What’s you biggest turnoff in the bedroom?

[Anonymous]

[Natehunter199]

There is a few that come to mind. But i have never came across them. The biggest on that i have incountered is the lack of participation. The are you done yet, come on hurry up. Just enthusiasm alone. Not here we are do your thing and give me what i want and im done type of thing. Its all a big mood killer for me

[goodpseudonym]

Her: "Deeper!"

Wth. Im doing what I can here Sally. I'm not yelling "tighter!" At you now am I?

Just kidding. Real Answer: Calling me Daddy. I was involved with a girl who did that multiple times. Each time, it creeper me out so bad that the sex stopped.

[Anonymous]

A guy that skips or halfasses foreplay.
Guys that is a big no no! Build up to the sex so it's fun for everyone, not just you! I like to be turned on too, lol

[chrispy_008]

Foreplay is a must if a guy doesn't do foreplay then he doesn't deserve sex and I'm not even sorry

[Kaazsz]

A lot of guys don’t know. We aren’t born knowing what women want. I know personally I always cared very much about pleasing the girl, ever since my earliest kinky fantasies. But that doesn’t mean I was doing it right. It took time and experience to learn. Now when I look back at my past, even though I did try hard, I know I wasn’t doing it right for the longest time.

[Opinion Owner]

@Kaazsz That is so true, and believe me, women can be just as bad. I know when I'm with a new partner, I always ask him what turns him on or what are his fetishes to make things more interesting. And if a guy is going in the wrong direction or tries to get ahead of himself (he's ready; I'm not). I remind him he's going to have to work a little bit harder first so we both can enjoy ourselves! But I know I had one partner in the past that was incredibly selfish: he only cared about satisfying himself, not me! As in foreplay barely occurred with him. As you can imagine, it didn't last long.

[Kaazsz]

It’s funny I think that those kinds of guys are only denying themselves great sex. But maybe the selfish guy is just ignorant, or maybe he is truly selfish, I don’t know. I was never a selfish lover. But I do know that I did care a lot about her pleasure. But it took me a long time to really unlock the higher potential for sex. The selfish guy probably doesn’t know he is only robbing himself of much more pleasure. He just pumps and cums and he’s satisfied with 5 minutes of sex. Of course that’s bad for you the girl of course. Like... I don’t want to cum, at all. I want my partner to be horny as fuck. I want to see her hips grinding the air involuntarily cuz she’s so horny. I want to play with her pussy and tease the everliving fuck out of her till she’s begging me to fuck her. I want to be inside her, feeling her pussy for hours. Of course it never lasts hours but in a fantasy it feels like that. Like it feels so good to just feel her pussy, soak in that pleasure, drink in her cute face and sexy body while I’m inside, and for it to never stop. I wish I could just stroke inside her all day and never stop and just get more and more aroused. And we just enjoy eachothers bodies and fuck all day long. As much as I cared for her pleasure in the past, I never imagined such a thing was possible. But now it is possible. I CAN fuck all day long technically but it doesn’t make sense to do it very often. Usually it ends up being 2-3 sessions a day but they are very sexy and fulfilling for both of us. That’s how I want it. I want to be so good for her that she can’t resist me and she NEEDS me to fuck her. That she becomes my dirty little sex slave cuz I give her everything she needs. Like, THAT is good sex. Not that pathetic pump and dump, cum in 5 minutes shit. That’s just sad. Sorry to get graphic but how else am I supposed to say it?

[AmandaYVR]

Nasty smells. Hygiene is super important. And don't get cum all over the room please.

[laurieluvsit]

Bad hygiene!!

[IronLady6354]

Men who are selfish in bed

[Kaazsz]

Bad smells. Some bitches got stank ass pussy it’s a horrible experience!

[summiter]

Poor hygiene and someone who smokes cigarettes' and smells like one.

[JaneDoe377]

Asking me how to do things, at every turn. Have some initiative, ya know?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Mostly... everything.

[Tamii693]

Any weird smells.

[SarahP080102]

When he asks constantly, " Feel good?" Or " You getting close?"

[lanadelrey25]

Bad smells, and passing gas.

[bowenw]

Bad breath and body odor. Also, if you're giving him a hand job or blowjob, be sure to keep going until he's completely finished cumming. Don't stop after the first squirt.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Bad vaginal smells

Like, just be clean down there y'know?

[Angelo75]

Farting/Belching

[Browneye57]

Lack of enthusiasm. "Are you done yet?" LOL

[magiusX26]

a few things equally:

cold fish attitude

trying to be dominant

incompatible kinks

being to embarrassed of her body

[Makeushiver]

Lack of enthusiasm or having a partner who is sexually non-responsive. I go to great lengths to make a lover come as intensely and as many times as she physically can. If she acts uninterested in that I pretty much lose interest in the rest since its her arousal that turns me on

[Kit_Kat88]

Lack of enthusiasm

[NorthwestRider]

Someone who is more on the submissive side and prudish and closed minded

[Dayman343]

Ladies who just lie their expecting me to do all the work.

[pizzalovershouse]

A girl dighing her nails into my skin or girls into hurt an pain

[Bang5luts]

When a woman is more worried about how she looks than being into me or the moment.