What’s the longest you would wait to have sex before breaking it off?

Say the girl is a virgin who isn’t waiting until marriage. She just wants to feel completely comfortable and ready first.
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  • one of my exes made me wait 8 months but to be honest she had a legit reason. if a girl losing her virginity is painful, hers was excruciating...
    but the new rules are
    --6 months if we were already dating before i found out she was a virgin.
    --If i knew she is a virgin already... there will be NO dating.
    --3 months if she is not a virgin... after 3 she's just being a selfish dick... so no.

  • Totally depends on the girl. If everything else is clicking, personality, sense of humor, open honesty I would wait, no time limit. What could possibly be more amazing and sensual than being someone's first if you really and truly care about the whole person?

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  • First date

  • Really depends on the situation.
    I'd be willing to wait till have sex, if she is willing to please me in other ways...

  • If I was in love with her, I'd wait as long as necessary.

  • 1 year

    • If after a year she still doesn’t have any desire for sex then I can’t see continuing to build a romantic relationship

  • Probably 6 months without doing anything sexual and a year without having sexual intercourse

  • I'll respect that. If we feel like we're right for each other, I'm willing to wait till marriage.

  • id wait as long as she needs if i love her

  • Personally I wouldn't break it off before she feels completly happy but thats not always the case. It is NOT worth forcing your first sexual experience solely because you want to please your partner. Tell him exaclty how you feel.

  • Till she feels comfortable enough

  • 2 years. A virgin has to wait 6 months before I will have sex with her. The lockdown doesn't count for the time limit.

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