What’s your Strength and Weakness in the bedroom?

It can be physical, skill/ technique, creativity, etc. What’s your greatest strength AND greatness weakness. Explain why too
What’s your Strength and Weakness in the bedroom?
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  • I'm extremely vanilla in ways that might bore most women. So it was difficult for me to find ones sexually compatible with me. My wife is fortunately very compatible.

    Yet I'm allergic to role-playing, kinky stuff, BDSM stuff, sex toys in the bedroom, etc. I think it's because I view sex as one of the most intimate experiences two human beings can ever share with each other, and all these things seem like obstacles to seeing our most genuine selves.

    I'm also extremely skewed towards dom. I can't enjoy submissive positions at all. So I'm not very flexible when it comes to the bedroom. I test like so on some BDSM test:

    == Results from bdsmtest. org ==
    97% Dominant
    73% Vanilla
    67% Daddy/Mommy
    54% Voyeur
    45% Owner
    42% Experimentalist
    37% Exhibitionist
    35% Brat tamer
    34% Master/Mistress
    31% Primal (Hunter)
    16% Ageplayer
    1% Rigger
    1% Brat
    1% Non-monogamist
    0% Rope bunny
    0% Slave
    0% Degradee
    0% Boy/Girl
    0% Primal (Prey)
    0% Submissive
    0% Masochist
    0% Degrader
    0% Pet
    0% Sadist
    0% Switch

    It was very difficult for me to find sexually compatible women with results like this.

    • So I'm admittedly not very adventurous at all in the bedroom. My idea of being adventurous is like trying a new foreplay technique or a new sexual position (not a submissive one). :-D That's about as adventurous as I get.

    • As far as strengths go, I'm pretty decent physical shape and can last long, and I don't mind going down on women for however long it takes to get them to orgasm (my routine is to go down first until climax, then intercourse and aim for a second climax). I actually see going down on women as a dominant position since I'm in control of their pleasure. Meanwhile, I don't like receiving oral sex since that makes me feel submissive.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Strengths:
    Good at oral (despite hating oral).
    Good at communication and listening to what she wants, assuming she communicates with me.
    Fully dedicated to pleasing her, if it is within my capabilities to do so. (Pleasing her through penetration is not possible; I don't have the right tool to do that.)

    Weaknesses:
    Small penis (6.5).
    Thin penis (5.5).
    Not tall.
    Not super experienced; I've only had sex like 30 times.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Strengths? Very seductive, can go round after round with him all day (well up to 17 hours thus far), not afraid of having sex in public places, and will go the extremes to make the guy cum if he challenges me
    Weaknesses? Will only go the extreme
    within my boundaries lol. Firstly, I have to be in a longterm relationship to have sex and once I have sex, I’m freaknasty and sometimes like it sloppy but not in the experimental sense. I dont like period sex, sex toys, piss play, threesomes, nor bdsm.

    • That’s really good to have some boundaries

    • Yea but most would consider it vanilla

    • Nah it’s just being selective with your wildness

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  • My bigest weakness is my physical weakness. I can't ride dick without geting tired and out of breath.

    • You must have a strength too

    • Very little. I haven't been exercising for a very long time and have totally lost my finess.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • My strength is that I'm really into women, so I thoroughly enjoy her body, and I can last as long as she wants.
    Weakness is that I don't look like Chris Hemsworth or have a 10 inch dick like Danny D.

    • You’re doing pretty good bro

    • Thanks man. 🙂

  • Strength is I really like to pleasure her and I’m very adventurous.
    weakness is I Have a high sex drive and I can be very hyper in bed , moving around too much and flip flopping a lot... sometimes I just need to slow down

  • Strength: I'm good at working with what we both want, can figure out compromises and new ideas to get each done.

    Weakness: I have trouble communicating my boundaries which can make things frustrating sometimes.

  • Strengths would be good with communication, oral and stamina. Weakness is sometimes it's very hard for me to finish. Makes me feel bad, especially when my girl is awesome at knowing my spots.

    • Same here bro

    • Some guys think that would turn us off but for some of us, its like a challenge and would make us go to the extremes just to feel like a champ in the end lol. Do some of anything to make em cum

  • I'm attentive and get her off no matter what but I get nervous and can lose my boner if pressured too much or around a new woman.

  • Strength is I can go for multiple rounds in bed.
    Biggest weakness is getting longer blowjobs.

  • Strength = I can last as long as I want

    Weakness = i wish i was bigger

  • Strength High sex drive can go multiple long rounds and good at buildup
    Weakness , can be to dictating and dominant in bed which inturn gets partners too tired

  • Strength is that I’m very adventurous in the bedroom and have a high sex drive. Weakness is that I am kind of insecure about my body.