What’s with so many girls with rape fantasies?

[VirginousBeta]

[SecretsofKB]

I'm going to go with the ol' "vocal minority" in this one. I know of one person who said that they had a fantasy like that... but she was also known for all the other off-the-wall shit she said.

So I'm not sure where this idea comes from.

[msmissydc]

Have to agree with this one. I dont think there are actually that many but if you look for them you will find the few that have it.

[SecretsofKB]

@msmissydc oh yeah, I'm sure they're out there, but it's just not common.

[Agape93]

Like, I do cnc but that's for my own catharsis and my own pseudo therapy. It's not a kink. It's not a fantasy.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds like you mean CNC


“ Some examples of CNC include being forcefully tied down, blindfolded, teased, touched, or raped. Person A might act out the role of saying No and struggling against their will, while Person B acts out the role of proceeding with the sexual act despite Person A’s desperate pleas. Essentially, it all comes down to a “predator” (dom) who is “overcoming” the “victim” (sub) by “force.”

https://www.thekeys.ai/blog/cnc-kink-what-why-and-how

[msmissydc]

If thats what the questions means I can understand. But I consider that something hugely different than a rapefantasy. CnC allways involves a a safeword and a way to end it if you want to which is nearly the opposite of actual rape.

[BarryLiverstone]

Right that’s why I am checking with the asker. He said fantasy and like you know CNC is obv not actual rape.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I think the number of girls who have actually been raped is higher than the ones who fantasize about it

[Anonymous]

It's mischaracterized as "rape" fantasy because no woman actually wants to get raped. I think most women do fantasize about being forcefully taken by a hot guy who has his way with her and manhandles her. But it's just that, a fantasy. It's ok to fantasize about things you would never actually do irl. Although I wouldn't mind having a boyfriend or husband who I fully trusted who would role play that sort of thing with me. :)

[Nikki1989]

I have never met any female with such fantasies.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No one has a rape fantasy.

Some people have rough sex fantasies, but rape is sex that you don't want.

[shanshu]

It's more about being not being in control and feeling helpless

[bananathunder]

probably because it's taboo

[Anonymous]

And what's with the mods LOVING that fantasy?

[Anonymous]

I’m not sure any girl actually fantasizes about rape. Now I do like forceful sex. I like him to take charge and manhandle me a little bit, pull my hair, smack my bottom…. that kind of thing. But actual rape? No way.