Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health What’s your opinion on people using porn/erotica in relationships?
Anonymous
To me if my boyfriend is using porn it’s usually because I didn’t give him enough sex as most men need sex everyday. My friend hates it when her husband is watching porn yet she doesn’t want to satisfy him sexually everyday which makes no sense at all. If she doesn’t want him to watch porn at all, she has to offer him sex everyday which is more effective. I don’t think it’s fair for him. She’s not being a good wife. If I were her, I will be satisfying my own husband sexually everyday if porn bothers me a lot. Mostly men use porn because their partners are not free to give them sex.
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 20I'm pretty sure all guys watch porn whether they are in a relationship or not. I just watch it with him so we can enjoy it together. It's actually been really good for our sex.
My wife never lets me watch p*** and rarely want sex
That’s cruel af. For me I don’t want my partner to watch porn but I’m willing to give him great sex twice a day, making him orgasm 3 times but I don’t want him to give me an orgasm.
Well that would be nice I only get sex once every few months
I heard to give a woman an orgasm is challenging but for men there’s this method called edging whereby when he’s about to cum he will have to stop thrusting wait for a while then thrust again, repeating that 3 or 4 times for maximum pleasure.
Ya I've done that with masturbating. At least she is fine with me doing that an let's me do it in bed
Is it hard for a man to find a partner who’s willing to give them sex twice a day?
*him
Yeah I think so I don't know anyone who gets at that much or maybe someone who just started dating
I haven't gotten sex since March on my birthday
Have you try talking to her about spending time with you in bed?
Yeah little she admitted that she used to do it a lot when she was younger but just really isn't into it anymore
I see nothing wrong with it as long as both people like it.
It depends. Sometimes there were also partners who don’t approve of their boyfriends or girlfriend masturbating to porn or erotica. Yet those same people (not all are like that), refused to give a better alternative which is sex.
If both are fine with it, it wouldn’t be an issue.
I agree, makes sense.