I'm getting married next month and my bride nor I have ever dated anyone else and we've never slept together. So, I need some advice. My best friend got married two years ago and he said that he wishes he would have made a honeymoon kit. I thought it was a good idea. I know everyone is different but we all have things in common. So, ladies, what would you like your guy to bring along to keep you excited and get you in the mood? Guys, what would bring along for yourself to help make it better for you?
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PrudentGuyGuru
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So two clueless virgins 😁😁😁 about to lose their V Cards to each other!!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
I have some suggestions, perhaps more than a mere honeymoon kit:
1) the pain, the blood, the style:
Yes, most women will bleed and pain their first time. And you being a virgin would probably make it worse.
Suggestion: go to a nice place and talk to her about it, particularly the pain part.
My SO told me it was "like the cut of a razor".
Hence tell her that and then research together how to ease it. Plenty of online materials.
Finally: make a resolution - that you will fuck in missionary position, and you will PUSH IN IN ONE GO and break her hymen once and for all. (Yes, get her approval and assure her it's for the best of both.)
Kit: coconut oil, thick towel to place below her.
2) if you do not want kids, put her on pills IMMEDIATELY. It may need a full month to be effective.
Yes, let the First Time be bare.
Insert IUDs (preferred) if you not plan to have kids for at least 2 years.
3) Talk Part 2: start a nude lifestyle now, and a "sex-filled lifestyle" after marriage.
First time is usually among the worst. Ya, worst. There will be no unicorn, no angelic chorus nor anything you expect now.
Worse, you both may feel "is that all to sex?"
But trust me on this. The subsequent times will he better. And the subject weeks to come.
Hence, be determined to have a "sex-filled lifestyle". You'll thank me 6 months later.
Kit: romantic expressions that you made for each other now, to start a "sex-filled lifestyle".
4) she would be awkward. Yes dude, sex is best done naked. 100% naked, no jewelry, no makeup, no clothes.
And she will be very awkward.
Hence talk about it now and both should start a nude lifestyle when you have privacy.
And on that day, she have to show her vulnerability and switch the lights on.
And you have to assure her of your love and responsibility as her husband.
Kit: scents to raise her libido. Jasmine, ylang ylang are good. Perhaps soft music may help. Hence have a Playlist.
Kit: a less awkward way to undress is to play a strip game (can use cards with rules you set now), then go for a bath.
To conclude, Congratulations again and it's wonderful to see another virgin marriage. The "Kit" is not for the honeymoon only.
Start preparing it now. Talk and discuss what I wrote asap. Know the worst case, not best. Sex in an art and hence improves with experience. Thus agree now, for a "sex-filled (nude) lifestyle" and begin immediately after the wedding day.
Wish you a happy marriage!
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Booya270Xper 6
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Honestly the only thing I can think of that would be probably good for both of you without being too weird would be a blindfold and maybe some handcuffs
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BlondeandfreeYoda
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You must take with you a water based lube. Thatβs a most. And if youβre talking about toys then a vibrator. With that you can massage her clit very smoothly so she can get very excited and you can help her to get very wet with the lube. There are some that are water based eating lubes. Those are great so you can eat her out and she can give you BJβs and have a lot of fun both of you together.
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Blondeandfree
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Wow thanks for MHG :))
Siren777Guru
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Congratulations! All the best🥰 Find out what she might be interested in trying first but my list below. Sexiest lingerie, toys, silk ties instead - (as cuffs won't do well with tsa) haha, blind fold, games, condoms?, birthcontrol.
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