Girls, what's the most uncomfortable exchange you've had with a male stranger?

[ghostqueen]

[Alice2398]

I've had a few. One time I was talking home from work and man drove past me and staired me down. Then he went around the road again and rolled down his window asking me if I was okay. I ignored him, he drove down the road past me again and spead up really fast, then he drove past me again and said "you know you want to get in this car" and winked at me then he drove around again and parked his car next to the path I was walking on and before he got out to grab me I ran as fast I could and hide. I had no battery on my phone and I didn't know what to do lucky I lost him and got home safe.

Another I was meeting my friend in town after college, I walked through the shopping centre to meet her and a man slapped my arse and said "sexy" I was 16 years old pedo. Then anyway I'm waiting outside my friends work and he's there, I relised he must have followed me, he touched my face and told me I was "very pretty" and offered me drugs, I told him to leave me alone and he did at first till I saw him coming back for a 3rd try. I decided i just walk to the bus station and go meet my friend there.

Then there was Turkey I was probably around 12/13 and there was loads of creepy men working in the hotel asking me and my also under age stisters if they could rub suncream on are backs and feet and then try to give us little kisses and come to my bedroom window at night and tell me goodnight. Then one time we went to a market in Turkey and I passed out from the heat and a man and a old lady tried to kidnap me and put me in the back of a white van. Another time in Turkey also i was on a crowded bus and I had to stand up, I was really young and was dressed like a kid too, I kept pumping into this guy behind me he looked around 18/19 years old and I kept feeling something poking me in the back at the time I didn't understand but I saw something sticking big and long out his shorts. This I refuse to go turkey ever again worse place I've ever been and never felt so uncomfortable and unsafe In my life.

[Alice2398]

One time I had a male TA touch my upper thigh and say "I know you fancy me" and he used to follow me around outside of school too when I was around 15. The world is full of sick creeps unfortunately

[VIVANT]

Wow Alice!! That really is A LOT. I’m sorry I hope you had people you could talk to. I’m glad nothing was successful. D*ck heads.

[sjoes006]

Honestly most were when I was your age or a little older and I remember the feeling but not the details.

If I tried hard I could probably relive some of them but I think I learned the lesson I was supposed to at the time which is don’t allow yourself to be left alone in a common room with an older male stranger who seems really nice until everyone else steps out for a moment.

Definitely didn’t have to learn it the hard way other than maybe calling a friend to come pick me up and waiting for a half hour in the cold then getting yelled at by said friend for being stupid.

very scary and isolating feeling though. Hugs

[chrissykerdock]

a man was following so I went into a wooded area and he followed and caught up to me so I said what do you want? mind you I was in heels and mini dress... there was a bar across the street where I came out of and just went to sit for a little while but went the wrong way I really didn't think he'd follow me... anyway he says he wants a blowjob... so I had to act like it was okay because I knew if resisted it could've gotten ugly... so he got his blowjob and thanked me and left me... I was in my early 20s at the time he was easily in his 50s if not older than that.

[VIVANT]

Too bad you didn’t gave a gun , you could’ve shot his Weiner off.

[LEETSBEREAL]

Gun would of been good. I only wish I could switch places with you. No woman should have to do something they don't want to. I know you don't want trouble. I'm an adrenaline junkie so I'm all about trouble. You did what you felt you had to in order to keep safe. I respect you for that.

[RosieCourt]

Why would you go into a wooded area while a man is following you? I’m so confused 🤮 especially when you were out in the open and could of just went back in the bar.

[chrissykerdock]

@RosieCourt I figured i'd know then he was following me which was stupid of me... the bar was across a boulevard about 8 lanes across 4 one way 4 the other way... I was young and stupid i'll agree and admit... at that point I should've walked more into the publc... even on the boulevard I would've been better off even though nobody was out walking but at least cars were passing... i'd like to think if he grabbed me maybe i'd be better or someone would stop to help.

[vintagegirl90]

I was on a date and this guy decided he would flirt with me.. while I waited for the guy I was seeing to get my drink I told him the guy I’m seeing is coming it was incredibly awkward for this male stranger. Lol moral of the story don’t make presumptions about women in bars!

[Stephanielongoria]

This happened when I was there n high school I've used to work at a grocery store as a cashier when I was 17 years old. This weirdo started to show up his face frequently. I got creep out the days I was off he would ask for me to my manager. The creepy dude would come 4 times a week. It got to the point where I had to dial 911 glad I did.

[VIVANT]

Anything with The a stranger following me, uninvited.

[VIVANT]

That is def worse Than him touching me, my punching him, my walking away and him NOT following me.

[LEETSBEREAL]

Last time I got into an 'uncomfortable encounter' it nearly landed me in prison. I broke his jaw. However It was self defense. Fucker wanted to press charges? Even though he was the one who pushed me hard up against the wall coz I refused to give him my number. Then he started on my clothes... nah. Fuck boys think girls can't fight. Keep underestimating us.

[kaitylatte]

And you are officially my role model

[LEETSBEREAL]

*My goodness - thank you **massive hug** These ones I can't stand. Fuckers (can't even call them men) who think they can take what they want from women like they are entitled and we just have to obey. Fuck that. They would not dear do it to a man coz they know they'll get smashed into next week no hesitation. But women are the weaker sex right? Easy prey. For me these types are cowards. Pathetic parasites impersonating real men. It gets my blood boiling and all I get is angry and then comes in disgust.

[wingattebaby16]

in a night club, this guy was a great dancer, but he was constantly trying to ask me out but was doing it with vague questions.

I wanted to dance with him, found him sexy AF, but him not being able to come out and ask me if I liked big cocks, liked sex, and would I go out with him, left me wondering was he just toying/messing with me?

[VCardRebel]

I had a teacher (I won’t say age I was) that would rub himself when he talked with us female students one-on-one. One time he showed it to me. I reported him.

[Carlycomets]

So my car broke down and I needed to go to my friends house. So I decided to rake the bus there. That day I didn’t put a bra on. So I was in the bus and as this guy gets off the bus he brushes past me and grabs my boobs and gets off the bus. I’ve never been so mortified in my life. I was just in so much shock. It was so embarrassing as some people saw it. Guys are such creeps I hate some of them so much

[ninjagirl_34]

Me and my ex was asked to have a threesome with this dude. From that moment, I did not like him and tried to avoid at times.

[byowell]

*40+ year old man drunk and obviously flirting with me* *me uncomfortable I'm young, so I don't think so* *how young* *I'm 14* *okay I'll stop talking to you so I don't get in trouble* *continues to be crude and obnoxious*

[AnomalousPearl]

Similar thing happened to me, funny thing was he immediately went over and started flirting with my mother. Needless to say she was not pleased.