What’s wrong with sex before marriage in your opinion?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Well I'll tell you right now whenever you do don't listen to my answer because I'm the sinner
Because I seek knowledge in so many different ways
Now that's not what I was thinking in that moment I was just thinking that I had to try it at 16.. 15 and a half 16 years old

And if I was born yesterday I would still do the same thing for me the knowledge that I have found with having sex about just life in general is so deep becoming one with somebody in a moment is so deep it's so beautiful that yes I would have to have sex before marriage

It tells you so many things about a person and if you're going to be married you need to know all of these things before you even get married

Is the way that I look at it but maybe it's put in like this for a test a design to help us stay together to make us work it out I don't know but I do know that I would have sex before marriage again

[exitseven]

I say "Try before you buy". I think that people need to find out that they are compatible before they get married.

[strateguy632]

that means move in together , and as celibates. because sex can improve and get learned.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Asker]

Welcome

[EmmaMary]

There's absolutely nothing wrong at all with it... After all you wouldn't buy a new car without test driving it first would you.

[EmmaMary]

Ref. Update. It's purely a religious or cultural belief, nothing more, nothing less.

[CubaPirate]

@emmamary I'm sure I've said exactly the same before somewhere

[EmmaMary]

@CubaPirate And I'm pretty you have and read it as well.

[CubaPirate]

Absolutely 💯 👍🤗🤗🤗👍

[strateguy632]

to em, content car. one of my engagement lady i tried that line. she insisted on waiting until wedding which is a word that even sounds wedding waiting.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

There is nothing wrong with it. You need to get to know your partner as much as possible, and that is a part of it.

[jennifer_bloom]

It's designed to be an exclusive advantage of marriage and a precursor to genetic children.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Nothing is wrong with it.

[Apple1996]

Nothing wrong with it. Waiting till marriage is pointless

[mandyfire98]

Absolutely nothing unless you're super religious

[Static_In_The_Attic]

NOTHING!

Like buying a car your not going to buy it without test driving it first & when it comes to sex if you until marriage & the sex sucks after you get married you’re really fucked.

[strateguy632]

cute reference to filmmaker of comedy but see my reply to emma. it is not convincing.

[strateguy632]

as if, sex can't improve nor get learned.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Nothing.

[Samantha36]

Nothing. I wouldn't want to marry a virgin. I need to know the sex will be good

[strateguy632]

here @zebronics said my opinion best.

[Miristheiss]

If I want a wife and I want someone special to commit to. I have 2 options.

Girl 1 is pretty, lost her virginity at 15. Has slept with 12 guys, a few one night stands, they have turned her on to weird kinks, her ability to bond and fall in love is fried, she has had sex 1,500 times. If things get tough she is conditioned to just move on and F the next guy.

Girl 2 is pretty, a virgin, will have sex with just her husband. She is totally able to pair bond with him and hasn't been trained to get into anal, bondage, threesomes... she is ready to bond with her husband. Her husband won't be the 1,501st time. It will be special.

Who do you think I'd pick?

Promiscuous women? Go away. Go do your onlyfans and go clubbing with the girls and drinking and just stay in your hoe phase.

[MementoMori777]

Biblically sex is to grow bond with your wife or husband and for reproduction which should also be with your wife or husband.

[Bricealan]

I never saw a problem with sex before marriage.

[Dargil]

I'm not going to preach morality here. Early sex can kill a relationship. Let fondness and sexual intimacy grow together. Set a future goal ( a year?) to finally consummate your relationship with PIV.

[Fireguy17]

nothing.
As long as both or all parties are fine with it then why not.
It is also a good way to see if you are sexually compatible.
What if you are really into blowjobs and she isn't, or whatever.
Then you can think about it and decide if it is a deal breaker, or you can just live without them.

[Drumlin2001]

Nothing

[Mac-One]

Never a problem in a committed relationship.

[helva]

I don’t see anything wrong with this. But for some religious people it is a sin.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Its not that sex before marriage is wrong, its that sex before you know "thats the one I'm keeping" is too risky.

Lets say for allegory sake, you wanted a specific guy, lets call him Bob.

Bob is perfect for you in every way, but Bob wants a virgin, because stds, sluts, and cheaters are gross.

But you lost your virginity to your old friends with benefits Tom, who didn't tell you he had herpes or that he poked a hole in the condom, and you haven't known Tom long enough to trust him, but you trusted him anyway and paid for it.

Now you are a herpes infected single mom that had some other dudes nasty spunk in your crotch.

Now bob doesn't want you, and Bob was your best match had you not fucked up.

Now had you waited until you met Bob to have sex, you'd live a long happy life together, but you didn't do that, so now the only guys who want you are terrible.

[zebronics]

I would love to talk on this topic, here is the short answe, because God says so, and God is all knowledgeable, so if something comes out from a expert, we tend to obey that.🌱

[Wise4myage]

Absolutely nothing, lol.

[Reorx]

Female pair bondong.