What should I do?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month, we just now started talking about sex and what we like and dislike. We are both really shy so we were trying to check in with each other to make sure we didn’t over step or make the other person feel uncomfortable, I was trying to ask him his opinion on toys and things like that. I didn’t really specify as to why I wanted to know but he just said he’s never used them but they don’t bother him, which is reassuring somewhat due to the fact I don’t think vaginal stimulation is enough for me to cum and I like using a vibrator on my clit. How can I ask him if we can use a toy when we do end up having sex? I’m nervous he’s just saying it doesn’t bother him but doesn’t really mean it I just don’t want to ask and get judged
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I have a similar issue in that I find it hard to orgasm during sex. Just be honest and explain that you've had issues in the past and you found a way which works for you and it involves a toy. Hopefully he'll be understanding.

Most Helpful Girls

  • More talking and really what helped me is... My perpid cramps!

    They hurt skotband my vibrator helps me. Talk about using it with cramps see how he feels.

    But this went both ways so he probably won't want it with sex. If so then you know it won't end well.

    Latter he won't want if if he did not want you using it from the start with sex!

    Also really suggest my butterfly sucker and vibrator! Gives amazing clit stim and inside love as well!

    Maybe your boyfriend will wanna control it too?

  • There is nothing wrong with incorporating that into the sex life. You can always keep it nearby

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  • Explain the statistics and female anatomy on orgasims.

    There are better written articles on the subject elsewhere

  • Those toys desensitize you much like porn desensitized men. Just as you cannot compete with a porn star he can't compete with the Ultravibe Jackhammer 9000. I recommend you figure out how to get off without them.

  • Well, if it were me, I'd find it a turn on, and a lot of guys would be just fine with it. So just ask.

  • I assume he was the one that asked you out and pursued you