What's your thoughts on men paying women for sexual things?

[Avcfhcic]

Examples are paying for onlyfans, paying for nude photos or videos, paying for sexual things.

[Hot_Mess_Express]

If they are single and both consenting, thylan have fun. I'm not judging. But if you are in a monogamous relationship, that is a nono

[Avcfhcic]

What if I'm single but they are in a relationship but they are offering these services?

[Curiosity2006]

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[Avcfhcic]

Nice use of GIFs 😂

[summiter]

It is their money and their choice. They can always jerk off for free if they wanted to!

[Avcfhcic]

Jerking off all the time can't satisfy man forever

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s a waste of money

[Avcfhcic]

Even paying for a real sexual experience?

[BarryLiverstone]

An experience a one off. For example paying a stripper at a bachelor party as part of a night is part of the whole experience. Your examples of OF and prostitutes are a waste of money that could be invested

[Avcfhcic]

I'm a virgin the doesn't think I'll get anything with a girl relationship wise and want to experience giving oral. Would you say that's still a waste in that scenario?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes it is. Not only do you waste your money. But it’s a one time event and that doesn’t do anything to help you. So you are a virgin. What do you want? Do you want to get married, want to have a girlfriend and have Sex?

[Avcfhcic]

Of course! I want to be able to love someone and experience things with them. But I'm ugly, have no confidence and don't see myself finding a girlfriend anymore. And I'm frustrated

[BarryLiverstone]

Masturbate to cope with the frustration. Then start to talk to more girls irl. How many female friends do you have?

[Avcfhcic]

I work with a nearly all female workplace. I thought I had 1 good female friend, but she has ignored my message from a while ago

[BarryLiverstone]

I mean after work. Don’t just come home and watch yt and eat. Actually go out and join weekly clubs and events. Be social after work and on the weekends. Who cares if you think you look ugly? Over 50% of people feel they are unattractive. But if you make an effort to get out there and do things you like to do outside of your house that’s better than living alone. Right?

[Avcfhcic]

I guess I make excuses like I'm tired after work, but I'm bored at home. I just don't know where to begin

[BarryLiverstone]

A year ago you said you have been depressed for 6 years. So it’s a year later and nothing has changed. It’ll be 10 years later and nothing will change. Do you wanna be a virgin and alone at 40 To begin is easy. Have you told your doctor you are depressed?

[Avcfhcic]

Of course I don't want to be a virgin, that's what's sparked this idea of paying a girl for something just to be able to try. My depression isn't cured by medication or talking to someone, it's by me changing my life. I just am in a trough

[BarryLiverstone]

How can you know that you are not clinically depressed if you haven’t been to the doctor and been tested? Well you didn’t change it in a year. Go ahead and add a reminder on your phone on your 30th bday to try and change it

[Avcfhcic]

You can't be "tested" for depression, it's whether you match criteria for it. Regardless the treatment wouldn't help because I need to work on myself to fix this. I'm only 22, my profile age is a mistake

[BarryLiverstone]

And my point is a year ago you knew you had to work on it. I’m not convinced you will start the work. That’s why I said at age 30 in 8 years you can try another tactic.

[Avcfhcic]

I'm not convinced either, I have a lot of work to do and just need to figure a lot out

[BarryLiverstone]

Good luck bro, also make a new profile with your real age. The more you lie to yourself the more you hold yourself back

[BarryLiverstone]

But I’m a stranger online. So giving you an hour of my time replying to your q has had zero affect on your decisions. Right?

[Avcfhcic]

Appreciate it. And the age thing was more I didn't intend on keeping this account, I had an old account the I deleted and wanted to rekindle with people

[RobT312]

Not a fan myself but it will never end. People pay for porn

[slatyb]

Not s problem. Two counseling adults. WGAF?

[Miah05]

Honestly. It just makes the guy look weak and desperate. Hard to respect a man like that.

[Avcfhcic]

Do you see any valid reason when that's ok? For example a virgin who doesn't believe that'll change without paying for it.

[Miah05]

Nope.

[Avcfhcic]

What should I do then? I want to try things but no woman willing to try with

[AviatorTom]

It doesn't make a lot of sense to pay for things you can get for free elsewhere.

[Drumlin2001]

If paying for online content they are fools. Plenty of free material put there.
If paying for physical acts, striptease, escorts etc it's up to them. As long as both parties are willing it's just a contractual arrangement between them.

[Alexz0]

There is nothing wrong with it.

[Avcfhcic]

I'm contemplating paying for some type of sexual thing with a girl, but am torn on whether to do it or not. I like your profile photo 😍

[Alexz0]

Do what you are personally comfortable with. The opinions of others don't matter. Your life, your choice, it's you that needs to live with it.

[Avcfhcic]

I don't know which is the problem. I've always wanted a girlfriend to explore my sexual desires with, but I just don't see that happening. I don't see any girl wanting me

[Huntingnfishin]

Whatever floats your boat man. I think Onlyfans has probably paid for a hell of a lot of tuition, boats, cars, houses...

[Cubus]

It's cheaper to find a wife. But some can't and feel the need to pay.

[Avcfhcic]

The first part can't be right 😂, long term maybe... I feel like my only hope these days is handing money over

[Grovermint]

Why pay for it when there's thousands of women that are on there for free? What a waste of money.

[Avcfhcic]

Thousands that show no interest in a guy like me 😕

[Minahh]

They're desperate af

[Avcfhcic]

I'm ugly af...

[Anonymous]

Wasted money.

[Anonymous]

I believe in give n take policy so I don't mind paying...

[Avcfhcic]

What have you paid for?