What's your most wholesome fetish?

[TomGarand]

"Wholesome" in this context means loving, positive, and tender.

I asked because of this kink on Reddit and Twitter called "Gentle Femdom." Basically, all of the harsh and humiliating parts of Femdom (cuckoldry, insults, etc.) are replaced with playful teasing, affection and praise, and nurturing.

And from what I've seen on Twitter and Reddit, a lot of women with this fetish also lead in relationships, but in a loving way. Almost in a motherly way, because a lot of them like being called "Mommy."

They'll assert their dominance over their man by making him eat her out or edging and riding him until he's a whimpering mess. And when it's all over, they'll give him cuddles and kisses or call him her "Good boy" and stroke his hair.

So what is your most wholesome kink?

[CasuallySamsonite]

I tend toward the supportive and nurturing side of dominance, being a Daddy-dom is part of it, but it's also that I see things as an exchange of control for responsibility, Not to mention that just because someone submits to me is no excuse for them to not still be superior to anyone else who has not specifically earned a higher status by the same standards. Also, I actively enjoy the aftercare parts of my role... the holding, the caressing, the comforting... it is really nice honestly. (not that I mind the more... forceful and or stern parts of the role play either... ofc.)

[bamesjond0069]

Thats not wholesome. Thats sick and perverted. Very disgusting.

I like 1950s dynamic household. My girlfriend sews and wears an apron baking things in the kitchen. She has manners and is obedient.

[LavenderLuna]

Heyyyy bestie since when are you every single person in the world? Last time I checked, you don’t make the rules of society <3

[bamesjond0069]

@LavenderLuna huh?

[LavenderLuna]

It’s basic reading comprehension, my guy. I don't know what’s confusing about what I said. Maybe you should go back to school and learn some manners while you’re at it.

[bamesjond0069]

@LavenderLuna i understood the English. What does me making rules for society mean? This is about fetishes. You seem like you're on the wrong post

[LavenderLuna]

Oh my god you’re right I’m an idiot sorryyyyyyyy

[scarletapples]

Offering encouragement and praise as they masturbate for me and then simple naked cuddles, often times offering my breast to suck on.

[TomGarand]

... You heard of Gentle Femdom before, haven't you? Because your kink sounds pretty much identical to it.

[scarletapples]

Yes, not only have I heard it, I do it

[jjj101010]

Sounds fun

[anon1903]

Kissing every inch of them

[bean2k21]

using you as a footstool

[TomGarand]

How is THAT wholesome?

[bean2k21]

afterwards I'll let you lick my feet

[TomGarand]

I don't swing that way, bro.

[JosyJosy]

The need to cuddle and wrap myself around him

[TomGarand]

Are there times where your boyfriend takes charge?

[JosyJosy]

if by taking charge you mean him asking to cuddle, yes xD

[TomGarand]

During sex, I mean. Aren't you less bossy than your friend?

[JosyJosy]

oh me on top usually :D

[siseñor]

the one where there is no fetish involved

[Still-alive]

Hawt

[Still-alive]

Just playing and enjoying an rpg together. No sex necessary

[Dnice1]

Cuddling and caressing while kissing each other

[Anonymous]

No I prefer the more extreme femdom an cuckolding

[Anonymous]

Adult breastfeeding

[Anonymous]

Nipple & breast sucking.