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  • Something I don’t like to think about because once you have sex with someone that you gave your heart to hoping they felt
    The same about you , to find out they don’t feel the same and they walk away from you , all those days after losing them is a shitty Experience is how I look at it , I don’t have sex with girls just for the hell of it , for me to even have sex with a girl , I have tp feel chemistry and connections and that it’s possibly going somewhere , it’s a 50/50 chance we take , we never really know someone else’s intentions , so if Ian having consistent sex with a girl and then it ends , all those days not having sex with her anymore sucks , sexual frustration to me is a real thing, after
    My ex wife cheated on me and left me , I didn’t have sex with any girl for about 2 years , I couldn’t picture myself having sex with anyone else cuz I was so use to my ex. So the thought of starting over wasn’t easy , and eventually entering back into the dating world when I thought I was ready turned into a rollercoaster nightmare

Most Helpful Guy

  • I once went 17 years, believe it or not.

    What's the longest you've gone without having sex?

    It wasn't really that bad, I didn't even really mind up until the last couple of years I started getting hornier and hornier all the time and was really thinking about sex all the time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • currently.. i left my ex at end of Jan 2023 and today is July 18th, 2023... almost 6 months.

    last time was 2017 when i caught my ex with 2 other women on New Years Eve... after i broke up, i went 4-5 months.

    right now, i am so fat from having 2 babies since 2019 (i weigh 177#s; normally 115-130#s), every guy i talk to sees a fat chick.. not even worthy of a mercy fuck.

    I did date a 50 yo guy for almost 2 months recently, but he was such a gentleman, i never even got a kiss on the lips... arghh. i broke up with him...

    • Sorry that happened and it right sometimes guys are so respectful it is sickening makes you not want them! My highschool boyfriend was that way! I wanted to hold his hand and kiss but nope! Your still amazing mom having 2 kids you deserve to have your needs met! Would so love to help too. Besides I like my gfs wonderfully big.

    • I’m sorry this happened to you. Cheating and the fallout from it is horrible.

    • We need to spread more stories like these. Keep women from picking shitty men and ruining their lives.

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  • Technically 15 years because I didn't have sex until I was 16.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Probably hmmm 20 years!

  • Since 2019. And I’m married and have an open relationship.

  • Still Virgin

  • 10 years now, but porn is my companion. Guess i'm way to ugly to be made out with, even if the opposite party is drunk af... so my right hand and my, computer, tablet, phone is my best friend...😁🤷‍♂️

  • my whole life, if online stuff doesn't count

  • about 3 years.

  • From my birth until I ended my virginity on my 15th birthday. After that I think 8 days.

    • Are you saying after you gave your virginity, you're having it every week at least Since the age of 15?

    • @sidhagain Yes, that’s right.

  • age 1. Been the longest streak in history, i'll tell you wha

  • 9 months over lockdown. It was horrible

    • mine was longer than that because i didn't have a boyfriend when it started

    • I got so frustrated I went on to tinder and found a load of guys to have sex with

  • I wanna have sex 😩

  • Since losing my virginity at 22 I'd say no more than 3 months.

    For better or worse I seem to find myself in situations involving a sexual encounter.

    So far so good though, i don't feel it's in any way detrimental

  • I haven't had sex since around Thanksgiving 2008.

  • Since I was married? Five weeks.

    After having sex the first time? Multiple months at a time.

  • Birth to 19.

  • I’m still in the middle of it…so, I am loathe to do the math!

  • Two years so far, but I'm also not huge on sex, so it's never bothered me much.

    Last girl I dated I didn't want to rush into things and make the relationship early on about sex. The cuddling, kissing, and spending quality time together was more appealing to me.

  • Since I started having sex the longest has been a month.

  • 22 years and counting

  • The longest period I've gone through without sex must be about one week, because of a journey aboad. I did survive... ;0)

  • Almost 3 years at the fiery end of a bad marriage. I didn't play outside, but discovered a whole new world of masturbation..

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