What’s the most appealing thing about sex for guys in general?

When it comes to sex on average men and women see different appeals too it. I personally love the full closeness it provides (like we have become one body and soul) The affection and overall intimacy is such a big part of it in my opinion. Hence why one night stands whilst fun are very forgettable to me. No true connection.

Wbu you guys? What is the appeal of sex to you?
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  • When I was younger it was the physical contact, the physical pleasure and the idea that I was at least desirable enough that someone else would let me touch them... and I always made it worth her while so that meant I got to enjoy exploring a woman's body.

    Now, after 18+ years of marriage it's sharing the bond that we have, exploring each other's imagination and desires and ideas and curiosities... and I really enjoy her body. She fills up my senses, I absorb as much of her with looking at her beautiful face and sensuous body, smelling her pheromones, her sweat, her breath, all the intimate places it's tasting her mouth and skin and sweat and juices, it's touching her radiant and smooth skin, squeezing her thighs and butt and boobs, and hearing her gasp and groan and grunt and growl as I thoroughly please her... and when she regains her senses and catches her breath... the look of admiration and such appreciation for what I just did for her and to her.
    That's what I enjoy most.

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  • I couldn't do one night stands, the very idea of it sounds worthless to me. Perhaps back when I didn't have any experience I might be excited by almost anything. But now it is a very emotional matter. I need to have a sense of trust and connection and preferably full body contact most of the time. That is why I may appear somewhat boring by the standard of the internet. I may do fun variation here and there but most of the time I want to be almost hugging with just that necessary bit of pelvic movement. For me it's basically an upgrade to cuddling. And what happens right before and after is just as important. Sex without emotional content doesn't work for me, which is why when my last relationship was ending, I faced some complaints about sudden drop of desire from my side. If I am not seeing a future with someone, sex ceases to make any sense to me.

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  • For me, it's giving her so much pleasure that she can't wait to go again, and to enjoy all of her various reactions and feedback. I love to scramble her brain, to make her unable to speak or move because she's so high on endorphins that it's all she can do to stare into space and maybe rub my arm a little.

    And, yes, of course I enjoy the closeness and the different kind of communication and the trust and all of that - it's a "next-level" kind of sharing and communicating.

  • I share your thought of the closeness sex brings to a relationship. Also learning what makes your partner completely let go and having the mutual ability to express our intimate desires.

    Feeling each others naked body and a willingness to share it all together pushes the relationship even tighter. Sex is a big part of the relationship, and it also is a strong indicator if both people are ability to drop their inhibitions and express what turns them on the most.

    I also agree none of that happens during a one night stand. Had a couple of those and neither of them developed into anything other than one great orgasm!

  • S&M and anal sex.

  • Getting to physically enjoy a woman's body and then climax. I'm not sure an emotional connection is necessary for most men (Including myself), that seems to be what women crave.

    Although I'm not a fan of one night stands or hookups, like I prefer to know and like a girl before having sex, so maybe that is an indication of a basic connection being required. But sex is generally for physical pleasure.

  • We all have an energy within this and if you know how to use it and if you can connect your energy with another person's energy if you come to the most intense love making you ever feel in your life it will be the most intense orgasms you ever have in your life but I'd rather the touch I did the snow I love the kiss I love the flow of I just melting together I love taking her there the fine line have orgasm or not I got pulled over to the orgasm side keep it over there for a minute then pushing her back over just keep teasing building up and then just pound away but that depends on a few other things too

  • The appeal is how her pussy feels on my dick, it's fun and feels good. Has nothing to do with the mind meld you girls attach to the act.

  • Intimacy is nice, but we guys are a little selfish when it cums to sex. The experience of the orgasm, hers and mine, is most delectable.

  • I like the view of her naked body in total, her legs, breasts, nipples ass, pussy, pubic hair et cetera. I just enjoy the view of the entire naked female body and the feel of it, under me, or feeling it with my hands.

  • Giving her oral sex.

  • I have to agree with what you said, and you said it better than I could.
    One night stands have their place, but you never really get close to that person.

  • Getting to shove a load of cum in her. Not for sexual or triumphant reasons but it says to me that she wants me, she accepts me and is even willing to allow what we just did to, forever, change her life, and mine. It's a kind of commitment.

    • As a cum slut myself this turned me on more than it should have lol

    • Glad I could cum to your rescue! You MUST cum to mine, some time! Sadly, I worded that comment better the first time I wrote and I wanted to make a copy of it and, when I did, instead of clicking on "Copy", I clicked on "Paste" and lost it all to something else I saved an hour before!!

  • Closeness is pretty great. So is the warmth and smell.

  • I don't know really, sure it's a great thing that happens but yeah that's about it

    The lack of emotions and almost asexuality makes for this kinda answer or it could even be how passive a role I actually partake in the act

  • I could certainly live quite well with just the closeness of cuddling and spooning.
    And for those skeptics out there in Trollville, I am still 100% functional.

  • What we love most about sex? I Wouldn't know, but if I had to guess it would be rubbing his dick on your anything. Rubbing before insertion, a lot of rubbing. Also makes a dude feel powerful when he comes deep inside you. What else?

  • @StormMistress I'm a Dom, I like being in control of the girl and her letting me do as I please with her and her body.

  • I agree with what you said :)

  • the grinding together

  • How much fun the experience is. How bout you?

  • I like sex for much of the same reason you do but as well as the physical pleasure it comes with and how it makes me feel more masculine and more of a man especially after i cum inside her. There is also the domination part of it but that we be part of the masculinity feeling. I want to say a sexy woman is like a ripe delicious fruit waiting to be tasted and eaten to me as a man. And this fruit tastes so amazing and gets me this very unique high. Its almost like catnip for cats lmfao 😂

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