What should happen after the guy orgasms before the girl?

The guy usually orgasms before me and I am left feelings really awkward and horny. I’ve slept with a few guys that basically just get off of me after they orgasm. There was one guy that went down on me after he finished. I don’t think that I can orgasm very well. What should a guy do once he orgasms first?
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  • He should make sure he does whatever it takes to get you off, either going down on you, using his fingers/hand, whatever it takes.

  • If the Man orgasms before His mate, it's up to Him to continue and bring His Lover into finishing. If He refuses, He cannot be called a Gentleman.

  • He should go down on her or finish her off some other way.

  • If that's the case you're doin' it wrong.

  • I hate to say this my ultimate goal is to make us cum together, or after the girlfriend not the other way around. Demand more petting and/or oral skills from them. You deserve it or they are the inexperienced ones.

  • Well sounds like they dont care happens a lot in hookups so if its a relationship then you can get a guy to care

  • He should put in the effort to make her orgasm, even if he can't stay hard at that point, either with his hands or tongue.

  • In these circumstances, I'll usually watch you through the "buzz"

  • That's difficult to say. Chances are, if that happens consistently, they most likely don't know how to make you orgasm. So... he should just do the walk of shame

  • All are vain

    • What does that mean

  • That's why I don't cum until she has, multiple times.

  • He should eat her out till she cums

  • Well, he shouldn’t orgasm before you.
    If he occasionally still does, I think he should finish you with his tongue or fingers. Whatever you like best.

  • It’s called a little blue pill.

  • To finish the job and make sure that you get off and enjoy it as much as he does. I hope that you are using protection, but it should be more about y'all both enjoying the experience than about either one getting off first

  • He should make sure you get off, preferably he should get you off at least once before he gets off himself.

  • Well sit on his face or tell him to do what I do every time I let her cum first then I do and she does twice once in awhile

  • He should finish it. Make sure you orgasm as well.

  • I had a like a one night stand kinda thing and made her cum twice didn't get to myself. And dont get me wrong I get it if your done your done like but was frustraiting lol if I cum first I usually offer to help the girl cum with my hands /mouth etc but didn't get the offer and felt too rude to ask.. it might be my fault for not asking lol

  • You should go make him a sandwich.

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