Obviously, your movements are going to be restricted a lot in this position, so aren't going to be expected to do anything too crazy. Mostly, your guy wants to know that you are enthusiastic, that you are participating in some way, and that it feels good for you. Don't ever "fake" or lie, and you don't even need to exaggerate, just relax and let yourself go and get lost in the moment.
Having said that, here is a list of things a girl can do in missionary to participate and keep things hot:
- moan/make noise/dirty talk/tell him how good it feels/"faster"/"harder" (this is a high priority/to be done whenever possible!)
- Hold/squeeze his arms
- Rub his arms/chest/neck
- Squeeze/play with her boobs/nipples
- Cup her boobs/bring her nipple to his mouth when he goes to suck them
- Spread her legs wide for him/pull her knees back.
- Thrust back with her hips
- "Milk" his penis as he thrusts with her Kegel muscles (squeeze as he hits bottom and is pulling back, relax as he thrusts back in)
No one expects you to do all, or even most of these all at the same time, or even in the same session, but they're all things you can do that let him know how much you are into it (and into him) and how good it feels for you.
You can switch the positions up.
I have had this problem before with women.
I can do missionary all day and the girls I end up with can't even go on top for 5 minutes. Going missionary is not bad, it's just that if the girl only has sex in the missionary position she is considered a "flopping fish." There's so many positions to do it in so don't just do missionary or he'll think you're just lazy.
You're interest in him will do the talking. If he really likes that position and you're ok with it, that's great. But if he feels he is "doing all the work" he will get the impression that you may not be into him.
Kiss him, kiss his neck, put your arms around his neck or back, grab his ass if you can reach it, play with yourself if you can get your hand down there, thrust back against him so you're not just lying there. Position your legs differently (like on his shoulders if you can manage it) so both of you can get a different sensation. And don't forget to let him know how good it feels.
Unless he's got you pinned down in such a way that you can't move, you can thrust your hips too. Grab his arms, back, butt... or even touch yourself... run your fingers through his hair, kiss him or bite him...
In missionary.. There isn't much else to do. Put your hands on him some more and stuff maybe? Then flip it around and get on top and do some work for him..;)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You can touch the guy's back, his butt. My boyfriend let me scratch his back which often happens. How to be active? thrust against him by moving your hips against him ;)
1. Whichever guy said that probably didn't mean it the way you read it i.e. he didn't probably mean to refer to only missionary position
2. However, while in a missionary position the woman at times grabs the man's back or ass and ofcourse moan and stuff
3. You can also push your hips up to meet the rhythm
4. Move your legs around liek say spread them real wide and/or wrap them up tight around him etc
You've got hands and lips that aren't just painted on.Keep them busy.
just spread you legs as wide as you can and moan a lot. if you can reach his ass and kinda pull him inside of you that is really hot. knowing a woman wants you in her that much. but other then that you really don't have to do anything. Not sure where your reading your stuff but as long as you let us in, we will do the rest of the work.
kissing is fun, wrap your legs around him and pull his butt cheeks toward you that gets it in deeper which is good for him too. touch yourself, he'll like that too.
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