What sex position would work best for virgins with a height difference?

Question

Hello everyone

My boyfriend and I made things official in late August of 2022, and we began experimenting sexually in November; so we first started with fingering, oral, and kissing and would do this for two hours+ and continued doing this up until a week ago when I finally got my IUD ( birth control). We also began introducing condoms, and about three days ago, we tried to have sex for the first time.
Keep in mind we are both virgins.
Unfortunately, things have not gone smoothly; we cannot find a position that works for both of us. I'm 5ft1, and he is 5ft7, so we have tried missionaries, and he hasn't been able to get it into the hole without it slipping out; furthermore, we did try my lying on my stomach, and that seems to work a bit, but I cannot feel anything.
We are not skinny and not too fat, so we are a bit lost and would appreciate some advice on which position we should try.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

There's something missing here. That's a non-existent height difference from a sex standpoint. My wife is 10 inches shorter than I am; we've never had an issue. So, there's something that you didn't write or that you guys are doing or not doing.

But... the answer to your question is 1) cowgirl or 2) you lay on the bed with your butt at the very edge and he stands and enters you from there.

oliver4love · Accepted Answer

1st try Woman on top.. Well, if you are not so tall you can really excel in having sex being on top. Also, you will be able to control the movement on top with your hips without using your legs.
Or you try Spooning is another sex position that works out for everyone. And because in spooning you are not standing but lying on your sides the height difference does not come into play.

ushagomez · Accepted Answer

Any and all positions should work for you. It sounds as if maybe he is not staying erect, which can be down to nervousness or a fear of causing pregnancy.

how about just enjoy exactly how you did previously but put a condom on him so he is used to it. Then when he stays hard go for cowgirl as you will be able to position him just right to slip inside….

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm short and I like really tall guys and as long as his dick finds its way into your pussy nothing else matters. It's super hot.

LiamSawyer · Answer

Cowgirl should work good for you both.

Dargil · Answer

Cowgirl. It suits everyone.

Chad345 · Answer

Maybe he could go down on you? 69? Doggie?

Twalli · Answer

Try cowgirl

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Doggys always good or cowgirl or greasy spoons maybe inverted butterfly

Pterodon · Answer

Cowgirl

OnTheLevel · Answer

Honestly, that's not much of a height difference. Pretty much any standard position should work for you guys.

driven159 · Answer

Cowgirl you on top

ERB62 · Answer

Doggie

tallblondejohm · Answer

U on top

Anonymous · Answer

I assume he was the one who asked you out

Anonymous · Answer

Ok… height isn't the problem here. This is user error. Sorry. Im 5’10, and have always been with women 5’0-5’3”. When all else fails position wise. Put the woman on her back in the bed. Climb in between her legs. Raise her knees ( you can even put her legs on your shoulders) and have at it. The bonus to this is if you do it right you get a nice amount of penetration as well.