What's with the virgin hate on here?

[MementoMori777]

I can't be the only one that has noticed this, I've been bashed on like 4 times recently on here for it, I have been confronted with anger and aggression, why does it bother them that I haven't gotten laid, I don't understand 😂

Isn't that suppose to be a me problem? Why they so hateful 🤣

[DaveJord]

So basically here is my deal with virgins on here, and I would not call it hate.

But virgins come on here and put our their perspective on sex, and how they feel about relationships in general. Buit the bottom line is your talking out of naivety, you know nothing about sex, or being in a relationship with sex.

So it like you cancel out your own opinion, but then refuse to acknowledge that. Then when their arguments fail, they start talking god to you... and then that's the end of any intellectually dialog.

[MementoMori777]

I believe i speak factual things about relationships and sex because what I say isn't bias and it's logical, I try to stay out of speaking from experience and just use logic and common sense, not to mention that I don't even give these judgmental people advice or do I try to speak shit in their ear, they just seem to hate me for some reason

[MementoMori777]

So I disagree with what you are saying, personally of course

[DaveJord]

So the difference between knowledge and wisdom is that knowledge you can pick up from a variety of sources. You can read a book, can pick up ideas from other people, go to school a dn learn a lot ab out a lot of things, and that may make you knowledgeable. But Wisdom only comes when you pair that knowledge or apply that knowledge with practical experience. So, I do not question your knowledge, but you truly have no wisdom to share. I mean I cannot like Choclate cake, and I could life my whole life without eating chocolate cake. I can read all there is read on chocolate cake, I could even back chocolate cakes. But if i have never eaten a chocolate cake, or even tasted it... then I can't really claim to have any real knowledge or wisdom to share with someone that eats cholate cake. And for some that does eat and love cholate cake, we don't really care that you don't. Thats the point you clear state that you disagree with me, but you I don't care... you have nothing to share with me that I care about. I eat cholate cake, and I love it. Youi don't eat the cake and that's fine, I really don't care.

[MementoMori777]

You make a fair point bro but I also sometimes speak from others experiences as well, that's if I'm going to speak from any experience, I also make sure to always mention it's something I've heard about or I've had someone else inform me about, this is still not a justification or valid reason to be hateful or disrespectful towards another person when they have shown nothing but respect to you, if you are hateful towards someone just because they have opinions about a situation then you are toxic and considering you are trying to throw all that crap at me like it's a valid reasons makes me assume you are one of the haters that let their emotions and opinions control them, people gotta humble up no lie

[MementoMori777]

I hope you aren't trying to justify it cause that's what it seems like

[DaveJord]

So what you did here, is called blame shifting. You gaslight conversation by starting a conversation, then when some Reponses to it with logic you assume they are insulting you, so you blame shift... instead of taking responsibility for yourself and your own feelings you just label me hater. I think you are the real hater here, who can get laid but wants to justify it somehow so you can feel good about yourself for not having sex... but honestly, I don't give a shit. I have sex and I like it, and I will keep doing it as much as I can... if you want to be a virgin that's fine with me. I have no problem with virgins. But don't hate on me for getting laid. I am not insecure about it... but you seem to be very insecure about it. See it is my responsibility as sexually active person to valid you as a virgin or a person. If you have issues with people that like to fuck, do fuck and want to keep funking. or if you just don't want to fuck or can't get laid on own... I don't give a shit honestly. I am not hating. Not my job mate... you want to be a virgin then that's fine with me.

[MementoMori777]

Not really I'm trying to find answers to my question which you answered so I'm assuming you are a hater, since you gave me reasonings for the behavior related to my question, I asked, you answered and I appreciate that but I disagree

[SnowedIn]

I don't know that I agree that there's a lot of virgin hate on here. Not as a general rule. Perhaps you have experienced some but I don't see a trend.

I will say this, a lot (most) of the virgins on this site opine freely about all things sexual -- despite freely admitting that they've done none of what they talk about.

And, yes, it is their right to share opinions. But it gets tiring hearing the virgins speak about things with which they have no experience.

To use an analogy, I can say that I don't like the body style of a Corvette without having driven it, but I can't say it drives badly or that I won't like driving it without actually getting behind the wheel.

Anyway, for me it's not that they're virgin it's that there's no life experience to back up the statements.

[MementoMori777]

What if they speak from logic and common sense tho?

[SnowedIn]

That's a great question. Just because something is logical doesn't make it true or correct. Especially when it comes to humans and especially when it comes to sex. People do things that aren't logical when it comes to sex -- and that's not understandable until you've had sex. It's like fast food: it's not logical to eat fast food but we do it anyway. As for common sense, that's one person's view. And in sex, that's wildly different. So to say common sense leaves out a bunch of people or activities or experiences. And, again, just because something is logical or common sense doesn't mean that the virgin can speak to that thing -- they are extrapolating from the logic but have no personal experience.

[MementoMori777]

That does makes sense, now it comes to my last question that takes us back up to the top, are these valid reasoning to disrespect someone when they aren't being nothing but respectful and stating their opinion? Cause I don't recall being rude to anyone

[SnowedIn]

Of course not. No one should be rude to you or hate on the fact that you're a virgin.

[MementoMori777]

Cause for some reason I always get uncalled insults when I'm not even being rude to them lol

[MementoMori777]

Or judging then for what they are doing

[Blackcupcake]

insecure people taking their insecurities out on others. don’t take anything anyone says on the internet, or irl for that matter seriously.

[MementoMori777]

Thanks I appreciate that 💯🙌

[RespectfulGuy]

I don't think we hate virgins.

Rather I think when we speak our minds, you're overly sensitive over what we wrote.

Hence, let's try not to read in between lines when you ask a sex question. Simply accept the answer as is and give us the benefit of doubt that we're just another Joe here sharing an opinion.

Maybe this way you'll realize not too many are haters.

[nolabels]

There's hate against just about anything.

Ignore that which you can't get away from while still remaining true to yourself.

Be careful about entering areas that could be negative for you.

Hold your head up high.

Take a deep breath and tell yourself that the haters might be hurting in some way and it comes out in a bad way.

Whatever you can tell yourself, as long as it's true, to not let it bother you.

I lost my virginity at a late age and felt overly sensitive about it.

I survived.

The best to you. 👍😊

[lightbulb27]

this site is filled with the idiots...

you are fine, in your time. anyone that insults, block em, ya don't want their advice. it's your life

GAG is sort of like going fishing in florida in a lake. There's some good stuff out there, but it's filled with creatures and

[MementoMori777]

Lmao I like that comparison cause I live in florida and it's true 😂

[lightbulb27]

ironic! lots of creatures out here... haha!! you would't trust a gator with your bait and don't trust some of these people, they are different animals:)

[MementoMori777]

Damn caimans out here 😂

[lightbulb27]

yea that's what I saw grab a fish and crunch it to bits... outside Ft Lauderdale... scary. stay away from the lakes! and I saw "Creature from the black lagoon"... that jacked me for years...:) Women are wonderful, when you understand them enough to love them and understand yourself to be your best man and hold your energy up to support them emotionally when need be. If you don't have that, I wouldn't go near their bikini... ya know? after that, it's not really a big deal...

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough and good points lol

[Billlewis]

You'll never experience any dislike for virgins from me. To the contrary, I think guys who are in their mid twenties or older, who haven't yet been sexually intimate with a woman have an excellent chance of becoming the ideal husband for the right woman. Of course, much depends on their perception of virginity. I refer to myself as a 'Born Again Virgin', because I've been kept strictly celibate by every woman I've served for more than two decades, but I'm still jealous of guys who have never gotten any pussy, but I'm obviously a little strange in that regard.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I can't imagine why they'd care. Can you link to it so we can get context?

[MementoMori777]

I tried looking for the notification, i couldve find it but it was a user like kyza something someshit like that, it was on a question that said "why would a guy cheat on his wife with his side hoe?"

[slatyb]

What have you said? Mostly I see older men being criticized for insisting that they want to date virginal women. What is keeping you from finding a partner?

[jshm2]

I doubt they're busting your balls about your being virgin. Rather they are busting your balls for the personality you have, that is also leaving you a virgin.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Hey, my friend, I'm the oldest male virgin on here… Why? Because I want to be married to a girl before having sex with her. These people have to be ignored because they are butt holes.

[MementoMori777]

Lmao thanks for that simple yet motivational speech, you a real one foreal, I hope you find that wife bro 💯🙌

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@mementomori777 Thank you sir

[MementoMori777]

💯🙌

[KostasKouvalis]

Most people don't have a problem with virgins. They have a problem with those "I'm waiting 'til marriage virgins"

[MementoMori777]

I don't see why

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I’m for those virgins. Fornication isn’t good.

[KostasKouvalis]

@HippieVeganJewslim Says YOU

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Says Islam, Judaism, and many other faiths.

[KostasKouvalis]

@HippieVeganJewslim And so what? That doesn't mean they're right. I've met plenty of Muslim girls who've done sexual stuff and weren't married. The first girl I ever seated with was a Muslim

[KostasKouvalis]

Islam also says to give charity, yet there are Muslims who are dieing of hunger, so there you go. Surely all that extra money Muslims scam off tourists would be enough to feed those starving Somalians. Tell me, what are those pirates doing with that stolen loot.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

What Muslims do ain’t always what Islam says, brother.

[KostasKouvalis]

@HippieVeganJewslim Exactly. And how do you feel about that? But the funny part is, Muslims can't even agree on what Islam says. They can't even agree with people of their own sect

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Agreed. That’s why I follow no sect.

[KostasKouvalis]

@HippieVeganJewslim You can do that?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Sects aren’t mentioned in the Qur’ān. If Sunni is one who follows the traditions of the Prophet, the biggest Sunni is Ali, may G-d be pleased with Him. If Shia is one who loves Ali, the biggest Shia is Muhammad, peace and blessings upon Him.

[Juxtapose]

You probably gave an opinion to some sex question you had really no business answering.

[MementoMori777]

Someone asked why all men leave their wife for their side hoe? And I said cause they are greedy and shitty men and I told her I hope she isn't throwing me in that category and she said she was so I told her it's not possible cause I was a virgin waiting for a wife and my mentality is completely different and then she started ranting about my virginity, I don't think I was out of place but okay

[Juxtapose]

Have you stood before temptation and resisted? I have, and it's way different than you imagine. But if you are strong of conviction it's not that difficult.

[MementoMori777]

Plenty of times, hookups, one night stands, sugar mama opportunities, even friend with benefits, you are right it's really not but sometimes you do think of the opportunities you let slip and they can eat at you if you aren't at the best state of mind at the moment

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Arrogance. People get so proud to have screwed some dude that it’d make virgins weird/ugly/whatever. I hate neither my Flower Girl nor Noura, and I think both are virgins.