Guys, what’s the obsession with anal?

Every guy I’ve been with has asked me repeatedly for anal. What’s the obsession with it?
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  • I can't speak for other guys, but for me it's a combination of a few things. First is the obvious one... it's tighter than her vagina. It's actually not tighter up inside, just around the opening, which feels amazing when I'm balls deep in her ass. It almost feels like she's gripping my dick and trying to suck it in. It also feels like I'm deeper because that tight grip around the opening reaches the base of my dick where the opening of her vagina can't.

    Speaking of deep, I can go deeper in her ass than her vagina because there is no cervix to bump into, which is painful for her and makes me a little tentative. But in her ass, once she is warmed up and fully relaxed she can take me all the way, which feels amazing.

    I can cum in her ass with no condom and be confident I won't get her prego. And let's face it, condoms take away a lot of the sensation for us guys.

    The texture of the inside of her ass is different than her vagina. It's smoother, like velvet. So nice.

    She get's off on it. My wife enjoys it as much as I do and she gets more and better (more intense) orgasms when she rubs her clit while I fuck her ass than she does from anything else.

    I have often heard guys say they enjoy anal because it's a dominance thing. That's not true for me. I don't feel any more dominant when I'm in her ass than when I'm in her vagina.

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  • Truth be told, it's bravado.

    You see, our friends do it, then brag to us about it, so now we gotta try it, only to prove to them that we can "achieve" the same sexual prowess they can. If we try to bullshit something we didn't really achieve and get caught, it's like having points taken away for being full of shit, and a notch down the male-hierarchy social ladder we go.

    Women don't really seem to get it, that a huge part of being male is also that we have a very competitive social expectation and nature, and those who don't keep in the game end up on the bench, so to speak.

    Just another toxic male attribute I suppose, but it's not like we have much choice in separation from this because it totally affects our social networks which include careers. Anal might be a bit risque as the example for this, but it's apt.

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  • Maybe you have the booty for it?
    Jokes aside, anal is often seen as fifth base. You letting them touch fifth base could be seen as plenty of things. A pal of mine explains it as if a girl likes him enough to let him do that, then he knows they're really into him. Way I see it most girls seem to use that one as a way to show they're sexually adventurous.

    • Thanks haha And hmm I guess you’re right. That makes sense.

    • Aye. But it really puts gender equality in a new perspective. Scary thought!

  • Because it's more kinky and feels more dirty I guess. I find it hot too but personally I could be without it, would maybe be cool to try if the girl I'm with is interested otherwise it's not like I would push for it.

  • Mostly it comes from watching porn and considering it kind of the ultimate sex thing: if you manage to be allowed to do it, you are at the top.
    Anatomically speaking, it is supposed to give men more pleasure since it is tighter than the vagina and, depending on the position you are doing, it is even a little easier to do it.

  • They are closet homosexuals, or rapists wannabes. That's what rapists do to women when they kidnap and rape them repeatedly.

    I'm 100% straight and I have no interest in fucking a woman up the ass nor eating her asshole. I'd kiss a woman on her butt cheeks, but I'm not licking her asshole and Im not fucking her up the asshole either. Gross. That's Sodomy. It's disgusting.

  • There is nothing hotter than a confident women who likes her self when I'm sexting I would rather see a girl being sexy than all the way naked

  • I think some of it comes from porn. Porn maes it seem like everyone is into anal. Many guys have probly never even tried it but porn says go for it, so they ask to try it. No harm. Probly a novelty for some.

  • I have tried it twice with two different former girlfriends at their request. We used tons of lube. Sure I had a good orgasm each time but they did not. In fact they said it was very uncomfortable. I prefer the front door any day!

  • Tell him you would LOVE to let him take you anally, if you can love him first, with your 8-inch strap on toy, with the pink harness (then pretend to go look for it!) LOL!! Most guys will leave that alone!!

  • It's fun, it's something different, who wants to do the same thing all the time?

    Why are you so against it? Did some guy rush it with you, do it wrong and make it hurt? It shouldn't hurt at all just saying.

  • Well, here's my take on it. I honestly feel like it's sort of taboo. You know, forbidden or even, (Man)"Hey babe, you feeling ok? Seem kind of irritated?"(Woman)"Nah I'm alright. Just that time of the month you know."(Man)"Ah, I see. That sucks. Guess well have to rain check if things get heated between us tonight, lol."(Woman)"Says who? If your down there's always my ass.😉"(Man) Damn. She really does love me. Hell yeah!" Anyway, for me couple times was enough. Was great. But, for a guy to be always asking or if u think a particular dude is obsessed with it. Then he might just like ass. As in ass, lol. I don't know, possible bisexuality issue or hidden homosexual tendencies maybe. Who knows these days.

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