You neede to "go and caught him"? Ok... thats not nice, imagine you would be in his shies, and he would caught you, or having sex? What would you do?
Ok... i agree in some parts he is too young for the age of 9, and something can happen, now like someone on here say... You take him aside and talk to him, tell him (not scare him) that what he does is not good, or it will lead to depression, nit wanting physical connection with girls nomore... stuff like that!.
Trust me! To have a 9 year old and tell your parents about it, like any family member will, it will scar him for some time or fir the rest of his life, now the thing is that, you might want to "talk to you'r parents" about it, but you need to see you you can talk to, without putting your brother in to "trauma"... like you can bring it out like a "thought" and talk it from there... otherwise one or both of the parents can jump/scream at him and... thats it!. You'r brother's sexual life, later in life, would be out the window...
P. S... the urge to "caught" him kinda sounds a bit "kinki"... lol... just saying...0 0 0 0
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cheer him on... its none of your business and its perfectly normal and natural...
you are the one with the hangup, NOT him...
let him know that its normal, but also let him know it should be done in private, and that its not proper to do it where someone may see him...0 0 0 0
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This year while on a summer on holiday with my family I caught my boyfriend spying on my two sisters and my cousin sunbathing topless, he was aroused and stroking it. It had been nearly a week since we did it. He was embarrassed and appologised when I angrily asked him what he was doing but he couldn't find the right words. I just decided boys will be boys and men have urdges. Though still pissed at him I made him keep looking at them topless by the pool while I sucked him off. He's lucky he has such a big cock of id have dumped his stupid ass by now.
0 2 0 0If he already knows about sex and all this its already too late. I knew a boy around his age who knew what sexual words meant and acts. Its only getting worse with social media and technology the best you can is talk to your parents or talk to him calmly and just make sure he doesn't end up going out and having sex cause he's way too young.
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9 48Nine years old and supposedly already masturbates? Cool story, bro
0 0 0 0Not cool
Whatever you say, dude
Tell him it'll drop off
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How would you feel if he really needed to go, barged into the bathroom, and found you fingering yourself to orgasm?
0 1 0 0Tell him he needs to be quicker?
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If he masturbates in a natural, healthy way I would just accept it.
If he masturbates watching porn online I would try to see what kind of material he is watching because that can be dangerous for his mental health0 1 0 0Lol yah I would say anything not unless you need it to hold over his head 1 day I was cough a couple times by my stem mom and all the things going through his head has he said anything to you about it
0 0 0 0Do you know he was genuinely masturbating or maybe just touching himself. There is a difference. Boys will touch their penises and play with them - it's like a new toy we discover in the bathtub when we are toddlers. It isn't until adolescence that we start jerking-off. 9 seems a little too young for that.
0 0 2 0He jerked off
He started hanging out with the older kids so it might be the reason
It’s natural...
0 2 0 0Its natural!
Leave the kid alone !0 1 0 0You shouldn't say anything, just remind him that other people need to use the bathroom.
0 0 0 0I think I should I checked his phone and he trying to found out where to have sex
9?
I think i wld be concerned how he discovered this at that age.1 0 0 0I already know now
As long as itz not sumthing concerning. But maybe someone needs 2 talk 2 him bout it.
He was hanging out with people my age
Tell your parents so they can educate him properly. I've had similar issues with my brother.
1 2 0 0If you had a younger sister and you caught them, would you treat them the same way?
No, I would probably teach them
Wow now that gross
Does he have his own room? If he does, he should be masturbating there with his door closed. But if he doesn't have his own room I can see why he would do it in the bathroom. I started masturbating when I was 9 also, but it might make you feel a little better to know that a 9 year old boy isn't ejaculating any cum to make a mess in the bathroom.
0 0 0 0I'd roast him on the daily and do the same. Take my sweet time in the restroom.
0 0 0 0First masturbation is normal and healthy. He needs to be more respectful of your needs though. Why not suggest to him politely to use his bedroom. I do not know how you saw him but you should apologize.
0 0 0 0*How would it benefit him?
*How would it benefit you?
*How would it benefit whomever you tell?
*How about the downside of each?0 0 0 0Tell him to do it in his bedroom, if he has one, and get him a box of Kleenex.
0 0 0 0How would you feel if someone caught you masturbating? Would you want them to talk to you about it? Probably not. Just forget it happened, and knock next time b4 entering.
0 0 0 0Talk to him in a very discrete, nonjudgmental kind of way, but
Tell him, next time to lock the door
And let you know, when it is okay to
Come in and tell him it's natural.0 0 0 0yep its over you are scarred lol
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