What's wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

why dicks turn me on? just dicks not men, lately I get very aroused every time I see a dick or a blowjob scene and not because I imagine it mine no, just aroused from seeing it.

[Anonymous]

Most men love dicks. That is one of the main reasons they watch porn.

[Asker]

so it's normal, no need to panic?

[Anonymous]

You’re bi and have a penis so you can relate

[Asker]

That makes sense

[chrissykerdock]

guys have always loved to watch a girl give blowjobs... i remember when i was 15-17 guys were always wanting to watch me give a blowjob... i only thought of it now... to me giving a blowjob is like someone watching you make out... not entirely a big deal... depends how you see it... but all your doing is putting a penis in your mouth and if someone wants to watch let them.

[Apple1996]

Porn is turning you into a gay cuck

[Asker]

That's something mean of you to say Apple

[Apple1996]

Well I didn't say anything was wrong with being a gay cuck lol just be yourself

[Asker]

Yeah but I'm not a gay cuck, first I'm not attracted to guys so I'm not gay and second how can I be a cuck if I'm not in a relationship in first place?

[Apple1996]

Watching porn automatically makes a guy a cuck since he likes watching other people have sex... and you are attracted to dick so still part of a guy

[Asker]

So what about girls who watch porn, doesn't it have the same effect on them? Aren't they cucks too in the same sense? Yes I know that dicks are men's part but they are the only part that turn me on in a man, I can't be turned on by a man thighs for example like I am with woman thighs, so how does that make me gay?

[Apple1996]

Most girls are bi. And I don't think women can exactly be cucks in the same way as men just because we aren't as dominant during sex. You being attracted to any part of a man and getting off to that means that's what you are sexually attracted to

[Asker]

That's double standards don't you think, girls can be bi, but if a guy is turned on by dick then he is gay? girls can watch porn and that doesn't defy them, but if guys do then they are cucks? Plus you are ignoring the most important fact here, which is I am attracted to girls.

[Apple1996]

It's not a double standard. Porn effects men and women's brains differently. It's much more harmful to men. Probably just changing the way you view things. It doesn't matter if you are still attracted to girls or not. You are adding in that you are also attracted to men

[Asker]

I don't agree with you, it's like you are implying that men are more prone to be manipulated by porn, I think it can affect both. I said clearly that I'm not attracted to men, I'm just turned on by dicks.

[Apple1996]

I'm basically the opposite of that I'm only into pussy and not a woman's whole body. Doesn't make a difference I'm still bi

[Apple1996]

Men are more likely to have issues from anything that's addictive not just porn. It's how y'all are wired

[Asker]

Then why if I'm same as you, only into dick not men whole's body, that makes me gay not bi? Isn't it the same sense? I don't consider myself addicted to porn, I watch it normally just like any other single man.

[Apple1996]

Sure you are bi then. I use the words interchangeably cuz I don't care. Porn is addictive so if you watch it on the regular like a few times a week it's a addiction

[Asker]

You mean you don't differ between bi and gay? Yes I watch few times a week but not because I enjoy the fake stories or stuff like that, it's just because I'm not in relationship and I need a release every other day, so porn is just there to help.

[Apple1996]

Nah I don't. And you can use your brain instead of porn

[Asker]

Men are visual, we like to see things, fantasizing sometimes work, but not always. So you are anti-porn?

[Apple1996]

Men and women are both visual

[Apple1996]

I'm in the process of trying to ditch my porn addiction so not anti porn but I know hoe bad it is

[Asker]

So you are addicted and tried to shame me for it? Shame on you apple 😂

[Apple1996]

I shake myself for it as well lol it's not a good thing to be addicted to

[Apple1996]

Shame* not shake. Sorry about the typo

[Asker]

Yes but you said it's making me gay cuck 🙄 I should be mad enough not to talk to you. Good thing I have a big heart 😌

[Apple1996]

There is no issue with being a gay cuck. The issue is porn is turning you into that which means it's affecting your brain in a negative way

[Asker]

Yes but since porn is bad in your opinion so it can only turn you into a bad person, so that is bad in the end, or at least not normal or not desirable.

[Apple1996]

It's not always bad but you are clearly saying in this question that's it's changing the way you think/your sexuality. It's becoming more than just entertainment

[Asker]

Yes that's true, it can't help but makes you question yourself and why you feel this way. But also I learned that a lot of people actually going through the same, so it can't be that bad after all, just something new.

[Apple1996]

But it's like if watching porn influenced you to change your thinking isn't that not good? If you changed your thinking because of your own mind then it's fine but since something else did it thats like manipulation in my opinion

[Asker]

Yes true, but sometimes you might be just missing it or unaware of it and need something to shine the light on it for you, and porn can be this thing. You can't deny that porn change people a lot and opened new way for new fetishes and kinks that people maybe wouldn't have known about if it wasn't for porn.

[Apple1996]

That's the issue tho like fetishes are not natural. That's porns way of ruining people by getting them into things that are taboo so they no longer can get off in a regular sex session. Draws them farther away from how we are meant to be naturally

[Asker]

Yes I feel that sometimes, that I no longer get off to anything else than the fetishes that I have, and I wonder if I was in relationship would I be able to get off normally?

[Apple1996]

It really depends on the fetishes. Some are extreme and some can be added into sex with keeping things normal. Like I have a choking fetish but it's can be added in without disturbing the natural flow of sex

[Apple1996]

You'd have to get with someone to see. It might not cause issues for you

[Apple1996]

Obviously enjoying the visual of seeing dick shouldn't cause a issue

[Asker]

What do you mean? It shouldn't cause in issue to who me or her? I feel like it might cause an issue actually. By the way, that's not my only fetish I have few others.

[Apple1996]

Cause issues in general. Why would it?

[Asker]

Because most girls won't tolerate the fact that their boyfriends is turned on by seeing dick, might even jump to conclude that he is gay. That's what I learned.

[Apple1996]

I wouldn't mind having a bi boyfriend

[Asker]

You wouldn't, only few wouldn't, majority would and some would be even repulsed by it. Nice of you that you don't mind.

[Apple1996]

Then they are not the girls for you if they are gonna be mean about your sexuality

[Asker]

Sure, but hey let's just not settle on that I'm definitely bi, because I'm not sure that I would ever want to do anything, I just get turned on by seeing, that's all 😅

[EmmaMary]

Stop watching pornography... Simples.

[Asker]

it's not an easy thing

[EmmaMary]

Why not?

[Asker]

because not in a relationship currently and porn is my only sexual release

[EmmaMary]

Typical, any old excuse.

[Asker]

it's not a valid execuse?

[EmmaMary]

Not even close. I'm also starting to sway to the side of those that have commented that they consider you're gay.

[Asker]

why? I'm not turned on by men or even any other part of the man's body, it's only that part. I never check out men or be like "oh that dude is handsome", never had these kind of thoughts before.

[EmmaMary]

I firmly believe that @boggboss has now summed this up in it's entirety, therefore I have nothing further to add.

[DubiousIntentions]

🤔😄😅😂🤣

[boggboss]

Just sounds like u are gay mate

[Asker]

I'm not

[boggboss]

Yet u are aroused by male sexual organ sounds pretty gay to me

[Asker]

yes but not aroused by male's abs or face or arms or ass or anything else, it's a very specific organ.

[boggboss]

Its the sexual organ mate like their is not other way to wrap this up even if u are not gat u are clearly not straight if u are attracted to cocks

[artgorgeous]

Because you like seeing how woman delivers it. Its not dicks, its the process and sounds produced by that. So, relax, you're not gay. You're not gay. You are not. Are you?

[Angel_ica]

Find transgirl try if you like feel cock too

[Asker]

Nah I wouldn't like that, see I'm a binary person, I think there's only men and women, so if I would ever do it, better be a real man, not a man acting as a woman.

[Angel_ica]

I think if you like cock but not man it is good option

[Asker]

Yes I don't like men, I'm only turned on by cock. And definitely I don't like transwoman too, only cis women.

[Wonderingguyy]

Maybe you’re gay or bi?

[Asker]

Not attracted to men and don't want to be in a relationship with a man, so that rules out the first option.

[stratford]

I actually think it's part of a guys DNA to get aroused when seeing another guy's erection. It suggests to our subconsious that an opportunity to mate might be available and that we need to compete.

Could be totally wrong!

[Asker]

That's a good thought

[stratford]

Does a gay blowjob scene turn you in the same way as a straight blowjob scene?

[Asker]

Sometimes yes, but again I'm only fixated on the dick not the people in the pictures.

[stratford]

Interesting. I think you might be slightly bi-sexual. Would you like to touch another guys dick? Jerk or suck him off and make him cum?

[Asker]

I fantasize about it touching, jerking and maybe sucking, but not sure I ever will.

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

Turns me on too lmao

[Asker]

Are there too many of you out there? 😅

[Bloopbloopbloop]

I'm straight and looking at dicks doesn't turn me on 🤔

[Asker]

That's something I would never get

[MasterKS]

@bloopbloopbloop sad story!

[Jmmmfi4]

Fucking disgusting dude

[Anonymous]

You're at least bisexual and should leave your wife and let her be happy somewhere else... please

[Asker]

I don't have a wife and not even in a relationship currently.

[Opinion Owner]

Have you had thoughts of other men?

[Asker]

only when I see a dick, I fantasize about it. when I'm walking down the street, men never catch my eyes.

[Billlewis]

You are so magnificent,...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think you're a bad person I think you need to embrace it more. Just don't lie to a woman about being bicurious or even bisexual. There's really nothing wrong with it... It happens with women... most women like lesbian porn but consider themselves straight but they are bicourious or bisexual. It's hot amd men love it. Just embrace you like dick. It's different I forgot the term... but the unknown in sex is different and can ignite something in you like an engine.

[Asker]

it's not easy to admit this to girls, because most girls would immediately change the way they look at a man if he ever tells them this, most girls aren't attracted to bi guys, while most if not all men are attracted to bi girls.

[EmmaMary]

Quote "most women like lesbian porn but consider themselves straight but they are bicourious or bisexual" End Quote. What complete and utter Bollox.

[Opinion Owner]

You're absolutely right. But the right girl for you will 100% accept you & what you think is a flaw.

[Opinion Owner]

@EmmaMary I've seen it on this sight. Many women claim they like lesbian porn. I've seen and heard friends from elementary school talk about it

[Asker]

anon girl so far you've been the nicest and kindest to comment, thank you for that.

[EmmaMary]

Perhaps you're right, however I strongly disagree with the word "most" and would personally think it's still a minority at best.

[Opinion Owner]

Yea absolutely, you're human and your feelings are 100% valid. I believe in kindness and honesty. You'll be alright kiddo ;)

[Opinion Owner]

@EmmaMary that's fine emma. This is an A & B conversation. Please C your way out. Thanks

[EmmaMary]

Certainly, with the greatest of pleasure.

[Asker]

just curious are you one of the girls who might accept a guy for that? you can be honest no need to say something just to be nice, I appreciate your opinion no matter what.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly I can because if not I'll sort of be a hypocrite. But I can't if you came into this lying... I'd feel betrayed. But understand that it's harder for guys.

[Asker]

lying is not an option, but I think a guy might hold for a while before coming out about it, like waiting to get to know the girl more, rather than drop such a bomb in the first few dates.

[Opinion Owner]

Right. Nothing wrong with that either and reasure her too

[Asker]

That I would never leave her for another man? Of course I wouldn't, I wouldn't leave her for another woman let alone a man.

[Opinion Owner]

That's good some people have fears of that happening

[Asker]

Yes I can get that, however only low people leave their significant others in such manner, sexuality doesn't matter in this case, honest people don't do that.

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough

[Anonymous]

Nothing is "wrong" with you, but you are very gay my guy

[Asker]

I'm not, because I'm not turned on by men only dicks

[Opinion Owner]

I shouldn't have said "gay", but you are bisexual. Attraction is divided into two parts: sexual and romantic. Some people are sexually attracted to one gender, but not romantically. I guess we can call it sex only bisexuality.

[Asker]

possible, however these are only fantasies.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, fantasies that straight men do not have. You just sound like you aren't fully ready to accept that you aren't straight. And that's fine, come out when you're comfortable doing so.