follow. What are your thoughts?

  • It depends so much on both people involved!
    How you two feel about each other, how aroused you both are, and more !
    There are many different things to think about, however.
    Hit me up if you want to talk about it

  • In my case, the farthest she could (attempt to) go on a first date without making me think she's easy is a hug. Even a hug would seem a bit premature though.

  • I work everyday 6 weeks on site with a bunch of hairy smelly construction workers and sometimes I just have a few days off. If a woman is "easy" on the first date I don't think bad about her. I usually get down on my knees and thank her.

  • She can go all the way with me. Im not going to think she is easy. Im going to think that i just said or did the rite things on are date to make her want to take it that far that quick with me

  • I'd ask you if your fears hold you back

  • If it's a first date with someone you don't know particularly well, and you are liking the guy, a hug or kiss on the cheek is typical. If you've known the guy for a long time and have been flirting with each other, do whatever feels right.

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  • Depends if you knew each other before.
    If you were for example aingle for years, and he was your friend, and you started dating, you can go for sex even before 1st date, he won't think ur a hoe.
    If you didn't know each other, i think 2-3 weeks seems alright.

  • As long as we start from the bottom and work our way up she can take it just before sex, but not actually to it. And as long as it progresses, I. E., kiss>make out with clohtes>make out without clothes>handjob and so on. If she jumps straight to the end, then I start asking questions.

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