Let's say he is not interested in watching her having sex with other guys but he is fine with his wife spending night with someone else. A sometimes they have threesome.
This is bizarre but it happens. Some guys have a “cuck fantasy” and get off watching other guys bang their wives/gfs. I don’t have that but it’s weird.
I know that’s not what your referring to. If a guy allows this I guess it’s because of the following:
1. He rather “give her permission” and just know what’s going on and it’s out in the open vs. having her to do this behind his back (which he figures she might do anyway). Also him acting so cool with it might be a form of reverse psychology. It takes away the scandalous element making it ironically less appealing for her
2. It gives him an excuse to cheat without feeling guilt.
3. The thought of other men finding his wife attractive gives him confirmation that he’s lucky to be married to her. In a regular world a guy can take pride when other men check his wife out and try to flirt with her (as long as they don’t cross the line). That’s healthy to an extent as long nobody seriously takes things to another level. Not impossible but weird
4. It’s a shit test. He’s giving her permission to “test” her to see if she actually goes through with it. Truth is he’s hoping she won’t and it’s his way of testing her true loyalty/love for him. I know women sometimes give “permission” to their bfs/husbands to sleep with other women. But it’s not genuine and the guy will be punished or even divorced later because of it. He might be doing the same thing.
Well that is a tough nuanced question. I can only speak from my experience. I have known that my girlfriend was BI from the beginning. Her last relationship was 5 years with a woman.
She works in the adult industry I knew this going in. She is regularly in sexual situations at work. I apparently have the ability to understand the nuances between sex and love. We knew each other quite a while before dating I saw that she was very faithful, in that she had strict limitations, and she did not do things her partner would find hurtful.
We have a great sex life. Despite that and the fact that I handle things well. Her with another woman outside of work and without me present would give me anxiety. She is very beautiful and easily attracts men and women. Rarely we have had a threesome. Trust me no one is there because they want me. We have very strict rules both mine and hers. There is that moment where as a guy you think this is AWESOMENESS then afterwards insecurities and awkwardness creaps in.
I think any guy who rolls with it without concerns or insecurity is either not emotionally attached or has the girl on girl fantasy way way too big in his mind.
We really talk about it we decide exactly how it goes down and we stick to the rules. Do that and I don't think you have a problem.
I dated a guy in college that was into hotwifing and threesomes. He would watch me have sex with other people though. My opinion on him was, I loved him and we had a fun kinky relationship together. It's not for everyone obviously but it was fun for us.
Not my kind of man. Its fine if that works for them but I would not be with him. I want him just the right amount of jealous over me.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Even though that’s not my thing at all, my personal belief on things like this is pretty simple. Any legal behavior between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home that is discussed and agreed-upon beforehand, must be considered acceptable. Regardless of what society may say, a couple may have a different view on what improves their emotional, spiritual and intimate lifestyle and should be allowed to practice those things that work for them. As long as no one is forced or coerced into doing anything, then it’s nobody’s business.
It would be a deal breakers for me. I want my SO to want me to only want to be with him. I want him to love and respect me enough to never want another man to have me.
Just glad he isn't mine!
I wouldn't be cool with sharing my wife.
But if some guy is okay with it and the couple has it worked out, I don't see a problem. Crazier shit than that goes on all the time.
It isn't something that i'm in to but as long as both are okay with it i don't mind. But if a woman would come up to me and tell me that she wants to sleep with me and that her housband is okay with it i'd want to talk to him and ask him directly befor agreeing
I don't respect cucks or think of them as real "men." But you do you, cuck.
I think it’s fine if it works for the couple. I have tried it with my girlfriend. We have threesomes with a guy. We have an agreement that the both of us can have 1 on 1 time with him if we want, but neither of us have, we have just kept it to the threesome
Unless they have an open relationship and they're both seeing other people, that guy doesn't have a spine and is desperate to keep her around. That is something most men are naturally disgusted by so something is off here, if it's not an open relationship that is.
I would only wonder if the other man is single or in a similar situation.
It means that he is a beta male, as for threesomes, FFM is okay, MMF is not okay.
He's into swinging/cuckolding?
Umm as a female, I tend to love more guys but, a man who shares his wife is a despicable man, Because he does not consider her for himself and does not protect her.
I'm fine with it. That's their decision. I would do it if my wife wanted to.
It’s his life to live, but I could never respect a man like that.
To each their own. Hopefully they don’t have children.
He’s not a husband. A marriage is a vow to your partner before God/family/friends (depending on how much weight you put on each of those) that you will be faithful (among other things) so long as you both shall live. I’ve been married over 34 years and it’s working for my wife and I.
He's not a man. He's a simp.
Technically, he's a cuck. Simps would be the one begging for another woman's attention when she already has a man.
He and his wife have a good trusting relationship. He recognizes that she has a high libido and is willing to let her satisfy that with other men.
I have had SOME experience with that, and it only became a problem for me, when she started sharing family information, and becoming more 'intimate' with her personal life with the other man. As far as the sex was concerned, I told her it was alright with me if she jacked-off another man she met online, and she did it. They were going to fuck, but he did not bring a condom, and did not want 'foreplay'... only for her to lay down and open her legs and she would not do that.
It does work for some, because I know some couples that have sex with others.
This is only open to your reply since I know it will get a lot of negative blow-back from others.
I don’t know that I would ever feel okay with sharing but I think I might consider something like that if I couldn’t please my wife for some reason. Or if I was traveling a lot and couldn’t take her with me. Be like here have a boyfriend on the side. But I don’t know. I also can’t see myself actually being okay with that. Lol!
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