I used to try things like that when younger and they honestly didn’t work that well once I was beyond about 15.
what I’d actually do is focus on breathing deeply and slowly and consciously relaxing the perineum area.
as for “thoughts” I think the most useful I’ve found is actually to imagine a setting sun over a flat horizon, with a train track stretching all the way to the horizon. Then you imagine one of those old fashioned cranked rail cars, the type you move a lever up and down to make it go, and imagine it moving to the horizon. steady pace, calm and nowhere near the horizon.
oh and obviously I might hold my hand over your little slutty mouth so the moaning didn’t set me off too much.
I'm more likely to have the opposite problem - lasting too long - but I have had to hold off a couple of times, and I tend to go to work-related technical problems. There's not a lot sexy about WiFi interference.
"Like a real man"... -_- Jesus don't you people realise a guy comes because he really likes you? It's not a bad thing, UNLESS he comes and thinks it's all done, he should satisfy the girl too if she's not yet, there are lots of ways to do so
Don't do stupid things like imagine horrible stuff to turn you off, I can see that being harmful, as in potentially associating bad things and conditioning you to dislike intimacy because if it.
NO... I didn't say Get Me Off! ... I said "GET THE F*** OFF! ... lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well if I'd lasted 5mins my main thoughts would 'I am a sex god smashing my previous record'. But if that still wasn't good enough I'd just ask you to speak Welsh to me, a few syllables in I'd be covered in phlegm and almost soft so it would then just be a tightrope game of swapping between Welsh and a nice language
I'd probably just pull out for a moment, take some deep breaths, and possibly reposition.
But if you were a really good girl, I'd just cream you and keep right on going. But that would depend on your own eagerness and enthusiasm. I could go on for hours with the right encouragement. :-)
Slow down, stop, change position. Its mainly about knowing yourself and how your body reacts and pace rourself accordingly!
I think about GirlsAskGuys. But there is a risk with that. I might vomit.
I'm not to worried about if you're disappointed or not.
If i`m having sex and i`m close to cumming and i want to delay it, the first thing i do is slow right down for to change my rhythm, I will sometimes stop for a few seconds as well.
If i am so close to cumming i will then take my penis out and use my finger or lick her instead and then when i`ve got over that i`ll put my penis back inside and then continue.
Nope, never want to delay. But sometimes my husband says (out loud) “Mickey mouse , Donald Duck “ 🤷♀️
Are you sure that he was using that to delay? 😉
Haha 😂😂 quack up 🐣
@wittymilf- 😐😐😐
One guy once asked me to stop moaning and bucking my hips so much
when im edging i dont suddenly think about maggy thatcher to stop me spunking, i just hold of with either pumps or strokes depending on if im having sex or wanking off
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Sometimes to get over the top, I stream erotic images. I also have an "all stop". It is things like junk cars, piles of worn out tires, the land fill, rusty metal, abandoned buildings, etc.
I'm confused. Why would you need to look at digital images when you have a real live naked woman right there, and your dick is literally inside of her?
@Jamie05rhs ""I'm confused." We wouldn't want that, now would we?
@Dargil Haha. But seriously...
Photographic memories of bestgore.
My uncles hard dick in the shower...
Thinking about rotting bodies full of worms while yellow puss is oozing out works like a charm ☺
Ah, the male recovery time myth! It's "built in" but is easily defeated. My ex didn't understand how I could cum twice in a row without missing a stroke. Good times?
I think of all the stupid people I've come across on GAG
Probably shopping lists and math.
I don't have to. It's hard enough for me as it is xd
I mean it takes usually well over 20-30 minutes.
If I can control it, I start saying the Pledge of Allegiance in my head. Also, I may shift my thrusting angle to not keep the same pressure of the penis from the vagina while thrusting. Also, I may just pull out and start fingering her to take a quick break.
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