What's the reason that so many guys are attracted to older women now a days?

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  • I'm wondering what your idea of "older" is.

    One thing is, a lot of girls in their late teens and early 20s think they are the shit. They are so proud of their fresh bodies that they can be super picky and kinda mean.
    Plus, they tend to be pretty silly. Everything is new to them. They're still getting things out of their system like partying, dancing, clothes, giggling and gossiping with friends, being treated like princesses. Being "grown up" is new to them. There's nothing wrong with that. It's normal and healthy. Living life is how we gain experience.

    Another type of young woman has dreams of animated Disney movie romances. They think their "purity" has value. They dream of getting swept away in love with a super handsome, nice prince, having a perfect life, and living "happily ever after". All they want to do is get married and have babies. That attitude makes them no fun.

    When I was that age, I thought anyone over 30 was "old". LOL

    When girls get older they become less jaded. They've been there, done that. They've had relationships and heartbreaks, experienced sex, learned about real life, and grown up. Some have even been married and realized that they jumped into it too quickly because most young guys are immature, too. Lots of things happen as we move through our lives.

    So many older women are not only still in their physical prime, but they have had time to grow up.

    You asked specifically about "sexual" attraction. 1) A lot of "older" women look hella good. 2) They are more sophisticated and worldly. 3) They have sexual experience and have gained skills. 4) They know that life is for living. They seek sexual pleasure, and are done playing mind games.

    Studies have found that between the ages of 27 and 45 is when women's sex drive is strongest. They had more frequent and more intense sexual fantasies than younger or older women. They also had more sex and were more likely to have it sooner in a relationship.

    "Many women may require more skilled partners or more experience of their own to achieve orgasm. Many women aren't adept at communicating their needs to a partner until they have gained some sexual experience. They may be older before they have regular orgasms during shared sex."

    I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. I have to say that the most amazing girlfriend I ever had by far was 30-31 years old.

  • Assuming that it's true that men are now more attracted to older women than ever before... it's a correlation with average testosterone levels dropping rapidly in modern males... and women get more masculine as they age... and opposites attract.

    If men aren't as sexually aggressive as they used to be, they must prefer less shy/quiet/submissive partners. This way it's more important for the girl to have more sexual knowledge and experience, which older women have.


    They're also less fertile and people are more afraid of pregnancy nowadays than ever before.

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  • I had a friend who was 30, and he said he wouldn't even talk to women under 50. (in the romantic or sexual sense)
    He said they know what they want and they don't play childish games.

    What does it mean?
    Why didn't he text me?
    What does it mean?
    Should I text him?
    What does it mean?
    He said I'm pretty, what does it mean?

    LOL
    Can you blame him for wanting to cut out all of that shit?

  • I believe guys typically go for older women just for sex. I also do not think it's something "new", you just probably never realized it before. I also do believe there is a small percent that actually wants a serious relationship with an older women, but the majority is just for sex in my opinion.

    • Quite accurate.

    • the sex for sure

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  • Fortunately, I can't see this trend.

  • Assuming this is true, it's because young women are awful now.

  • I think I was in the third grade and I was in love with my teacher mrs. Parks I babysitted for a lady and I was in love with her LOL when I was 15 and 1/2 almost 16 I dated the lady that was 49 actually I didn't date her we just saw each other every night for almost a year I think that it has something to do with because they're mature they know exactly what they want they're not afraid to ask for it and for me that's a turn on

  • They want something more mature and stable, I suppose.

  • The expectation that they're easier and more pleasurable to have sex with. It really comes down to that for the vast majority of guys.

  • In my early 30's I had a woman 'friend' in her 60's. She was experienced, and she appreciated my own sexual experiences, and she had a nice body for a woman 60 something.

  • I don't like women who are like 10 years older but like 5 years older could be nice...

    As for why? They know what they want, they are more mature, they have a better understanding of the world in general and also they are just easier to talk to

  • I would crawl a half mile to eat out Lucy Liu, age 54.

    • What's the reason that so many guys are attracted to older women now a days?

    • That's her pic in age of 54? 🤔

    • Not sure but she never seems to change much. This is last year.
      What's the reason that so many guys are attracted to older women now a days?

  • I actually liked them since I was like 16 years old, I feel maybe it's the maturity and for some reason I can see the beauty in older women, not just women my around my age, it's a gift I guess

  • When I was 19 I was just doing hookups and one night stands. I met a woman who was 41 who I dated for about two months. She said after our first time that I needed an "education". She taught me to slow down, how to properly tease and arouse her, that her entire body can be an erogenous zone. This was definitely a sex 101 course

  • They are likely to be more experienced.

  • i am old lol... and attracted to women of all ages :)

  • Insecurity. On old ships you learn to sail.

  • Because they have better emotional intelligence

  • Probably because younger girls are full of drama? Honestly I don't get it. Why do much drama? It's really unnecessary.

  • Younger girls today are so dumb and ditzy with a generic personality... Especially college girls ughhh... Almost all the girls I find myself attracted to are in their late 20s or in their 30s... They have way more character..

    • Same with boys your age, they are so much more stupid and immature than older men Have more money too

    • @JessieBellll okay... Lol sorry asker I didn't notice were talking about sexual attraction... but I shouldn't answer that because as you can see I'm not in it only for the booty xD

    • *you

  • Well they are sexy and with a lot experience and some of them are open to new things to try

  • More romantic and experienced how to smooth and sexy play, truly enjoyable sex.

  • They're less confused on what they're after & dont play as much mind games. Thats VERY appealing to most men. by the way ladies, those mind games filter out the decent guys, but I think most women already know that.

  • Experienced in bed?

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