What should I do?

My girlfriend brags about the size my penis to her friends. She has always done this and I told her that it embarrasses me. Her best friend has started flirting with me every time my girlfriend leaves the room. She recently asked me if she could see “it”. I was totally shocked that she would ask that and told her I couldn’t do that. Last weekend a friend of mine came over to help me put and engine in my car. We had quite a few beers and smoked some kush. My girlfriend and her friend were planning on going to a movie and asked if I wanted to go. I was exhausted and buzzed so I told her they should go ahead and go without me. My girlfriend went to take a shower and I dozed off in my recliner. I woke up to her friend deepthroating me. I was ejaculating as I pushed her off of me. I didn’t know it at the time that she had her phone on the coffee table recording the whole time. She has since sent me the video and told me that she wants to see how “it” feels inside her and that if I don’t then she will tell my girlfriend that I asked her to suck me off. What should I do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • 😮😮omg. Well I think you should’ve told your girlfriend about the first time when she asked to see it. That girl is horrible friend. But since you didn’t and now she has a video, you should tell your girlfriend now. I think her friend is just gona keep threatening you with it, and the longer you wait to tell your girlfriend what happened, I think the less she’ll trust you and that girl will keep trying to blackmail you and get more things from you. This situation is crazy, it’s like a movie. I’m sorry you’re going through this. But I suggest just telling her asap

    • Absolutely right

  • That’s blackmail and also a form of rape. Your girlfriend won’t stop if she doesn’t know her best friend is doing this. Be honest. If she doesn’t believe you, then she’s not the right person to have a relationship with.

    • I’ve been considering telling her what happened and I know that you are right. I’m just having a tough time figuring out how to tell her. They have been friends for a long time.

    • Who seriously cares about that at this point? I don’t know whether you can go to the police with this matter but if you can, I’d also consider doing that. Your girlfriends friendship getting broken is the least of your problem.

    • Thank you for the advice. I feel so awkward now when her friend comes over that I either leave or go out to my garage when she’s around.

Most Helpful Guys

  • First, you won't be able to stop your girlfriend from bragging about you being hung. Tell her about the friend and what happened and that if her friend can't keep her hands and her texts to herself, she shouldn't have her around.

  • Dude, talk to your girlfriend and tell her to control her friend. She sexual assaulted you and is trying to blackmail you.

    • Like I told the woman above that commented. I’ve pretty much decided to tel her. Just trying to figure out how.

    • Okay dude

    • Thanks! I’ve been stressing over this and talking about it and getting opinions seems to help the stress.

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  • That’s clearly sexual assault! Plain and simple!

  • Dude you better talk to your girl about it

  • WHO THE FK IS IT IM GOING TO FUCK HER UP SO FUCKING GODAMN BAD NO ONE WILL BE ABLE TO FIND ALL THE PIECES LET ALONE RECOGNIZE