Guys, what's worse? Your girlfriend giving one of your best friends a blowjob or your girlfriend telling you that she's in love with another guy?

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Ghgzhz987 · Accepted Answer

1st scenario (the bj one), that means she already stopped caring about how that would make you look to everyone and she did it anyway so it's a bad one compared to the other.
In the love scenario these don't usually go as planned. Although nothing is certain in the 2nd scenario you can leave with your reputation intact if you have been cast out. So this is far better than option 1

I am no expert so what do I know? Although I am assuming she isn't sleeping with the guy she is in love yet, and looking for a clean break up before she enters into a new one. Both of them are worse if she is sleeping with her lover.

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rudedevon · Accepted Answer

If the blowjob was in front of me, after we'd talked and I said I was happy for her to do that, then it would be like a birthday present for us both (and my friend). If it happened behind my back, both her and my friend would be horrible people.

Being told your partner is in love with someone else sounds extremely unlikely. You'd have to have known for a while the relationship was dead. I've been cheated on, when I was married and I knew we had no closeness long before I found out there was someone else in the picture

SnowedIn · Answer

Love another guy.

Summeroflove · Answer

At least if she told me she has feelings for someone else. I can respect it more then her going out and cheating.  Whether it’s sexual or romantic cheating though. It’s still wrong

MementoMori777 · Answer

It would all lead to the same result but this is why I don't chase lusty women in general tho, she's gonna share the same morals as me so this won't be a problem but it would obviously he a breakup either ways

Bricealan · Answer

The blow job would not bother me, but her loving someone else would bother me.

RavVid · Answer

The very worst is finding her giving a blowjob to a friend and then finding out he is the guy that she is in love with.

Dargil · Answer

They are both deal breakers.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Both are grounds to end relationship. They are equally bad

exitseven · Answer

they are both bad but the blowjob just shows a complete lack of respect.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Both are equally bad, and both would result in dumping her.

BlackJeep · Answer

Why the hell would you have a girlfriend like that? She belongs to the streets

John_Doesnt · Answer

A bj is straight up cheating and betrayal, but we can always talk it out about her having feelings for another guy. I can't forgive disloyalty, but I can understand if someone is having bad thoughts.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Both are going to not end well. I think if she is in love with another. I could perhaps forgive the bj. Has this happened to you?

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah if she have one of my bro’s a blowjobI feel she cheated and I probably lose a girlfriend and a bro in the process. If she said she in love with another I think I could take it and see if we should end the relationship or see if we can still be in a relationship and see how strong are relationship is.

Soldieronmission · Answer

If she's in love with another guy then she's probably done more then a bj.

Wise4myage · Answer

I say blowing another guy is worse.

LiamJHayden · Answer

The first one she cheated, the second she is ending it. The first one.

crmoore · Answer

Her loving another guy is worse because that means we're over. But they're both really bad. I'd feel incredibly disrespected if she gave another man a blowjob. So much so that we might be over anyways. But at least with a blowjob she didn't necessarily have feelings for someone else, and it could have just been a temporary lustful desire. But I'd thoroughly dislike both of those situations.

DextroShade · Answer

Either way it means she doesn't love me so it doesn't matter, to the streets she shall return!

ButthurtGAGpeople1 · Answer

In love with another guy

Sharkstealth · Answer

Yea that's pretty insulting best friend stuff. She should ask. Sometimes it would be OK to most.

zero444440000 · Answer

loving another guy is the worst. it would make me feel so bad. her making my best friend feel good by giving him a blow job doesn't bother me since its only her heart am after not to be her only sexual partner.

DrewJohnson · Answer

If she wants to suck or fuck another dude I don't care. Is she's in love with someone else that hurts!

Twalli · Answer

Anoints to the same thing for me.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Blowjob. Either way she's history.

B4851 · Answer

Good question. However probably the bj. The being in love with the friend you at least know it's over, but the other I could be strung along for a long time.

PeteA380 · Answer

Your question's like your future

OddBeMe · Answer

Frying pan or fryer… I’d say blowie. Because you could still convince her before she does anything.

shortster · Answer

My best friend is a woman?

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Thinking about it we all think about things that's natural. But given my friend a bj wouldn't want to be around me

peterrezeeek · Answer

both are very bad.. but having sex with another guy i can not hear any reason for that. i can't forgive her..  just i let her to still having sex with him