What’s the first thing that sexually attracts you to someone?

I'm gonna say a nice smile with pretty teeth. Bonus points if they have dimples (I have a weird obsession with dimples lol).

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  • Maybe you're looking at someone, but you're not sure and you're wondering what sexual attraction looks like. It is normal to be uncertain.
    Not everyone is experienced in the realm of dating and sexual intimacy. The good thing is I have made every possible mistake of existence in this region, so rest assured, I will guide you in the right direction. Sometimes, you’re not sure about someone or how sexual attraction feels.

    Take people who were once platonic friends and later ended up dating each other. At one point there was no heavy feeling of sexual attraction between them. However, one day, it hit them.

    How does sexual attraction feel?

    Sex in town after watching, sexual attraction is that feeling when you think you just want to tear their clothes off. And listen, it feels that way too. However, it comes in different forms.

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    People are weird, and sexual attraction can sometimes be a feeling you don’t notice. You know, we are all different so one person's reaction to sexual attraction is different from my response.

    Let's go to the realm of unknown-row intense music

    # 1 Your body tells you. It’s crazy and if you haven’t experienced it yet you can’t believe it, your body tells you. Don’t try to analyze it, even though your brain is attached to your body but sexual attraction starts in the body, not in your head.

    So, if your body feels weird in a good way and I will tell you some of the symptoms, it is probably a good sign that you are attracted to that person.

    # 2 Who are you attracted to by imitating your body. You may not even notice that your body is doing it, but if possible, pay attention to how your body reacts to certain people.

    This simulation is called interactive synchrony which is the basis of how we mimic communication. How do we teach kids to communicate? Is copying. How do we teach people to speak a language? Through imitation. Crazy, isn't it?

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    So, when we are sexually attracted to someone we reflect on what we do to include facial expressions, body movements, even the way they smile. By imitating we try to bond with that person.

    # 3 You feel physically warm. Do you know the feeling when you are embarrassed? You can start the heat from your feet and germinate your body. You have the same feeling when you are sexually attracted to someone.

    Your body will warm-up, your heart rate will increase and if you weren’t a high school reunion you could have ripped off their clothes by now. It’s a sexual attraction when you watch it in movies or when your first love was shown. This intensity, yes, it is sexual attraction.

    # 4 Dopamine kicks. That probably means nothing to you. First, you need to know what dopamine is. This chemical is produced in the brain and it is mainly responsible for feeling sexual attraction. It makes you sexually aroused and creates the feeling of a butterfly in your stomach.

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    Mind you, dopamine has a dark side. Do you know when you are obsessed with someone? Okay, you can thank dopamine for that. It makes you addicted to that person.

    # 5 You see yourself touching them. You may not even realize it, but when you talk to them, you touch their hands openly or when you smile, you touch their shoulders.

    However, when I say playful touch, I mean playful touch. Of course, touching intimate places is a clear sign that there is sexual attraction, but it is not respectful. We aim for a respectful and playful touch. Not sexual harassment.

    # 6 You have to remember the little details. It’s amazing to think about it since we want to believe that we remember what people say to us. However, if you are sexually attracted to someone, remember the details you are giving. This is called considerable memory.

    Now, I’m not saying that this person remembers that you broke your arm when you were five years old, but they can remind you to like your coffee. It is subconscious and actually helps to create a threatening bond between

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  • Their intelligence (can't be with a dumb f)🙄, a little wild possessive streak 🔥🔥, good body - shows he takes good care of himself. The attraction should be there. Something should connect us. You just know if you're attracted to someone or not - you feel it.

    • For sure

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  • Her ASSets. If it's big and nicely shaped the rest almost doesn't matter though a face that is easy to look at and nice long touchable hair also go a long way. Notice I didn't even mention breasts. They are nice but given a choice between flat chest combined with a nice butt or bit chest but smallish flattish butt I'd take the flat chest combined with a big butt any day of the week. However, if any one feature is outstanding and beautiful then all the others can be deficient and I'd still be attracted to them. A long gorgeous mane of hair that I am allowed to touch will make up for almost anything. A super gorgeous kissable face, likewise. A perfect butt and I won't even know what her chest looks like for weeks or months.

    • Lol I get it, you're an ass man

  • Teeth are nice and a pretty good indicator of socio-economic status if that is important. I think the face is my default. It's funny because if there is anything of a spark I will somehow manage to make an assessment of her eyes, tits, ass, legs, and though there is rarely a giveaway unless she is wearing something designed as lingerie, her pussy. Maybe I'm hoping to see a big wet spot. In panties during preliminaries seeing, feeling, tasting, her wetness is a huge turn on but that's irrelevant to your question. I think I get a preliminary face check and then the details and then more global. There is so much to appreciate.

    • Nice

    • I heard someone say that in college before why are teeth and indicator of socio-economics?

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  • Face (chiselled, yum yum) with some bristle, deep voice, warm smile through the eyes, bold eye contact.
    Then I work my way down (which, coincidentally, also follows in importance.)
    And style does matter.

    • Style defined matters. I like a guy that can wear clothes and not let the clothes wear them.

    • Good point 👍. I like a guy who chooses what he wears consciously; not someone who is afraid to ever stand out, or look like they are putting in any effort.

    • Yessss

  • For me its physical fitness and confidence and clean cut appearance as well as kindness

  • You know that guy who has those bedroom eyes that look into your soul? Yeah him that guy YUMMI I just want to scoop him up and eat him whole. You just want to devour him at the same time slap his face as hard as you can. He drives you a little nuts you almost don’t like him this power of confidence he has. The man of few words and eyes that driving you mad to discover him.

    • Lol i felt a hard on my d... but the a knee on my nuts lol

    • @mariospapadopoulos12 😂

    • Haha ey why u laugh? U like kicking guys in the nuts? Lol

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  • Her attractive face and a smile that will brighten my day. A charasmatic combination that I found most appealing for me. The sexual and curvious body parts always come afterwards.

  • Personality, someone who has confidence but doesn't take themselves too seriously, a good sense of humor. A nice, genuine smile doesn't hurt either.

    • Great traits

  • Manly voice and charisma

  • Smile, voice and overall facial structure and expression. Posture matters as well. The shortest person can look tall with good posture

  • His eyes in relation with his eyebrows, his nose and lips, his attire, should be very neat, no matter is casual or formal clothes, the way he treats me, his respect to me. The way he talks. Should be very polite. In general it’s a whole thing about him that makes him to like me or not.

  • Friendly smile, nice eyes.

  • 👁️👁️ the window to the soul ✌️https://youtu. be/fphjh7m5flA

    What’s the first thing that sexually attracts you to someone?
  • eyes, smiling eyes, followed by a nice smile

  • I love a good smile, laugh and posture. I man who can smile often, laugh and stand with good posture are sexy. Not a fan of the silent, stoic and emo types.

    • Does age matters if the man have all these qualities?

    • @Shivraj12s for me, no. All through my twenties I was with men of all ages. Through many hookups I’ve been with men in their forties and fifties I found attractive.

    • @gloriaB now you are 39 can you do it with 20s

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  • For me its an exotic blend of adolescent-like 'innocent' naivete appearance co-mingled with an "I'm not THAT 'innocent'" as SHE initiates straddling my lap and teasingly grinding with THAT 'twinkle' in her eyes and her hot wet tongue teasing my ear~ NONE of that #Me Too ambiguity 'consensual' convince me!

  • Eyes, smile, a laugh, but mainly the sparkle in someone’s eyes, often mischievous or daring you.

    • Lol good one

  • Women who are tall (at least 5'10") and thick. That's an almost insta-boner. The taller and thicker; the more likely it is for me to stiffen.

  • Im a sucker for the Asian, blasian look.

    Any guy that meets that criteria and I'm there.
    With men that haven't been in that category they're usually really pretty, but have a rough and ready look. Bald or really low manly hair cut, with designer stubble or a beard. Like they make themselves look especially manly.

    • Lily, I ain't hitting on you, but I don't know what a blasian look is. Have a look at my pp. Does it resemble something you just said? Could you throw some light?

    • So I like the look of Will Demps and Rui hachimura... Although he's not blasian as he's half Mexican I do love Miguel. My ex was a lighter looking version of him. Very sexy

    • Ooh I just Googled them. Thanks for clearing the doubt. They're indeed good looking. :) What would you say about my display picture though? Looking okayish, handsome, ugly or anything else?

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  • For me, a girl's laugh, if she can't hold it back or control it, can be one of her sexiest and most endearing traits!

  • The right attitude

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  • Their build/body is the first thing I notice, and then their face.

  • If they have a nice face, im already drawn to them. I like dimples too!

    • They get me in trouble!

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