What’s wrong with me? Sex addiction? What do I do next?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I’m a 41 year old widow. I stated dating about 3years after losing my husband. I’ve just dated one guy he’s 21 I’m 41. He grew up done the street from us I’ve known him for years and I had sex with him the first night. He was super flirty and a good kisser I decided I wanted to have sex. So we went out for drinks and got a hotel room. I figured with our age gap it would just be one night. Anyway that was 7 months ago and we’re doing good. We’re having sex usually 2x a day. I really can’t get enough. I also have a bestie who we’ve always been attracted to each other, we’re totally straight, we just wanted to get it out of our system. We had a 3some with my boyfriend about 3 months ago & then had a little weekend excursion just us girls. Got it out of our system. 2 weeks ago we had a great sunny day she came over we laid out by the pool in our thong bikinis got tipsy and started fooling around. Anyway we took it into the bedroom and it was freakin amazing!! We set up a date night for the next week went to dinner got drinks and we both got new lingerie we surprised each other with. It was amazing night!! The last week I’ve been hooking up with both of them. Sometimes both in the same day. Saturday it came to a head we had a bbq while I had a good morning ses with my boyfriend then when they were setting up for the bbq me & bestie slid into the bedroom. We had the bbq, afterwards I had another session with the boyfriend. My bestie was still @ the house she waited till I was done grabbed me and we jumped in the shower together and went into the bedroom for our own little ses. We kept it down so no one knew. I told my boyfriend we were just chatting. Yesterday I had sex with my boyfriend like 4x I can’t stop!!! What is wrong with me? What do I do I feel guilty beyond belief and I really feel like I’m out of control

[ohsheeT]

I was 15 and a half almost 16 when I lost my virginity and I think God it was her that I lost it too because the first three times totally sucked but on the fourth time after a lot of lot of thinking about things the fourth time I saw fireworks she saw fireworks she said all three times before this it was good it was great but on the fourth time she knew exactly what I was talking about then about 2 weeks later I was babysitting for a lady and when she got home the lady that she had gone out with asked me if I wanted a ride home and I said sure come to find out she live a couple blocks away from me so we stop by her house first and everything that I had learned from the first girl on the fourth time I used that same technique and this lady just kind of like you she just could not get enough and we didn't really date but I would go to her house almost every night or during the day and spend half the night and it was fantastic I thought she said it was great too she never had anybody like me but then she told me she was getting back with her husband and as I hit the brakes. Say what you're doing what I didn't know that she was married and just separated I thought she was divorced but anyway she wanted to get back with him she introduced me to one of her friends she was 31 the first lady I was talking about she was 47 I believe and I went out with the 31 year old or just about a year or two but anyway to my point life is an experience we are much deeper humans than people even know we are we all have energy within us and when energy becomes one with another energy it is the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel and it's very easy to become one with another energy it will take you to the peak of all Peaks and you will crave it and you know how to give it you know how to make other people feel that and each and every time that you do that you've learned something about everything I don't think there's anything really wrong when what you're doing did you have good friends you don't hurt each other you're there for each other there's something very beautiful about it I don't know if you're addicted or not I think that you are searching for that Peak you want to feel that emotion that feeling that bond that closeness that energy from another person

[Leapfrog00]

There's nothing wrong with you. You are just acting on your sexual energy and fantasies, rather than repressing it like a lot of other people do. We as humans have hormones and urges, and if those urges aren't taken care of, it can cause sexual frustration. That's probably why religious people who don't believe in masturbation is always so angry. Well, they are!

Any-hoot, you are only on this earth for a short time and you are here to make your own self happy, not other people. That doesn't mean be self-centered, but it does mean your happiness is at your control, not theirs.

Enjoy your sexual escapades. I had threesomes in the past and it was the best sex I ever had. Something about body to body to body! I've done both mfm and mmf, and I'm not gay or bi either. Bi-curious but that's it. Enjoy what you have and never feel guilty for exploring what you like!

[Anonymous]

You go girl. If its okay for a creep my age 30 to date and marrie 21 year old desperate young woman. I say you should do it. I bet you look 20 .

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Well don’t know about 20 maybe 30 lol but that is. Although I think there’s something wrong with me. Follow me se we can message

[Opinion Owner]

Oh come on you do look 20. Lol

[NoNa69]

The important thing is that you are convinced of what you are doing

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

What do you mean. I can’t keep doing this

[NoNa69]

Go on, but go deeper into the relationship

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Can I message you

[NoNa69]

👍 ok

[LazerBean]

You're a hoe.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Why are you being ugly to people. Pizzapiemamabear is a irl friend of mine she’s obviously going through something and needs help. What she’s doing wit her bestie is weird and gross to me too. She needs help what’s the point of being ugly to her? Is that that type of person you are?

[LazerBean]

She asked and I told the truth. If she doesn't want to hear that she's a hoe then she should either not ask or stop being a slut.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

She asked if she was a hoe I’m not seeing that? Where did she ask that? She’s asking if she has a sec addiction and what she should do if I’m not mistaken.. where did she ask if she was a hoe

[LazerBean]

She asked what's wrong with her, and the answer is that she is a hoe.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

That doesn’t even make sense you’re just being ugly for no reason. I grew up in another country and lived here when I was 12 and the kids were mean like you they use to make fun of my accent my English and call me r3t@rd girl. I told the him coach “i liking play soccer” instead of I want to try out for soccer.. for the next 3 years I was called “I liking play soccer r3t@rd girl” that didn’t stop till 10th grace when all of a sudden all the boys wanted to be nice to me out of the blue. I hate name calling and being ugly to people. That’s what you’re doing I’ve always liked your responses but no you’re being ugly for the sake of being ugly

[LazerBean]

For no reason? She's a whore and a fake traditional woman who gives real traditional women a bad name, us she literally asked. You are completely defending and supporting the modern whore lifestyle. The truth is ugly when you are in the wrong.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I agree whst she’s doing is wrong it’s also weird and gross. I agree with you on that principle. That’s something she needs to work out and figure out. I want to help anyway I can but honestly being a fairly attractive big busted woman (just like her bestie I’m basically the Sicilian version of her bestie) I’m a little tentative to help because I’m weirder out by what her attentions might be it’s weird. But you can still be super nice and polite. The only thing you control is your reactions. Your reactions are intentionally ugly just to be ugly.

[LazerBean]

You're right, you can control your reactions, and you should in the future accept the truth for what it is instead of getting upset at facts. She does not merit my sugar coating facts considering she brags about her whorish lifestyle, thus she will not get them.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

You took this post as bragging?

[LazerBean]

Clearly this post and her other mulypost describing her slut activities are meant to get support. If you can't see that, then that that is a shortcoming on your part. You're probably her "bestie" that she whores around with, by how you talk.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Yea probably, that’s it. 🙄 why are you soo ugly to people? Why not be sweet instead?

[LazerBean]

If what I called her is ugly, that makes her 100x more ugly because it's a fact. You're insulting her at least as much as I am.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I’ve told her I disagree with what she’s doing and pulled back because I don’t know what her intentions are we used to joke about how see loved my boobs and my cleavage and how she always wanted me to wear my cleavage now that she’s doing this I don’t think it’s just friendly noirs anymore at least I don’t know if it is. So I’m pulling back I’m not name calling or being mean

[AnnacarsiMama2]

Friendly Jokes*

[LazerBean]

That's your choice. She is not entitled to being treated like a lady because she isn't one, so move on if you have a problem.

[AnnacarsiMama2]

You seem to be the one that is upset and has an issuer. You’re the only one name calling.

[LazerBean]

If she didn't want to be called a hoe then she should not ask questions where the answer is that she's a hoe.

[Berethor]

You a bisexual cougar, and looks like you excited to been able to get such a young guy. :)

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Lol I’m not bi this is just something me and bestie like to do

[Berethor]

Yea sure, doing sexual stuff with a woman and calling yourself straight, seems legit.

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[PizzaPieMamaBear]

It is

[MementoMori777]

Sex addiction, lack of self control and lack of morals I guess

[AviatorTom]

There's nothing wrong with you, you are enjoying sex. Sometimes that happens to women your age. Enjoy!

[exitseven]

Enjoy it. It sounds like you are having a fun time.

[bowenw]

You have a high sex drive. You can't change that. I think you owe it to your boyfriend to let him know when you are hooking up with your bestie, unless he has told you it's okay with him to do it whenever you want.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

How would you respond if your girlfriend said that

[bowenw]

I would rather she told the truth and would be okay with her hooking up with her female bestie. I'm sure a lot of people would not approve.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

You're like where guys in their teens and 20s are. Your hormones are going nuts and making you horny. Normal for women over 30.

[Andres77]

Sounds like you’re bragging…🤔

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Not at all. It’s not an accomplishment or a difficult thing to do for a woman to get as much sex as she wants it’s literally the easiest thing in the world

[Andres77]

Enjoy! ☺️☺️☺️

[DiegoO]

Nothing is wrong with you, unless the urge you are having is seriously affecting other aspects of your life. Enjoy if you only feel enjoyment. If you don't, get a therapist.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I’m hooking up with my best friend right after I had sec with my boyfriend and they’re both in the house. When everyone is setting up for the bbq I steal my bestie so we can get some play time in. Obviously there’s something wrong with me

[DiegoO]

Not really if everyone agrees it's ok. But if you do feel something is wrong with you, perhaps you should consider having an appointment with a therapist.

[Nightmoon83]

I understand the way that you feel I have been so addicted to sex and other sexual acts for the past 3 years and I can’t stop thinking about it and many different sexual things I play scenarios in my head have fantasies going through my head 24/7

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I literally can’t stop now that me and my bestie are fooling around and I’m getting a totally different kind of orgasm/sexual pleasure I’m like overboard. She’s so hot too 5’6 blonde blue eyes full C cup she’s 36. Toned butt (we play adult soccer league together) skinny waist thighs and hips but I’m totally obsessed with her boobs I’m like all over them

[Nightmoon83]

That is really hot and I’m obsessed will my fantasies and sexual acts my wife has fucked several men over the past 8 years and Iv watched almost every time

[Surely]

No one seems to be getting jealous over your arrangement. You only live once and you can’t wear it out. Enjoy each other!

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

My bestie doesn’t care because we’re besties my boyfriend doesn’t know

[Jerre]

You can’t change your high sex drive. I have one as well and have sex 4-5 times a week. Just fuck and enjoy the orgasms.

[Alex8736]

Have him give you anal and make you prolapse 😇

[msc545]

Nothing tro feel guilty about - just enjoy it!

[Mcluven08]

Taboo things turn people on. Once you had a taste of forbidden fruit you won't be able to go back.

[rebeliouse]

dont worry about it just enjoy it and enjoy life you only have one of them

[briigantexx]

How does it feel to have sex with a young man?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I went over her house want I got there way early and heard the two of them it was actually awkward they were going at it so loud. I can tell you there was a lot of spanking going on moaning and she prefers doggie 🐶 🐩 that’s just from sitting in her house for 10 minutes

[briigantexx]

What yo mean? Can we talk in private?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

No lol that’s her personal things the 2 of us are irl friends. That’s her personal business 😆

[AnnacarsiMama2]

I came over her house announced let’s say and I heard them going at it

[briigantexx]

Cmonn I wait you text to me

[briigantexx]

Are you here?

[AnnacarsiMama2]

It’s good we go all day. I at first thought it was going to be a one night thing. But that was 7 months ago. He was super flirty and a good kisser so I decided I was going to have sex with him, that night. Even though he grew up down the street and I’ve known him for years, so we went for drinks and got a hotel room. Round one was just ok abd we went for round 2 which was like knock your socks off. When we woke up in the morning we did it again abd it was really good. He goes and goes we are very compatible sexually.

[briigantexx]

Are you still having sex with him?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are grieving your husband still. You mentioned he died from a long battle of cancer. Once he passed away, you probably felt a sense of relief.