What's The "Real" Reason You Think You Get Hit On a lot?

Whats The Real Reason You Think You Get Hit On a lot?
For me, I think sometimes it's my looks, personality...
But more times than not, IRL I think people see/ hear older widowed single woman so think/assume that means lonely and desperate... Of which I'm neither... I didn't become single by choice, but "stay" that way by choice...
Whats The Real Reason You Think You Get Hit On a lot?
On here, I think it's because just because of my openness/honesty about sexuality and my posts under sexuality topic people mistake sexuality for easy slut or you're down to sext, video sex...
Whats The Real Reason You Think You Get Hit On a lot?
Sorry tho, that's not what that means... At least not for me 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Men do like to talk to an open minded woman and have fun and that leads to attraction, my explanation to your case and it's a good thing (i guess)

    In my case! Girls and women hit on me because of two things: 1) Seriously! My beard because here in Sweden not many men can grow full beards, the can be 30 years old men but look like a 20, no facial hair at all or it grows halfway and it doesn't look good and women here do like well groomed beard that smells nice. Am serious.
    2) My physique! I workout a lot and some sees it as a trend specially the ladies and do approach me and am tall too (according to them) am 188 cm tall (6.2 ft). And then you have the co-workers who tried to hit on me because am friendly and a fun guy to work with and like you! I talk about almost everything and that make some ladies be attract by my personality but i always tell them am married and i will never put my love life in such situation that will destroy all the hard work and trust me and my wife have.

    • 💜 love your answer.. And glad you would never do anything to jeopardize your marriage, no one worth that! Again, great, great answer!

    • Thanks B for the MHO

    • 👍👍🙂

  • I get hit on because I've been told I have a GREAT personality and not a bad looking guy an I'm pretty funny

    • All good characteristics

Most Helpful Girls

  • I always end up getting hit on by my male friends, I'd have an awesome friendship with them and bam I realise the nicer things are not just nice they were flirting and I never realised or didn't want to realise and then force myself to put distance between us.
    Also back when I was clubbing most weeks, there was no shortage there.
    I do find any post on sexuallity = slut, let's sext or my absolutely fav 🙄🙈 dic pic or the question what do you think of it, um it's a penis what do you want me to say 🤷🏻‍♀️😑

    • Lolol omg right... Damn can't even crack sex jokes without getting bombarded... Like I don't do stranger danger dick, not pics, not sexting, not video, nor long distance come visit for a hook up, like damn people really? And the friends thing... Same... When I was a teenager, most my friends were guys, but since my hubby died years ago, any make friend I've tried to have had tried to turn it into something more, even my neighbor's two knucklehead sons who yeah are both married. Just cuz I'm friendly, don't mean flirting, don't mean I wanna fuck you... Sorry lol guess needed to vent 🤣

    • I know what you mean in the end I took my photo down as I got too many I'd like to ** on your face, like seriously and this pic I had showed zero cleavage just me after curling my hair with a top on. Most times nowadays I just post anon, and then get called a guy well only a guy would post that, if your a girl send me a pm and prove it, 🙄 like why would I fall for that I know who I am. As for the married ones I fell down a trap once I started dating a guy and found out he was engaged to one of my bosses like for fs sake seriously. And don't worry hun I'll lend a ear ☺️

    • Yeah same again... My profile pic not revealing at all... I don't have to plaster the internet with photos of myself... I only ever even put one up cuz think someone was falsely accusing me off trolling/stalking when first opened account on here, and I'll own shit I'm guilty of but don't do well with false accusations it someone lying bout me

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  • Because I fall in that good looking yet still attainable category. Guys don't see me as out of their league or one those girls they'd be embarrassed to be seen with.

    • That's a good category to be in

    • i would say Poppy is way out of people's leagues just the questions she asks alone does that lmao.

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  • Big boobs or dirty sense of humor

    • You? Lololol cuz that could apply to me as well 🤣🤣🤣🤣 yours are just younger 😂

    • Other than that, some flirt because of smile

    • 🙂🙂

  • My looks, as i dont look like my age and act like my age 42.

    • No you look very good.. That way, age is just a number

    • Thanks.

    • 👍🙂

  • I think its the hat

    • Oh yeah sexy hat 😁😁

  • Horny guys want me but no real guys want me lol

    • That's how it feels sometimes right lol but I had a good hubby for 20 years, so can't complain there

    • Lucky I had a highschool sweetheart but he went to college and just was sexually active with a lot more other girls 😞

    • Sorry to hear that. There's still good men out there that don't see women as just available pussy, you're young yet.. You'll find that person when you least expect to 💜🙂

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  • My boobs, they get a lot of looks

    • Yeah here you there

    • What?

  • In my case I don't know. One girl liked me because She knew I could take good care of her, one because I'm somewhat robot like in some aspects and I get hit on by some men from time to time because of my dubble C Tniccness. Other then that, no idea

    • Lololol

    • Not a lot of succes, but a couple of fun stories instead hahaha

    • That's something anyways lolol

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  • Oh yeah, that was a great dream I just woke up from.

    • 😂😂😂

  • I get hit on often cause guys notice my red hair. It makes me stick out a lot more then a girl with normal colored hair

    • Oh yeah, guys loovvee read hair lolol I bet you get hit on a lot, lol mines strawberry blonde, so reddish blonde and guys always complimenting the hair.. a pure redhead, they must love that...

    • *red not read

  • because of how I dress

    • Aww okay 🙂🙂

  • If I'm not smiling I look pissed so people tend to not approach me... 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • Yeah my hubby had that look. But once people got to know him they knew he was cool dude 😎

    • 👍❤️

    • 🤗🤗

  • Me? Hit on? Lol I wish 😂
    But I'm glad that you do 😊

    • Not all females like getting hit on all the time... Even though some people think that, don't make it true.. Some people need attention all the time, some not only don't need it but don't like it either

    • Agreed :) but id gladly take some of that attention for even just one girl to say something to me, anything... I swear it feels like I'm either Casper the friendly ghost or the bum that just got off his street corner to go shopping 😂

    • 🤣🤣 you'll meet someone 👍🙂

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  • I'll tell you when someone actually does sighs.

    • Aww, I'm sure girls will like you

    • Hopefully one day

    • One can Hope.

  • Sigh... This never happens any more. Except my cat who hits on me when she wants food. After she eats she looks at me with those green eyes which say... Shooo peasant. I cannot be bothered.

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • Most of the time I get hitted on for my body

    • Do you like getting hit on our annoyed? I mostly get annoyed

    • Why is that?

    • @goblueCFB1996 why annoyed? Cuz sometimes you just want to walk without being called out to, it have them pull over. Or go to the store without someone saying damn as they ogling your body. Not all people liked or need constant attention. Not that kind anyways

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  • I'm kind of right on the edge of where some women think I'm good looking and others think I'm ugly so I don't get hit on a lot. Now when I dress nice I do have women approach Me but since I don't go out much its quite rare. I'd like to get out more but at My age it kind of baffles Me on where to go to actually meet women My age since bars are for Younger people.

    • There's plenty of places to meet people... Well before the whole world went on lockdown anyways

    • See I have a problem in that I work in the offshore oilfield so I'm gone sometimes up to half the year so that makes meeting people a problem considering the fact that I don't work with women.

    • All you gotta do is insert yourself into an online dating site and find liked mind individuals, and just talk. Talking helps in so many ways. Even if you can’t be there for the moment, at least you can leave a lasting impression for when you do meet in person. Just try to look for positive reinforcements along the way. Sometimes it takes a lot of courage to step out of your comfort zone. 😊

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  • I've been told being short is sexy which I'm still baffled as to why

    • Good things come in small packages maybe?🙂🙂

    • 🤭🤭

    • 🙂🤣

  • I can't remember being hit on in a long time. I occasionally get the like 'green light' vibe if you know what I mean, like I can get the sense that flirting is welcome, but getting hit on is super rare.

    I got approached on GaG more on my old account, mainly because I was more open I think, but perhaps also a little because I continue to get older and further from the average GaG user's age.

    • Well, I'm not on here to get hit on lolol sand some are dang near younger than my kids who are 21 and 23 No just no... Don't want no 20 year old or younger hitting on me period! IRL too... The one looked like a kid barely out of highschool.. yeah uhh no not interested, that's just wrong to me!

  • I’m pretty and online I can come off as kind of sexual (offline I’m usually more reserved)

    • I'm same online and offline. What you see is what you get

    • Awesome 😊😊😊

  • I rarely get hit on (irl). When I do, it's likely because I'm the only single one at whatever function I'm at.

    • That's not a bad thing tho unless people like getting hit on or like the attention... I know some guys on here think all women do, but that's not always true 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • I think cause Women always tell me they like my eyes color

    • What color are your eyes? And yeah, I get the they love my eyes too

    • @brainsbeforebeauty The color of my eyes are like Metalic blue / Light blue and my sister has dark navy blue eye color

    • Sound nice 👍🙂 sounds like my daughter's one teacher, he had some gorgeous eyes, but didn't say so, cuz didn't want him thinking I was hitting on him.. He just had really nice eyes 😁

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