What should I do?

I'm a Muslim girl. My husband wants blowjob and anal sex from me. Blowjob might be done and as there is no direct prohibition for it but he wants anal. He says he wants to try it. But as per Islam it's haram what should I do?
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  • nope, don't do that... that's that. tell him to get over it and move on. ask where he got this idea... from allah? or corrupt humans selfish humans hell bent on their own pleasures? I'd suggest flogging himself until he's in misery, that should change his mind.

    in your religion, something goes wrong... it's your fault. so you are the boss...

Most Helpful Guy

  • I come from a Muslim background and my wife is an imam’s daughter. We’ve had oral, anal and everything in between. God has no business in the bedroom. These laws were created by men 2 thousand years ago, not god. A consensual sex act between a married couple doesn’t affect anyone?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him that it is against your religious beliefs and that you will not compromise. If he pushes the idea after you say this, consider breaking up with him, as he is not respecting your boundaries.

  • Do you actually want to do it? And don't take religion into that answer. If religion wasn't a thing would you wanna do anal?

    • If religion wasn't a thing, I'd try.

    • Then try. Why let something dictate what you wanna do? That's dumb. By your religion you're basically nothing more than a house wife to please her man. Do shit you wanna do because you want to. Not cause he wants to or religion wants you to. Because you wanna

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  • Can you tell him "sorry, it's against my religion"?

  • I don't know but I am sure anal is a sin in your religion

    • u could always say a no

  • Do what You are comfortable with. If he can't respect that then you have some thinking to do.

  • Then tell him it's haram.
    Is you husband not Muslim?

    • He doesn't consider it. He's like he wants it

    • Oh, then stand your ground. If you dont't want it, then don't. He can't make you do things that is against your will. Or else that will be sexual harassment.

    • You are right

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  • Ditch Islam. That religion is pure stupidity anyways.

    Enjoy sex the way you desire with your husband.

  • your law is total bullshit. think for a minute -- your religion promotes polygamy and underaged marriages... but, it drawls the line at anal? that ain't kosher. besides, if your religious leaders are like the conservative leaders here -- then, you can bet that they're doing all that they preach against -- bastardizing my own faith.

  • between a couple all okay, go for it.

  • convert and become a Christian?

    • Is it allowed in Christianity. The Bible doesn’t say so

    • @Tim2nice It is precisely because it is not allowed in Christianity that you should convert

    • So you’re suggesting she swaps one nonsense for another?

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  • You can divorce your husband. Because in Islam, a woman has the right to divorce her husband if he demands anal sex.

  • No, this is a post from a man.

  • Isn’t any type of sexual activity against your religion? My former friends was muslin and told me any sexual activity outside of marriage is considered a sin

    • Sin is fictional crime